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Is It Difficult For A Sub female to Find Lesbian Dominant? - 12/11/2016 9:10:11 PM

WMDom26CA

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I was talking to a submissive woman at a BDSM group. She said she has the hardest time finding a lesbian dominant woman. All the Dominants she knows prefer men over women as submissive.

I told her she is crazy! Just go to CS and all these young and beautiful Lesbian Dominants are looking for female submissives.

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RE: Is It Difficult For A Sub female to Find Lesbian Do... - 12/11/2016 9:34:36 PM

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Can somebody explain to me why we don't have a "you're a dick" emoji? It would save me so many keystrokes.

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RE: Is It Difficult For A Sub female to Find Lesbian Do... - 12/11/2016 10:23:15 PM

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RE: Is It Difficult For A Sub female to Find Lesbian Do... - 12/12/2016 5:26:00 AM

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It's difficult for a sub of any gender to find a top without paying. There are less female subs after a Dominatrix than male subs, but the numbers are still such that they favour the tops over the bottoms.

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RE: Is It Difficult For A Sub female to Find Lesbian Do... - 12/12/2016 10:23:13 AM

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It's difficult for a sub of any gender to find a top without paying.

Really? I think this might have more to do with the sub in question than overall availability. At events were I volunteer, there is all kinds of pick-up play going on. Unless someone has poor social skills, poor hygiene, or has been excluded for previous poor behavior; finding someone with whom to play isn't a huge ordeal.

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RE: Is It Difficult For A Sub female to Find Lesbian Do... - 12/12/2016 11:56:15 AM

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Love your comment.

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RE: Is It Difficult For A Sub female to Find Lesbian Do... - 12/12/2016 12:00:12 PM

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It's difficult for a sub of any gender to find a top without paying.

I don't know about that, I found two of them. But then again I didn't find them online (or in the community for that matter). You'd be surprised at how kinky vanilla people really are when you give them the chance to cut loose.

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RE: Is It Difficult For A Sub female to Find Lesbian Do... - 12/12/2016 12:01:52 PM

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just as hard to find a REAL LESBIAN, plenty of women out there. xx

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RE: Is It Difficult For A Sub female to Find Lesbian Do... - 12/12/2016 12:50:37 PM

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ORIGINAL: WhoreMods

It's difficult for a sub of any gender to find a top without paying.

I never had a problem finding a Top of either gender to play with, but then again, I was also very active withing my community. I had a lot of offers when I was single and mostly played with women because I didn't want the issues that arouse from playing with men.

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RE: Is It Difficult For A Sub female to Find Lesbian Do... - 12/12/2016 1:39:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
I never had a problem finding a Top of either gender to play with, but then again, I was also very active withing my community. I had a lot of offers when I was single and mostly played with women because I didn't want the issues that arouse from playing with men.

Exactly why, at any given time, a full third of my casual play (non-sexual) play partners are women.

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RE: Is It Difficult For A Sub female to Find Lesbian Do... - 12/12/2016 1:51:32 PM

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the issues that arouse from playing with men

Pretty much why i want nothing to do with the "community".

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RE: Is It Difficult For A Sub female to Find Lesbian Do... - 12/12/2016 3:09:11 PM

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quote:

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the issues that arouse from playing with men

Pretty much why i want nothing to do with the "community".

The issues had nothing to do with the community. It had to do with men expecting/feeling entitled to more than what was being offered. And that happened far more outside of the community than within it.

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RE: Is It Difficult For A Sub female to Find Lesbian Do... - 12/12/2016 4:17:30 PM

ThatDizzyChick

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The issues had nothing to do with the community.

They did to me

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It had to do with men expecting/feeling entitled to more than what was being offered.

Yeah, among other things

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And that happened far more outside of the community than within it.

Not to me.

Different experiences of the same issue.

I am glad, really glad, that you and lady Pact, and so many others have had such a positive experience with "the community", I don't share those experiences, my experience was utterly negative (and creepy, pedophilic, and rapey), and I have managed very well without the community ever since. However, I still do advise people to give it a try, because of people like you and LP, and the obviously good experiences you have had with it. It's just not for me, I have no desire to give it a second chance. Call it a trigger issue if you like.

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RE: Is It Difficult For A Sub female to Find Lesbian Do... - 12/12/2016 4:38:51 PM

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I met M at the Orange County Social.

My BF at the time was out of town doing publicity for his book, mutual friends talked me into going to the social to hang with them. M was one of their friends and the two of us ended up becoming good friends.

Three years later, when R~ and I had broken up, M was the guy trying to get me out of the house - suddenly things clicked and we've been together for 17 years.

So, while I acknowledge that it doesn't work for everyone, I can certainly vouched that it worked for me.

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RE: Is It Difficult For A Sub female to Find Lesbian Do... - 12/12/2016 4:40:59 PM

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I mostly just met creepy old men who wanted me to pretend to be their daughter when they fucked me.

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RE: Is It Difficult For A Sub female to Find Lesbian Do... - 12/12/2016 4:52:10 PM

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I started out in the Los Angeles community, which meant that there's a large pool of people. While I certainly did hit on by some creepy old guys and an amazingly large number of liars - I also gained a large pool of friends that were around my age.

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RE: Is It Difficult For A Sub female to Find Lesbian Do... - 12/13/2016 12:17:31 AM

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Never mind

< Message edited by ThatDizzyChick -- 12/13/2016 12:19:49 AM >

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RE: Is It Difficult For A Sub female to Find Lesbian Do... - 12/19/2016 3:33:01 PM

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@OP

BTW, "all these young and beautiful Lesbian Dominants" are usually fake or spam.

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RE: Is It Difficult For A Sub female to Find Lesbian Do... - 12/21/2016 6:08:07 AM

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The site is positively brimming with Hot lesbo whores bags from outer space and almost everyone a model at that…..Alas, >99% of these profiles are infact men...scamming fuks aside.

Women are like pixie dust on here...depending on maths you will find about 1 genuine women to 50 men (how many of these 50 men are genuine i have no idea). How many of the 51 are single, looking, liars etc i have no idea.

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RE: Is It Difficult For A Sub female to Find Lesbian Do... - 12/21/2016 8:30:40 AM

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wmdom. send her to me IF SHE IS REAL . XX Amanda .

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