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oh..and by the way - 12/14/2016 8:02:56 PM   
totalcontrolD4s


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Status: offline 		Folks..we take all of this to a cartoonish level. Obviously a first world problem.
1. you cant be owned,,and there are no Masters or Slaves. Definitions will trip us up....
In bdsm there are "distinctions" that allow adults to play, and have fun....period.
Have a nice day.
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RE: oh..and by the way - 12/14/2016 8:09:59 PM   
ThatDizzyChick


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RE: oh..and by the way - 12/14/2016 8:16:17 PM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		I actually agree with some of this. I think there's no such thing as consensual slavery. But, if someone else likes to have relationship that has those terms, then that's their business.

Oh, and there are people that live D/s relationships 24/7, it's about more than just"play".

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RE: oh..and by the way - 12/14/2016 9:20:29 PM   
Spiritedsub2


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Status: offline 		His profile says discretion is crucial, so presumably for him play is all his marriage allows time for.

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RE: oh..and by the way - 12/14/2016 11:50:13 PM   
stef


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RE: oh..and by the way - 12/16/2016 7:24:37 AM   
WindAndSky


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Status: offline 		Probably hoping that his target demographic (women literally half his age) will be impressed with his nuggets of wisdom and flock to him.

Sweetie... we know that slavery isn't legal, and BDSM isn't "real" slavery. But um, thanks.

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RE: oh..and by the way - 12/16/2016 8:40:06 AM   
WhoreMods


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Status: offline 		Never mind that, what's a D4s?
Is it one of these weird grey market knockoffs of a 3DS or something?

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RE: oh..and by the way - 12/16/2016 1:48:57 PM   
megaenn


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Status: offline 		Glad to see not the only one that was thinking a 3Ds thing lol

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RE: oh..and by the way - 12/18/2016 5:15:45 PM   
DocStrange


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RE: oh..and by the way - 12/21/2016 9:26:55 AM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		In reality there is also no such thing as "Total Control", the screen name you chose. Your post should have started with "in my opinion" because it has nothing to do with reality for many other people and the community in general. You might find this thread has some interesting perspectives. both pro and con, that may educate and broaden your view on the subject of labels: -=Sub/Slave, Guppy/Shark, Role Mislabeling Fatal, Shame on You=-

Definitions are vital to communication. You chose to label yourself as a Male Dominant seeking a woman that wants to surrender to you. Those are labels that communicate and define who you are and what you seek. Just because you choose limit your definition/label doesn't mean we should or that you should overlook or discount the labels we use. You will miss out on a lot with such narrow perspectives.

And.... even in the vanilla world, there are legal forms of ownership. When my son-in-law wanted to marry an Asian girl, he had to wait for her 4 year contract as a bond servant to another family to end before he could marry her and bring her to the states. At your age you should know that broad sweeping presumptive statements require a broad sweeping perspective to be accurate.

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RE: oh..and by the way - 12/21/2016 10:12:47 AM   
DesFIP


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RE: oh..and by the way - 12/22/2016 5:36:57 AM   
ExiledSlave


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ORIGINAL: totalcontrolD4s

Folks..we take all of this to a cartoonish level. Obviously a first world problem.
1. you cant be owned,,and there are no Masters or Slaves. Definitions will trip us up....
In bdsm there are "distinctions" that allow adults to play, and have fun....period.
Have a nice day.


Well, I feel a lot better now. I'm pretty sure my ass is still going to work today and I'm very confident that I'm still handing Master my paycheck, but this is all good to know.

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RE: oh..and by the way - 12/22/2016 7:33:20 AM   
Greta75


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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
When my son-in-law wanted to marry an Asian girl, he had to wait for her 4 year contract as a bond servant to another family to end before he could marry her and bring her to the states.

WTF? What Bond Servant? What country is this Asian girl from?

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RE: oh..and by the way - 12/22/2016 7:34:36 AM   
Greta75


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ORIGINAL: WindAndSky
Sweetie... we know that slavery isn't legal, and BDSM isn't "real" slavery. But um, thanks.

Actually for me, it's refreshing to hear a dominant leaning person say this.
Because some of the dominants here online sometimes...., keeps thinking it's real slavery with like no realistic idea at all about how this works in real life.

Of course it's the internet, so you will get alot of people who probably never engaged in real life.

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RE: oh..and by the way - 12/22/2016 10:04:55 AM   
tamaka


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ORIGINAL: totalcontrolD4s

Folks..we take all of this to a cartoonish level. Obviously a first world problem.
1. you cant be owned,,and there are no Masters or Slaves. Definitions will trip us up....
In bdsm there are "distinctions" that allow adults to play, and have fun....period.
Have a nice day.


You don't know what you don't know.
Try reading about internal enslavement and enlighten yourself. Consider it a Christmas present. ....You're welcome.

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RE: oh..and by the way - 12/23/2016 12:40:25 AM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		I agree with you totalcontrol,

thus why BDSM is an inside game, a silent composition of right from wrong.

yet, if you are not into it, ignore it. So simple.

Real slavery is the-sh*ttiest reality of all. Something most of us nor you will ever see or feel, so be glad that others can only convince themselves that this is a faux-harsh reality and mind-ya. We are all volunteers.


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RE: oh..and by the way - 12/23/2016 12:47:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

It's a little hard to have total control when your wife might find out.

oh thats soooooooo true:)

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RE: oh..and by the way - 12/23/2016 7:33:15 AM   
DocStrange


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Status: offline 		The Man Song
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uy5gRxjxHtg

I don't take no crap from anyone else but you,
I wear the pants around here when I'm finished with your laundry,
Cause I'm a guy you don't wanna fight,
When I say jump you say, "Yeah Right!"
I'm the man of this house until you get home

(He's the man, He's the man)

What I say goes around here right out the window,
And I don't want to hear alot of whining so I'll shut up,
The sooner you learn whos boss around here
The sooner you can give me my orders dear,
Cause I'm head huncho around here but its all in my heeeeaaaadddd!!

(He's the man, He's the man)

And I can have s** any time that you want,
Cause I'm a man who has needs but they're not that important,
And don't expect any flowers from me cause if I'm not mistaken you perfer jewlery,
I'm the king of my castle when your not around,

(He's the man, He's the man)

And I'll drink and watch sports whenever I want to get in trouble,
And I'll come home when I'm good and ready, to sleep on the couch,
Cause a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do,
And I'm gonna do what you tell me to,
Because I'm top dog around here but I've been nutered!!

(He's the man, He's the man)

You da man!

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RE: oh..and by the way - 12/23/2016 8:30:53 AM   
WickedsDesire


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Status: offline 		oh goodie a song...who remembers The Goodies https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Invc4F6J_kQ

I prefer the term-words "rainbow" "spectrum". I intently dislike monstrous stereotypes, errant information, cavity stretches, those who take advantage of the weak and vulnerable and idiots who are brain washed into believing all the aforementioned waffle...Know how many bans that has cost me over the epochs?..Zero on this site curiously .

Regulars on CM - ive never really seen any of them do this so i am a little perplexed as to whom you are referring too. ive seen plenty of regulars do it on that other place and forum mods owners contributors enabling them etc fair makes my blood boil...well technically i have no blood its a delicious mix of chardonnay and cake sugar.

whilst i agree with your words the relevancy escapes me


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RE: oh..and by the way - 12/23/2016 11:07:43 PM   
CaptR


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ORIGINAL: came4U

Real slavery is the-sh*ttiest reality of all. Something most of us nor you will ever see or feel, so be glad that others can only convince themselves that this is a faux-harsh reality and mind-ya. We are all volunteers.


You are more right than you know. Real slavery exists here in our own back yards. Real slavery still exists to this day in countries where it wasn't officially abolished until the 1960's. To witness it's inhumanity is terrible. Sadly the weak, poor, desperate and uneducated will always be prey to those able to take advantage. Thank the God(s) of your choice we in this lifestyle and modern culture (for the most part) have the choice to make. I'm eternally grateful to be a slave only to my desires.

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