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RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone - 1/2/2017 2:54:23 AM

NerdsThunderCat

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My owner is afraid to be seen as actually racist and I think it's. Funny in a way

he has roommates and I don't really care what most people think of me but he really does

I want to explain to them i know he is not gonna be so open to the idea

They do know we're Master and slave but it was stressed sooo much on his part that's it wasn't about race

And this was before I had ever met anyone of them and us meeting was just an idea

And at the time I wasn't willing or wanting to explore raceplay with anyone else other that past partners I had

Well that was a short lived "brake" from raceplay because I just love it and. The other kinks I have and he is willing to do lack the emotional side and the degradation I crave

I have not said anything about wanting to be open about this to him

And I don't want them to Think because my owner says things to me or makes orders that they can as well but

Just the being able to scrub the floor and. Walls and be ignored is really all I want aside from the verbal parts of it witch really can be whispered to keep from offending anyone

Is it pushing it ?

Am I wanting a bit too much ?

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RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone - 1/2/2017 9:11:18 AM

CaptR

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No you are not pushing it. It's incumbent upon him to make the roommates aware this play is a private matter between you and he. Hopefully they will honor his/your desires. It can be very low key providing a comfort level that suits you both.

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RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone - 1/2/2017 1:38:13 PM

ThatDizzyChick

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Am I wanting a bit too much ?

Maybe, it really depends on the people involved. With us and the Fellas' friends, they have had to learn that while sometimes they will get to fuck me, at other times they have to keep their hands to themselves, and that it is up to the Fellas to decide which is which, and that the fellas aren't interested in being nagged about it. Some of them couldn't learn that, and they aren't invited round anymore.
In your case, since it is roommates, and thus can't be uninvited, CaptR is right, your owner has to make it clear to them exactly where the boundaries are, and to what extent, if any, they get to participate.

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RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone - 1/2/2017 10:05:04 PM

NerdsThunderCat

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Thank-you I was feeling like it would be selfish if I had asked

And my owner dose not get nagged that's Just not allowed in our relationship unless it's for sex but I don't think anyone would mind that

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