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NerdsThunderCat -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/28/2016 6:14:35 AM)
And as far as my belief I just feel that if they can choose to be with a consenting adult and find gratification sexually and Then still seek out to harm children they are a bit more sick and should be called something else but I'm not a doctor I don't get to make up the labels and terms I just feel how I feel about them

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/28/2016 6:16:35 AM)
quote: And as far as my belief I just feel that if they can choose to be with a consenting adult and find gratification sexually and Then still seek out to harm children Look, I never said a fucking thing about harming children or anyone, in fact I never said a thing about doing anything, only having a preference. Pay attention, for Christ's sake.

NerdsThunderCat -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/28/2016 6:20:52 AM)
That's what you said that's what I said I was paying attention

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/28/2016 6:24:03 AM)
No you weren't, you haven't been all along. I'm tired of you and your fluff now, I am done with you as far as this issue is concerned. I have answered your original question.

WickedsDesire -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/28/2016 6:41:03 AM)
Has anyone actually explained what it is yet...if so direct me to the correct page...actually just send an email to me with link(s) title email to "loon" I will read Few things bother me, those two words together bother me..so I looked it up to see if it was a real thing - far as i can see it is not...yes that forum on that other place really, really bothers me......still going that forum I presume *sad face This thread better not be about what I think it is.

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/28/2016 6:46:58 AM)
quote: This thread better not be about what I think it is. I couldn't say, I would never hazard a guess as to what you think about anything.

CaptR -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/28/2016 10:57:50 AM)
How on earth did this thread degenerate into a pissing match about pedophilia😒

DocStrange -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/28/2016 12:36:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Years ago some part owner of a dungeon down south threw a tantrum because he had bought himself an authentic Nazi storm trooper outfit and the other owners decided he couldn't wear it there. They were solely concerned with the bottom line. And a majority of the patrons were squicked by this and announced they were resigning as members. He didn't get it, that he couldn't force people to pay money to be uncomfortable and not enjoy themselves. He really thought it didn't matter. I find that interesting. I can see location could come into play if you were in a heavily Jewish location possibly? Just thinking out loud here? I spent 2 years helping run a private dungeon is Dusseldorf. The Nazi nurse interrogator scene was a fairly common request there. We would see it twice a month if not more. If any place found it offensive I would have thought it would be in Germany. But evidently not. The German's enjoy their kink. And I have to say, A nurse in a shiny black long sleeve dress, shiny black stockings, white white rubber pinafore, white and black rubber nurse cap, and red and black rubber arm swastika is a very hot scene!

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/28/2016 12:42:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CaptR How on earth did this thread degenerate into a pissing match about pedophilia😒 because I pointed out the hypocrisy of the "community", and as happens whenever that happens they lost their collective shit.

Wayward5oul -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/28/2016 12:56:00 PM)
In summary- there is not a complete consensus in the kink community that "your kink is not my kink but your kink is okay". There are things that are recognized as kink, such as raceplay, but because of the emotional triggers involved, would still be uncomfortable for some kinksters. Raceplay is only one example, there are others. There are also subjects that can be argued to technically meet the definition of kink, but because of longstanding moral, legal, consent, etc issues are not normally accepted as "kinks", but rather unacceptable perversions and are widely disavowed by kink communities. The question becomes, if you accept that "your kink is not my kink but your kink is okay", how far are you willing to go to adhere to that, understanding that there are people out there who will (and do) label what they do as "kink" and expect to be accepted? Or something like that. This is an extreme form of the argument, but one we have had on the boards before, when it comes to seeing things that we are uncomfortable with in the community, perhaps abusive relationships disguised as kink, yet we don't speak up because YKINMK. It is a "bigger picture" argument involving the OP topic of raceplay, as well as others, but meanders a bit from the specific questions the OP had in seeking answers.

stef -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/28/2016 1:44:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick because I pointed out the hypocrisy of the "community", and as happens whenever that happens they lost their collective shit. I'm sure you believe that, even if it's about as far from the truth as you could possibly get.

tamaka -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/28/2016 1:52:39 PM)
I just had a strange thought while i was reading some of this thread... i can't think of any religion that says that pedofelia is wrong. Is there? I don't think so.

Wayward5oul -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/28/2016 2:23:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tamaka I just had a strange thought while i was reading some of this thread... i can't think of any religion that says that pedofelia is wrong. Is there? I don't think so. I doubt it, at least not in the way that we think about it. In our society we often think of pedophilia in terms of age of consent, meaning specific age ranges as defined by laws. Religious teachings don't normally address that. Some religions do address 'coming of age' rituals and such, and they may conflict with what current laws define an adult as. But in that context, the religion recognizes the individual as an adult at that point, not a child, so it wouldn't be seen as pedophilia, even if a legal code did.

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/28/2016 2:33:28 PM)
At least someone has been paying attention.[:)]

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/28/2016 2:34:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stef quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick because I pointed out the hypocrisy of the "community", and as happens whenever that happens they lost their collective shit. I'm sure you believe that, even if it's about as far from the truth as you could possibly get. You know that clue-by-four under your name? grab it and smack yourself upside the head with it a few dozen times. You'll be much the better for the experience.

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/28/2016 2:35:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tamaka I just had a strange thought while i was reading some of this thread... i can't think of any religion that says that pedofelia is wrong. Is there? I don't think so. Actually almost all of them do, they almost all have rules regarding the age at which marriage or sex is acceptable, though you usually have to dig deep into some pretty obscure writings to find it (most religions are reluctant to address questions of sexuality openly and directly for some reason - you would think it would be otherwise, but it's not).

DesFIP -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/28/2016 5:10:21 PM)
At the time major religions began, life expectancy hovered in the 30s. As such marriage and child bearing was done much earlier. I was 35 when my first child was born. 6000 years ago I probably would have died far before that.

tamaka -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/28/2016 5:36:14 PM)
Well, biologically speaking, once a boy or girl hits puberty they are ready for sex. Any limits we impose are societal, but not scientific.

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/28/2016 7:17:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tamaka Well, biologically speaking, once a boy or girl hits puberty they are ready for sex. Any limits we impose are societal, but not scientific. correct. just like the limits we impose on racial kinks.

Wayward5oul -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/28/2016 7:41:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tamaka Well, biologically speaking, once a boy or girl hits puberty they are ready for sex. Any limits we impose are societal, but not scientific. More specifically, reproduction. Being ready for 'sex' is independent of puberty. Puberty is the body undergoing changes to be able to reproduce sexually. However, puberty is a stage, it is a process, not an event. The onset of puberty, or 'hitting puberty', is the ability to sexually reproduce. However, that does not mean that the body is prepared for the entire process of it. Throughout history mortality rates of women during childbirth were high, as were infant mortality rates. Just because a girl has started menstruating, which many associate as the point when puberty hits for girls, doesn't mean that her body is physically ready to carry a child to term and give birth. During the years that puberty encompasses skeletal changes such as widening of hips happen, which facilitates childbirth. Growing breasts for breastfeeding doesn't happen overnight. Growth of the uterus isn't complete and even though menstruation has occurred, ovulating may not happen for several more months.

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