tamaka -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/30/2016 11:45:47 PM)
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ORIGINAL: tamaka Actually Greta, it can get beyond 'play'... especially with M/s. There are some submissives that can't leave their Masters. By CHOICE. You can convince yourself you have no free will all you want, but when the law protects you, you have free will to leave any time you wish to. A bdsm slave will stay for as long as she feels fulfilled in something that is going on with her Master. And I am sure when that fulfillment disappears, she will leave, and can leave. If she is content and happy, she stays. I mean, if you are talking stockholm syndromes where the abused can't leave their abusers, sure! Would some dominants cultivate that neediness in their submissives? Sure, of course it happens. Just like wife in abusive marriages who don't leave too. And even wives who are breadwinners in abusive marriages, we had a case where husband was house husband, wife makes 300k per annum. She turns up at work with bruises everyday. I mean, back story, we don't know if they are BDSM or not. But front story, headline story was that, she just can't leave her husband despite the abuse and her case is unique since she was the sole bread winner and has financial independence. Sure, it happens. Are those "real slavery"? Because to me, the Real Slavery is when, your Master has the right to prevent you from leaving by any way possible. Some do this through killing you. Being "property" means you are lower than a Human being and are not subjected to the same human rights regular humans get. That's what happens to real slaves right? In BDSM cases, if slaves don't leave, it is their choice, and when they wanna leave, their Masters have no right to obstruct them from leaving in any unlawful manner, and technically to create an "unhealthy neediness" like stockholm's syndrome can be another unlawful way of keeping the sub attached to him. I see no way for Real Slavery to be practiced in BDSM, just like no way for Real Pedophilia to be practiced in BDSM, if we want to stick to what BDSM means, which is all about mutual consensual practices of taboo things. No... people can't always just leave. For some it would be financially devastating, for others it is Stockholm Syndrome as you described, there are many reasons why people can't just leave a relationship.And if internal enslavement is done correctly, btw, the slave really no longer has free will. Some people have very intense relationships going on.
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