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tamaka -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/30/2016 12:45:43 PM)


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by Baxter Dmitry,Your News Wire:<br>
Vladimir Putin has used his annual Christmas press conference to accuse Western liberal elites of abandoning the traditional values that made their countries great. Instead of building a future based on solid Christian values, Western elites have created a culture of “excessive, exaggerated political correctness” that is so destructive it will lead to the downfall of Western civilization if it is not arrested.<br>
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In a nearly four-hour question and answer session, the Russian president held forth on the state of his country and the world, saying that there is an international push for a New World Order that will “remove national sovereignty” and “destroy identity and of God-created diversity.”<br>
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To reach this goal, Putin states that Western elites have begun rejecting the roots that their society was built on.<br>
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“Many Western states have taken the way where they deny or reject their own roots, including their Christian roots which form the basis of Western civilization. In these countries, the moral basis and any traditional identity are being denied – national, religious, cultural and even gender identities are being denied or relativized.”<br>
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“In these countries, the moral basis and any traditional identity are being denied – national, religious, cultural and even gender identities are being denied or relativized. There, politics treats a family with many children as equal to a homosexual partnership (juridically).<br>
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The excesses and exaggerations of political correctness in these countries indeed leads to serious consideration for the legitimization of parties that promote the propaganda of pedophilia.<br>
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“The people in many European states are actually ashamed of their religious affiliations and are indeed frightened to speak about them.”<br>
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Putin says that the situation has become so extreme in Western culture, that people are now taught that “Faith in God is equal to faith in Satan”. To say otherwise would be to risk being politically incorrect — the great crime of our age.<br>
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“Christian holidays and celebrations are abolished or ‘neutrally’ renamed, as if one were ashamed of those Christian holidays. With this method one hides away the deeper moral values of these celebrations.<br>
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“And these countries try to force this model onto other countries, globally. I am deeply convnced that this is a direct way to the degradation and primitivization of culture. This leads to deeper demographic and moral crisis in the West. What can be a better evidence for the moral crisis of a human society (in the West) than the loss of its reproductive function?“<br>
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Western countries cannot survive reproductively<br>
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“Today nearly all ‘developed’ Western countries cannot survive reproductively, not even with the help of migrants.<br>
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Without the moral values that are rooted in Christianity and other world religions, without rules and moral values which have formed and been developed over millennia, people will inevitably lose their human dignity.”<br>
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Putin was unapologetic about Russia’s determination to defend Western values.<br>
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“And we think it is right and natural to defend and preserve these moral (Christian) values.”<br>
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So, you are quoting Putin now as an authority on Western values? Really? Since when is the leader of Russia someone who we should look to for guidance?




Well he is discussing traditional western values. We have definitely been abandoning many of those these days in our society. No one can argue that. And it gives you a glimpse of why so many Americans who still hold those traditional values actually like Putin.




Wayward5oul -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/30/2016 12:52:02 PM)

Newsflash-serving as flagbearer for Western values has nothing to do with why some Americans have decided that they like Putin.




tamaka -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/30/2016 12:58:37 PM)


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Newsflash-serving as flagbearer for Western values has nothing to do with why some Americans have decided that they like Putin.


Sure it is. It's part of it anyways.




ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/30/2016 1:58:52 PM)

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Well he is discussing traditional western values. We have definitely been abandoning many of those these days in our society.

Good riddance to bad rubbish I say.




ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/30/2016 2:01:02 PM)


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ORIGINAL: tamaka


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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul

Newsflash-serving as flagbearer for Western values has nothing to do with why some Americans have decided that they like Putin.


Sure it is. It's part of it anyways.

No it is not, it is entirely partisan stupidity.That is why not so long ago it was the right that hated him and the pretend-American-left that liked him.




tamaka -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/30/2016 2:06:49 PM)

Well i've read several articles that discuss how social conservatives like him because of his conservative positions on homosexuality, gender identity, etc etc... i know there are other reasons too, such as his leadership style, his sense of nationalism, etc.




OsideGirl -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/30/2016 2:14:39 PM)

Can we leave the politics for P&R please?




CaptR -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/30/2016 3:53:10 PM)

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Maybe the difference is that pedophile players also end up doing horrified parent play, arrest play, prison play, trial play, 5 year sentence play, protective custody play, release into social ostracism play, sex offender registry play, remission play and finally repeat offender play.
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I like this. It opens the door to vigilante justice father play.




OsideGirl -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/30/2016 4:03:13 PM)


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What I find interesting is you state other people of color have issue with your chosen kink. Given the history of slavery here it's understandable they could find it distasteful. That does not allow them the right to judge your choices. Race play is just that, play.


I have a Jewish friend that loves "Nazi" play. She says that it's apropos that Hitler gets made fun of by becoming a kinky sex game. I don't get it, but it's her life.

I'll also add, that a most of the race players that I've met were into reversing the race roles.

So, it's not all one size fits all.




Greta75 -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/30/2016 6:33:37 PM)

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But nothing in BDSM is actual Slavery or actual Rape.

The way I understand it is that it's real but consensual

Real Rape and Real Slavery has nothing to do with consensual. Same with Real Pedophilia.
Real Rape, Real Slavery and Real Pedophilia are Crimes against the Law.

To me, everything in BDSM is role play only. It's all about how realistic you want the Role Play to be like. But just because it's extremely realistic, doesn't mean it's Real.

Because Real Rape, Real Slavery and Real Pedophilia involves the victim having no choice.

In BDSM, all the "victims" have choices. Even if someone agreed to be a no-limit slave, still have FULL CHOICE to withdraw from it anytime as the law protects this person. All those silly slave contracts will not protect the "owner" from his crimes at all, if he ever decide to hold this "slave" against her will eventually, IF she chooses to withdraw.

In REAL slavery, there is no way a slave can say, "I want out, this is too much." Only in BDSM form of Slavery, you can, because its a 101% choice thing.

The whole purpose of Rape is to take someone non-consensually. The whole purpose of Pedophilia is to sexually abuse a minor who is not mature enough to give consent. The similarities is, both REAL situations, involves non-consent. That is the gist of it.

BDSM makes it legal because people role play those things in a mutually consensual fashion.




tamaka -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/30/2016 8:59:04 PM)

Actually Greta, it can get beyond 'play'... especially with M/s. There are some submissives that can't leave their Masters.




ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/30/2016 9:25:35 PM)

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Maybe the difference is that pedophile players also end up doing horrified parent play, arrest play, prison play, trial play, 5 year sentence play, protective custody play, release into social ostracism play, sex offender registry play, remission play and finally repeat offender play.

I like this. It opens the door to vigilante justice father play.

It's OK guys, you don't have to keep proving my point, others handled that really well a page or two back.




Wayward5oul -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/30/2016 9:48:59 PM)


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Actually Greta, it can get beyond 'play'... especially with M/s. There are some submissives that can't leave their Masters.

Please, do enlighten us.




tamaka -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/30/2016 10:30:51 PM)

I know 2 who couldn't leave their Master if their life depended on it. And sometimes i used to think it did. I barely got out myself.




Greta75 -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/30/2016 11:27:19 PM)

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Actually Greta, it can get beyond 'play'... especially with M/s. There are some submissives that can't leave their Masters.

By CHOICE.
You can convince yourself you have no free will all you want, but when the law protects you, you have free will to leave any time you wish to. A bdsm slave will stay for as long as she feels fulfilled in something that is going on with her Master. And I am sure when that fulfillment disappears, she will leave, and can leave. If she is content and happy, she stays.

I mean, if you are talking stockholm syndromes where the abused can't leave their abusers, sure! Would some dominants cultivate that neediness in their submissives? Sure, of course it happens.
Just like wife in abusive marriages who don't leave too. And even wives who are breadwinners in abusive marriages, we had a case where husband was house husband, wife makes 300k per annum. She turns up at work with bruises everyday. I mean, back story, we don't know if they are BDSM or not.

But front story, headline story was that, she just can't leave her husband despite the abuse and her case is unique since she was the sole bread winner and has financial independence. Sure, it happens.

Are those "real slavery"? Because to me, the Real Slavery is when, your Master has the right to prevent you from leaving by any way possible. Some do this through killing you. Being "property" means you are lower than a Human being and are not subjected to the same human rights regular humans get. That's what happens to real slaves right?

In BDSM cases, if slaves don't leave, it is their choice, and when they wanna leave, their Masters have no right to obstruct them from leaving in any unlawful manner, and technically to create an "unhealthy neediness" like stockholm's syndrome can be another unlawful way of keeping the sub attached to him.

I see no way for Real Slavery to be practiced in BDSM, just like no way for Real Pedophilia to be practiced in BDSM, if we want to stick to what BDSM means, which is all about mutual consensual practices of taboo things.




Greta75 -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/30/2016 11:44:03 PM)

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I know 2 who couldn't leave their Master if their life depended on it. And sometimes i used to think it did. I barely got out myself.

What's the difference between this and some needy girlfriend who cannot leave her boyfriend who dump her? How is that Real Slavery?
I think your slavery becomes real the day your Master uses unlawful methods to prevent you from leaving when you wish to leave.

If you voluntarily cannot leave him, even though for some reason you want to leave.
Honestly, IF you reach a stage where, you WANT to leave but cannot leave. This is not slavery at all. It's simply co-dependency and overly attached. Happens to vanilla couples too.




tamaka -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/30/2016 11:45:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: tamaka

Actually Greta, it can get beyond 'play'... especially with M/s. There are some submissives that can't leave their Masters.

By CHOICE.
You can convince yourself you have no free will all you want, but when the law protects you, you have free will to leave any time you wish to. A bdsm slave will stay for as long as she feels fulfilled in something that is going on with her Master. And I am sure when that fulfillment disappears, she will leave, and can leave. If she is content and happy, she stays.

I mean, if you are talking stockholm syndromes where the abused can't leave their abusers, sure! Would some dominants cultivate that neediness in their submissives? Sure, of course it happens.
Just like wife in abusive marriages who don't leave too. And even wives who are breadwinners in abusive marriages, we had a case where husband was house husband, wife makes 300k per annum. She turns up at work with bruises everyday. I mean, back story, we don't know if they are BDSM or not.

But front story, headline story was that, she just can't leave her husband despite the abuse and her case is unique since she was the sole bread winner and has financial independence. Sure, it happens.

Are those "real slavery"? Because to me, the Real Slavery is when, your Master has the right to prevent you from leaving by any way possible. Some do this through killing you. Being "property" means you are lower than a Human being and are not subjected to the same human rights regular humans get. That's what happens to real slaves right?

In BDSM cases, if slaves don't leave, it is their choice, and when they wanna leave, their Masters have no right to obstruct them from leaving in any unlawful manner, and technically to create an "unhealthy neediness" like stockholm's syndrome can be another unlawful way of keeping the sub attached to him.

I see no way for Real Slavery to be practiced in BDSM, just like no way for Real Pedophilia to be practiced in BDSM, if we want to stick to what BDSM means, which is all about mutual consensual practices of taboo things.


No... people can't always just leave. For some it would be financially devastating, for others it is Stockholm Syndrome as you described, there are many reasons why people can't just leave a relationship.And if internal enslavement is done correctly, btw, the slave really no longer has free will. Some people have very intense relationships going on.




tamaka -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/30/2016 11:47:21 PM)

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Greta75 -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/30/2016 11:53:43 PM)

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No... people can't always just leave. For some it would be financially devastating, for others it is Stockholm Syndrome as you described, there are many reasons why people can't just leave a relationship.

I agree, but it's not Real Slavery if it's because of financial reasons.
A wife who is not financially independent just finds it harder to find the courage to leave her husband and make it out on her own in the world. Not because it is not possible, but more because, it's a personal choice.

Sometimes when somebody is stuck in a unhappy situation.

Like a wife wants to leave, but cannot because of financial comforts by staying.

So it's about which is the worst discomfort?

She basically decided it is more bearable misery to stay in financial comfort and take her husband's shit than to suffer out in the world, without her husband's financial support.

I am not judging or condemning her choice here, but if we really look at this very unemotionally. She still had a choice.

It's the same thing as some women saying that they need to prostitute themselves to feed their children right? Some believed they have no choice. But fact is, there are two types of woman. And there is no right or wrong answer here. And there is always a choice depending on which choice you choose.

1) A woman who would rather work 3 jobs and kill herself with exhaustion rather than prostitute herself so she slogs it out and work the longer hours. As she cannot stomach herself ever as a prostitute, she would never respect herself again. But she is not wrong, this is personal for her and what is best for her own self-respect.

2) A woman chooses to prostitute herself because, it gives her time to spend with her children, and earn the money she needs by working less hours. It was maybe just a very pragmatic decision and brave the backlash of doing such a job. Maybe she is at peace with herself for doing this and she rationalized it is by necessity.





Greta75 -> RE: Why do raceplayers get so much crap from everyone (12/31/2016 12:02:47 AM)

You know, I have a girlfriend who suffered her husband's physical abuse until she was 50 and her kids are finally in their 20's.
She planned her whole life to leave him but stay for the sake of the kids and because she needed his financial support and didn't want him to take the kids away from her. He threatened taking the kids away from her and paint her as an unfit mother, he was wealthy and had the power. They are also citizens of two different countries so he threatened to take the kids away from her to another country.

But I don't consider that slavery because eventually when she could, she left, she could have left all along, yes he blackmailed her with kids, but anyway, these aren't BDSM situations. When her kids are grown up and independent and he has no power to take the kids away from her anymore, she left and told him to fuck himself.

To me she was very amazing and strong.




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