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RE: Do nice guys and women really finish last? - 7/25/2006 4:26:08 PM   
MistressSassy66


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Status: offline 		Well yeah it is.
I cant control the asshole who cut Me off but I can control How I personally deal with it.

Which is get ahead of him and cut him off see how he fucking likes it....
I'm kidding....Okay I'll be honest when truck driving an idiot that did that to Me ate an orange bucket with his car.

Somethings I can laugh off and somethings I need to take control off.

Help....I'm being sucked into a serious thread/question...lol





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ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

ah but it is what you do with the things that are out of your control, that is the control over your thoughts you do have...
 
say the thing that is out of you control is a car accident or cancer, you have the choice of making that event the best or the worst thing that has ever happened to you, and that then becomes your legacy your destiny..."when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change" ~some smart person dont know who though



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ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

Dont you dare believe something so silly...you create your own life!
 
thoughts create words, words create actions, actions create your personality and your personality creates your destiny....




I have a Personality alright...and while its a great one...some road blocks happen that are out of our control...is that Fate or Destiny...A little of both I say.



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RE: Do nice guys and women reallly finish last? - 7/25/2006 4:31:33 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		I went back and read my post again.
I DID kind of stereotype "Bikers" didn't I?
Sorry about that!
Let me rephrase that just a bit; "He was an asshole who *JUST HAPPENED* to ride a Motorcycle."
My sincere appology!

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RE: Do nice guys and women reallly finish last? - 7/25/2006 5:51:55 PM   
scottjk


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ORIGINAL: SusanofO

scottjk:Well, you're just a conniving son-of-a...hey, it  probably works, doesn't it?
Well, okay then.

- Susan


Hehe, I'm a stinker, but if you think about it, that's probably how holding doors open for women evolved. Only women perverted the activity into 'polite behavior'. I'm just restoring it back to a proper tradition. So what if she doesn't have a clue? :) That's her problem, not mine. :) Most guys I tell that to, love it. :) I wonder how fast our little secret will spread? LOL

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RE: Do nice guys and women reallly finish last? - 7/25/2006 6:38:39 PM   
stockingluvr54


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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

I went back and read my post again.
I DID kind of stereotype "Bikers" didn't I?
Sorry about that!
Let me rephrase that just a bit; "He was an asshole who *JUST HAPPENED* to ride a Motorcycle."
My sincere appology!


Na...in your defense....you said nothing wrong at all. Just used a typical common label that I personally don't care for....so I mentioned it. Years ago I always associated "biker" with bad ass....and just never really liked the term? I could give a rats ass if someone calls me a "biker"...it's such a common label....and I answer to it....no problem. Just never did like it? I ride and own HD and have for 26+ years and am as proud as they come. Just consider myself a proud HD rider....nothing more...nothing less. The other poster may have taken a slight offense(?)....maybe thinking you were showing disrespect or something? I knew you weren't.......carry on. Sorry I even mentioned it.....didn't mean to stir the pot....I'm done with it.

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RE: Do nice guys and women really finish last? - 7/26/2006 12:46:26 AM   
ElectraGlide


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Status: offline 		I have always been known as a nice guy in my inner circle. Yes I have finished last at times, but I have learned the game of life on this unlevel playing field we have [ lol ] If life is a game, I play to win no matter how bad the outcome is. I have known people to have commit suicide over being dumped and jilted hard by a lover, they most likely never had the experience and misfortune of the nice guy that is use to hard rejection. Perhaps they could of been depressed and could not help themselves we will never know. I on the other hand go next, time to get restarted. Being quiet and nice can give you a good insight by sitting back and observing with your wisdom. I heard mentioned on this post about the nice guy letting the bad guy pull a new lady on the scene out from under him. It is no loss when known scum bags and deusche balls impress the new lady on the block. Let the two loosers hit the road together, the nice guy wins in this case. Being nice means you have honor, integrity and pride and you treat everybody well if you loose alot of small battles you won the big one because you can look in the mirror and know someone really decent is honestly looking back. The answer Susan is nice guys and ladies finish first.

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RE: Do nice guys and women reallly finish last? - 7/26/2006 2:17:34 AM   
sctiepipn


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Status: offline 		Personally; the first time I realized I had BDSM tendencies was in 2002, I had a GF that let me try things that none of my other GF’s  nor my now X wife let me try.  We ended up with some toys but she was also the apitamy of “A lady on the street but a freek in the bed”  I like to try new things after I get to know somebody, and like to know what their limits are and if they like it rough or not, and go from there.  I am not a physical abuse kind of person, but can dish out what they like.  I have seen all the junk on TV the totally submissive and doing what ever they are told and to me that is not BDSM or anything else you can think of other than slavery.  I am sure some people will not like that and I am not judging, just my thought on it.  I like a trusting person, that can switch but the love, or caring, or feeling of trust is there that you are not out to intentionally hurt the other person..  I like to be a gentleman and open doors and all, but in the bedroom I like to be a little different.

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RE: Do nice guys and women reallly finish last? - 7/26/2006 4:16:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		The answer to the OP is "no".
 
Those that are "nice" would not give that up to finish "first" either.

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RE: Do nice guys and women reallly finish last? - 7/26/2006 4:31:30 AM   
SusanofO


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Thanks to all who have answered - I appreciate the replies!

- Susan

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RE: Do nice guys and women reallly finish last? - 7/26/2006 5:28:08 AM   
irishbynature


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Status: offline 		Years ago, I  had my share of "Bad Boys" and after that, I only wanted "Nice Guys..." Perhaps everyone experiences both and makes the choice based on their own needs. Personally, I think nice guys finish first, although some might have to wait for someone who appreciates their qualities. They  finish first in the race because the end up with the great girls. 

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RE: Do nice guys and women really finish last? - 7/26/2006 8:25:47 AM   
Tamerofwild1s


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Status: offline 		heyyyy whats with bashing us Bad Boy types .. lol ... I am and have always been a Bad Boy . the biker type .... if thatdoesn't show I'm gonna have to don my armani.
 
I think many women young and old are drawn to the bad boy type on the outside but they want a strong and confident man who has a smidge of emotion on the inside .... and I'm not dumb like bullwinkle either up stairs ... I can hold very well thought out conversations any day of the week .....
 
thanks scottjk I will look into these books ... I am also reading as of late the Celestine Vision .. I want to get the first 2 books in the series as well . the Celestine Prophecy and the tenth insight .... I think you will find these amazing books that will opern your eyes to things that have been happening in your life and make the bigpicture start becoming clearer
 


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RE: Do nice guys and women reallly finish last? - 7/26/2006 9:20:10 AM   
agirl


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The answer to the OP is "no".
 
Those that are "nice" would not give that up to finish "first" either.


It really does beg the question .........Who is IN the race and why?*

The kind of inner strength that actually MEANS something, that stands the test of time and trying situations, that keeps going, that doesn't whinge or make a great show of BEING strong and tough.....is attractive in any walk of life. It can be the biker in the leather jacket with rippling muscles, it can be the quiet, unassuming chap reading the paper in the pub..... you will never know unless you *go* there.

agirl





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RE: Do nice guys and women reallly finish last? - 7/26/2006 9:23:40 AM   
MrDiscipline44


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