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RE: Is it possible to have a D/s relation by distance? - 10/29/2006 8:28:54 AM   
thetammyjo


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ORIGINAL: Shyamanty

Hello.
This is my situation: in live in a country were this lifestyle is very hard to cultivate (pardon my lousy english, it's been years since I've last wrote something in this language) so it is very unlikely for me to find a mistress.

That leaves me with 2 options: move away (wich I can“t) or find a Mistress elsewhere.
Is an online Dom/sub relation possible? And how? Or is this simply impossible?


It depends on what you and the other person want from a Ds relationship.

I did an online ownership for a little over a year many years ago. We ended it by mutual agreement because frankly we wanted to have physical, face-to-face contact and the emails, letters, and phone calls were not satisfying for either of us.

I am still friends with this man, very good friends, and he did make it out to visit me for a week years later where we discovered we were exactly as we had said online, in letters, and on the phone.

That made it worse and we agreed that long-distance would not work for us because we would always know what was missing.

I don't do online or long-distance period after this. But doing it once taught me what I really need is that close contact authority dynamic.

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