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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/5/2017 5:16:25 PM   
smartsub10


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I don't think it's the mans jobs to make contact, I think it's the SUBS job.


As a male Dom, I initiated contact in almost all cases.

Fine with me. I get to pick and choose. I'd rather be rejected than have to do the rejection.


I've contacted Doms who interest me. I don't want to risk letting a possible good thing slip by. I always thought of human relationships as give and take. Never heard of any rules where women are supposed to sit back and let men do all the work. Huh. Maybe it's just me.
I'm going to have an ice cream cone now.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/6/2017 12:20:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		It doesn't matter who sends the first email.

What matters is that you both are equally invested going forward. The fact that rm doesn't know this speaks loudly about his inability to start and maintain a relationship.

I have improved my communication and relationship skills. That's why I'm in a long standing relationship of nearly fifteen years.

The fact that during these fifteen years, rm has never been in a relationship of even a month long, speaks loudly about his lack of communication and relationship skills. However, people who are more invested in throwing blame on others instead of identifying their own flaws and getting help improving, are people who will never be in strong, solid relationships.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/6/2017 1:38:09 PM   
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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/6/2017 5:18:47 PM   
respectmen


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Status: offline 		This thread isn't about me. This thread isn't about men. This thread isn't about what luck me or men in general have. This thread is about women who have this mentality and if they are deserving of fairness and respect from men.

Women demand a classy email. Not a copy and paste. Women demand effort in other words. Yet these certain women aren't willing to even type one letter to men when it comes to initiating contact. Therefore, why are these women deserving of a man's effort when they aren't willing to do any effort at all? It's pure hypocrisy.

Yet again, people in this thread will continue to skirt around this and avoid it at all cost and try to make the thread about me and how it's somehow my fault.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/6/2017 7:04:16 PM   
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Women demand a classy email. Not a copy and paste. Women demand effort in other words.


They can demand it all they want. Doesn't mean they will get it. Women demanding things doesn't make it law, so unless you are interested in one of the women, why do you give a rats ass what they demand?

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Yet these certain women aren't willing to even type one letter to men when it comes to initiating contact.


Well then they are just lessening their chances of making connections on here. Their loss.

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Therefore, why are these women deserving of a man's effort when they aren't willing to do any effort at all? It's pure hypocrisy.

Who are all these people saying that all these demanding women deserve anything?


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Yet again, people in this thread will continue to skirt around this and avoid it at all cost and try to make the thread about me and how it's somehow my fault.

No, what is your fault is the amount of attention you keep bringing to it when it should die with the lack of attention these people receive when their methods don't work.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/6/2017 8:07:08 PM   
respectmen


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Status: offline 		Wayward well thanks for answering the question. You think they're not deserving. I agree.

I just seek answers from people or the culprits who do think these certain women are deserving and an reasonable explanation why.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/6/2017 8:08:44 PM   
respectmen


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Status: offline 		At the end of the day, a woman who has this mentality and doesn't get what man she wants, its no ones fault but her own.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/6/2017 8:56:36 PM   
Erochic


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Status: offline 		I initiated contact with someone on here about a week ago.

Something on his profile amused me (I do check out profiles thoroughly) and I sent him a message commenting on it. He sent me a message back today which was funny and charming.
I have deactivated my profile right now, but when I read his message I immediately sent him a reply and we started talking. I made the initial effort and ended up waiting a week for a reply because he hadn't been on. I didn't mind.

Women do initiate contact if they find someone interesting. If they are not initiating contact with *you* then I think you have your answer.



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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/6/2017 9:06:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: respectmen
At the end of the day, a woman who has this mentality and doesn't get what man she wants, its no ones fault but her own.

You shouldn't be worrying about women not getting what she wants.

You should be worrying about yourself and why you keep bumping into so many bad experiences with women that you keep complaining about it.

It seems to be exclusive with you. Even your number 1 fan who supports you, Awareness, has managed to find his ideal woman.

I'd worry about you.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/6/2017 9:46:02 PM   
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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/6/2017 11:36:58 PM   
respectmen


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Status: offline 		Again, we have erochic and greta trying to make this about me when women out there who I have nothing to do with have this mentality.

What exactly do these women have to do with me?

The simple fact of the matter is that people can't make a logical explanation why these women are deserving, they seem angry that I am right. Therefore, they turn the attack on me.

Gotta larf


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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/7/2017 12:29:02 AM   
WickedsDesire


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Status: offline 		Greta75 gets a 100% pass – does anyone have a problem with this – Christ she is thick though
Would you like one too?

Why do you care what I think anyway, and what i think of the entitled bints? No-one like me wants them but how are you any different?





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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/7/2017 12:44:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: respectmen

Again, we have erochic and greta trying to make this about me when women out there who I have nothing to do with have this mentality.

What exactly do these women have to do with me?

The simple fact of the matter is that people can't make a logical explanation why these women are deserving, they seem angry that I am right. Therefore, they turn the attack on me.

Gotta larf



For someone who has nothing at all to do with women who have this mentality, you devote an incredible amount of your time (while simultaneously pissing away the time of readers) and energy to these women. You have a whole lot to do with these women from the looks of it. Why does it matter to you so much what these women think of themselves, what they think they deserve, and how they conduct their dating life? The only one who does care seems to be you. No one else. Just you.

I could care less what someone else does since their life decisions tend to have zero to do with my life.



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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/7/2017 2:24:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sorry OP, you don't get to dictate what women, or men , or cats (especially cats!) do. Not in your power to make happen (especially cats!) - so why on earth do you persist in whining about it. Human (and cats) behaviors aren't typically modified by the squeaky wheel - it just tends to piss them off and they go pee on your pillow (the cats).

IF you put half as much effort into making yourself look better on line, you might actually see a difference.(but not to the cats, because they don't have thumbs)

Perhaps you should get a dog - they give a shit.....

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/7/2017 2:27:32 PM   
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Wayward well thanks for answering the question. You think they're not deserving. I agree.

Not exactly what I said. But it is what you wanted to hear, so it's what you heard.



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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/7/2017 8:17:14 PM   
respectmen


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ORIGINAL: kiwisub22

Sorry OP, you don't get to dictate what women, or men , or cats (especially cats!) do. Not in your power to make happen (especially cats!) - so why on earth do you persist in whining about it. Human (and cats) behaviors aren't typically modified by the squeaky wheel - it just tends to piss them off and they go pee on your pillow (the cats).

IF you put half as much effort into making yourself look better on line, you might actually see a difference.(but not to the cats, because they don't have thumbs)

Perhaps you should get a dog - they give a shit.....


Point out where I'm trying to dictate what women can do? My opinion is that women can freely have the mentality I talk about but they are totally undeserving of getting approached with a classy email that requires the effort they seek from men.

So I'm not demanding or telling women they can't do this or that I'm just simply asking a question which is what makes these certain women deserving. You and others seem to have a problem with that question because you know my point is right. Therefore, you try to change the discussion and point it at me instead of it being about what makes these women deserving.

Your hypocrisy is showing again, you are telling me to make effort while you are defending women who make absolutely no effort at all.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/7/2017 8:24:38 PM   
respectmen


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ORIGINAL: Danemora

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ORIGINAL: respectmen

Again, we have erochic and greta trying to make this about me when women out there who I have nothing to do with have this mentality.

What exactly do these women have to do with me?

The simple fact of the matter is that people can't make a logical explanation why these women are deserving, they seem angry that I am right. Therefore, they turn the attack on me.

Gotta larf



For someone who has nothing at all to do with women who have this mentality, you devote an incredible amount of your time (while simultaneously pissing away the time of readers) and energy to these women. You have a whole lot to do with these women from the looks of it. Why does it matter to you so much what these women think of themselves, what they think they deserve, and how they conduct their dating life? The only one who does care seems to be you. No one else. Just you.

I could care less what someone else does since their life decisions tend to have zero to do with my life.




Your pathetic attempts in trying to make this about me is laughable. This is about women from anywhere. From a different country, from the other side of the world, from other websites that I am not a member of.

This is about all women in general who have this mentality. To try and connect me to every single woman on the planet who has this mentality who I have never chat to or met and never will is beyond stupid.

Again, why aren't you saying these types of things to women who complain about men wanting a fetish delivery system? They shouldn't care what them men do, right? So why are they wasting their energy in complaining?


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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/7/2017 8:27:18 PM   
Danemora


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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/7/2017 8:29:48 PM   
respectmen


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Status: offline 		So why is it okay for women to waste energy on complaining about men in this forum?

Why are you a hypocrite?

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/7/2017 8:43:55 PM   
Danemora


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Status: offline 		Because its fun to watch you twist yourself in knots at absolutely no provocation whatsoever, RM. It beats watching paint dry.

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