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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 5/31/2017 9:19:26 PM   
tamaka


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Women are like spoilt rich kids in here. For example, a kid is in toyworld and she can have any toy in the shop she wants. But she cries and stamps her feet and says that's not good enough. I want a ferrari god damn it!

And who gives her that Ferrari?


Seems like a reasonable expense to me.


C'mere

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 5/31/2017 10:24:23 PM   
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I agree with this, actually.
If a woman sees something that she wants, she shouldn't be afraid to go after it.

But this is sort of what the dreaded feminists want, isn't it?


This is assuming thst women don't initiate contact when we like someone. I think when a woman really likes someone she will initiate contact whereas a man may make contact more easily even if he is not really feeling it. Women are more selective.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/1/2017 12:09:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		If women woke up tomorrow and things all the sudden got as hard for women than it is for men in regards of the opposite gender accepting you, they would be crying and squealing oppression.

I wonder how many women stop to think how massively overprivileged they truly are in the dating world. A woman can be fat, unemployed, have no car, live with her parents, and still easily get the opposite gender attracted.

In fact, I don't understand why women get more leeway to complain than men when it comes to dating. If a rich person complained about not having enough in life, they are likely to get laughed at. A poor person wouldn't though. When it comes to dating, women are the rich and the men are so poor they are like the homeless. Yet when a male complains, its not accepted like when women complain.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/1/2017 12:51:52 AM   
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If women woke up tomorrow and things all the sudden got as hard for women than it is for men in regards of the opposite gender accepting you, they would be crying and squealing oppression.


They certainly wouldn't be crying about how hard it is for them to get free sex, I assure you.

Wonderwoman quote today, "Men are necessary for pro-creation but not necessary for pleasure."

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/1/2017 2:02:08 AM   
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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/1/2017 2:11:12 AM   
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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/1/2017 2:18:45 AM   
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A woman can be fat, unemployed, have no car, live with her parents, and still easily get the opposite gender attracted.




Yeah whats wrong with those men?

If you think that phenomenon is strange, a male can be fat, unemployed, have no car, live with his parents, and still expect hot women half his age to pander to his fetishes and fantasies, and be offended when she turns him down.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/1/2017 2:48:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		Little lucy, it's because men are more accepting, understanding, and giving compared to women on a general basis. Women though, way too many overprivileged narcissists.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/1/2017 3:26:18 AM   
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What a great privilege and honour.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/1/2017 3:29:26 AM   
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Little lucy, it's because men are more accepting, understanding, and giving compared to women on a general basis. Women though, way too many overprivileged narcissists.


It's because the men are desperate, have no morals, and will fuck anything with a pulse.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/1/2017 4:13:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		Actually, given my experience in an ER - some men will fuck anything - period. Like knotholes in boards, potatoes, olive jars, holes in the ground and so on and so on.

Sorry OP, but the cultural conditioning that we got as kids for the men to be the aggressor and the women to passively accept whomever asked them has been steadily weakening in successive generations. Besides, in my generation, women always found a way to let the men know who they liked and wouldn't mind dating.

Sorry you find it so hard to ask women out, it must be hard to be a sweet , sensitive flower of manhood. And yes, i'm fat (sensitive of you to insinuate it by the way), but I own my own car and have an absolutely marvelous man who doesn't whine and cry - because if I think he wants it, and I can provide it - he's got it. He spoils me marvelously, and I try to do the same for him. Neither of us keep score. and maybe that's where you've gone wrong in your relationships. Lists are not your friend when you are talking about people.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/1/2017 6:43:37 AM   
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Women are like spoilt rich kids in here. For example, a kid is in toyworld and she can have any toy in the shop she wants. But she cries and stamps her feet and says that's not good enough. I want a ferrari god damn it!

And who gives her that Ferrari?


The dealership she buys the car from.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/1/2017 7:21:11 AM   
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Women are like spoilt rich kids in here. For example, a kid is in toyworld and she can have any toy in the shop she wants. But she cries and stamps her feet and says that's not good enough. I want a ferrari god damn it!

And who gives her that Ferrari?


The dealership she buys the car from.


I love that Nikki can't see any similarity between his toyshop metaphor and his incessant demands on here that women recognise what a catch he is: both strike me as tantrums...

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/1/2017 10:41:47 AM   
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Little lucy, it's because men are more accepting, understanding, and giving compared to women on a general basis. Women though, way too many overprivileged narcissists.


It's because the men are desperate, have no morals, and will fuck anything with a pulse.


That's exactly it.

RM: There are 2 kinds of men.

1. Men who want a relationship.
2. Men who want sex.

Men who just want sex don't care about much about a woman. Just that she is willing or seems easily persuadable to fuck.

Men who want a relationship are far more discerning then you give them credit for. I have been 'interviewed' by many men myself and they care about a women's education, relationship experiences, job, temperment/personality, health, appearance, physical shape, intelligence, interests/hobbies, family/kids, religious beliefs, drugs/alcohol use, active level, etc.

But even the men who want a relationship, but for whatever reason find you incompatible, are willing to fuck you.

That doesn't make men better than women. It just makes them more willing to fuck.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/1/2017 1:32:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		I really think he is complaining about basic biology. Genetically men are programed to inseminate as many women as they can lay (pun intended) their hands on. Women look for someone who can provide for a family. Don't think any of this conscious, but c'est la vie.

Women are leaving this way of thinking, but apparently not fast enough for the OP. And OP - women don't have a huge advantage in the general dating world. As it stood for my generation, we had to wait for a man to ask us out. The men got to do the initial picking and choosing. Either way there was rejection, so sorry mate, but rejection is just part of the human experience.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/1/2017 2:19:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: tamaka


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Women are like spoilt rich kids in here. For example, a kid is in toyworld and she can have any toy in the shop she wants. But she cries and stamps her feet and says that's not good enough. I want a ferrari god damn it!

And who gives her that Ferrari?


Seems like a reasonable expense to me.


C'mere



Shit baby...it's a car....so I have to work weekends...(I'm good with that).

Bring it home.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/1/2017 2:33:25 PM   
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If women woke up tomorrow and things all the sudden got as hard for women than it is for men in regards of the opposite gender accepting you, they would be crying and squealing oppression.

I wonder how many women stop to think how massively overprivileged they truly are in the dating world. A woman can be fat, unemployed, have no car, live with her parents, and still easily get the opposite gender attracted.

In fact, I don't understand why women get more leeway to complain than men when it comes to dating. If a rich person complained about not having enough in life, they are likely to get laughed at. A poor person wouldn't though. When it comes to dating, women are the rich and the men are so poor they are like the homeless. Yet when a male complains, its not accepted like when women complain.

DUDE!!!!

Get OVER yourself (and all your "poor me" boooooshit).

Here's the fucking dealio you dumb fuck.

They got tits....(hopefully you don't).

We got testosterone...which means we can leap tall buildings (some of us...with the assistance of a small ladder, depending on your age).

You could put 2 sperm cells and 2 eggs in a gawdammned motherfucking incubator on an island waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay the fuck out in the middle of fuck all nowhere (which, for this discussion, would produce 1 woman and 1 man) and....in 12 years (without every bit of societal BOOOOOSHIT (and stooopit as fuck fucked up dumb ass fucked up BOOOOSHIT chic psychological fucked up magazines)....fuck all these stupid fucking magazines that say "well....we're all equal in EVERY way!!!" (all written by chics)....we're not....and in 12 years...the man would be making the cabin, killing the deer, and the chic would be making the food, feeding the babies and planting cute little flowers and trees and pissing the FUCK out of the guy who's sitting there thinking...."FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK MEEEEEEEEEE!!!!"

Ya know why?

BECAUSE THEY HAVE TITS!!

"If women woke up tomorrow and things all the sudden got as hard for women than it is for men".

DUDE....I'm LAUGHING here!!!

It's NEVER going to GET that way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Know why?

BECAUSE THEY GOT FUCKING TITS!!!

Wake the FUCK up dude!!! Are you 13?

Tit's ALWAYS win!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Here's how you know chics win: THEY GOT FUCKING TITS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dude!!! Get in the game or get the fuck out but....learn the motherfucking rules.

It ain't complicated shit bud....they win.

You go get stuff....they have tits.

(See how that works?).

They want more stuff....you go get it because.....THEY HAVE TITS!!!

(Am I making myself clear here???)

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/1/2017 2:42:24 PM   
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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/1/2017 3:08:11 PM   
AtUrCervix


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No - perhaps you enumerate a bit more about our boobies......


I wasn't entirely clear, was I?

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/1/2017 3:25:04 PM   
tamaka


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Women are like spoilt rich kids in here. For example, a kid is in toyworld and she can have any toy in the shop she wants. But she cries and stamps her feet and says that's not good enough. I want a ferrari god damn it!

And who gives her that Ferrari?


Seems like a reasonable expense to me.


C'mere



Shit baby...it's a car....so I have to work weekends...(I'm good with that).

Bring it home.


You have to work weekends? Hmmmm. Ok, just make sure to make me a cup of coffee before you go. ;)

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