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Why is pony play considered so exotic by many? - 7/28/2006 5:33:49 AM

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Pony Play seems to be considered an exotic form of activity by many. At least this is my experience. Why is this? Or maybe I am wrong and have just talked to some who don't want much to do with it. I wanted this from my last Dominant, and he agreed it was interesting, but said it seemed "very involved", so we never did much of that. I certainly was not expressing a desire to live as a 24/7 pony, or even for a few hours a day - just to experiment with it to see more of what it's all about. I don't see what is that "involved" about it - anymore than some other things can be, or are, like suspension, or using a St. Andrews cross, for example. Can't people do it at the level they feel comfortable with, anyway? I get the impression many people just don't understand it - or that it is a form of Objectification. Some seem to think it has something to do with liking (or wanting to impersonate) horses in some weird, abnormal way - which is of course, not true (in my opinion)- at least there is much more to it than that, if it is true.

Others I hear say things like "It can be expensive", and yet these same folks will spend $300 on a flogger or get a Wartenburg wheel for their "playroom" without batting an eyelash. Is it really that exotic? - am I missing something? I just don't seem to see that many people who express an interest in it.

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RE: Why is pony play considered so exotic by many? - 7/28/2006 5:42:47 AM

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I have never done it myself, but I saw an incredible ponyplay demo at a TES event years ago that has stayed with me since. I am not easily impressed, but the demo displayed so many positive and beautiful things; the choreography, the costumes, the interplay between ponygirl or ponyboy and Master/Mistress, and most of all, the care and attention that went into the construction of the dynamic.

I thought it was highly erotic. I had read of ponyplay in many erotic novels prior to seeing it in real life and it was really beautiful. It does seem, however, to be somewhat of an expense, at least from the complexity and grandeur of the costumes I saw.

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RE: Why is pony play considered so exotic by many? - 7/28/2006 5:47:00 AM

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I think it's very erotic, and beautiful, too. Costumes, in my opinion are completely elective (things like a head-dress, etc.). I always considered them more of a frill, than anything else. Ditto for things like pony shoes. As for using a bit, a harness, and reigns (which I guess I'd consider necessities), I don't see why some consider it that expensive. Those things aren't going to cost more, necessarily, than other kinds of toys would.

- Susan

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RE: Why is pony play considered so exotic by many? - 7/28/2006 5:54:54 AM

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that is absolutely true; you don't need ANY accoutrements to do ponyplay. You are limited only by your imagination and creativity. The costumes I saw were extremely high end, as were the harnesses, reigns and shoes.

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RE: Why is pony play considered so exotic by many? - 7/28/2006 5:55:53 AM

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I agree they are pretty, though - and that they appeal somewht to the exhibitionist in me.

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RE: Why is pony play considered so exotic by many? - 7/28/2006 6:04:19 AM

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Me too. That was what I identified with, the exhibitionist, the drama, the beauty, the theatricality of the whole thing. I also do not identify with animal play, but the horse/driver/rider scenario is very powerful to me in some way.

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RE: Why is pony play considered so exotic by many? - 7/28/2006 6:08:10 AM

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I guess I am attracted to being used as an animal that has absolutely no say so in what happens - that part is the biggest attraction deal for me. Ponies can't talk, and just do as they are directed. Also, the control seems more intense than with many other forms of activity (but since I've very little experience at it, I could be wrong about that. But - it seems that way).

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RE: Why is pony play considered so exotic by many? - 7/28/2006 6:20:34 AM

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Might want to start out with puppy play...cheaper and easier in my opinion.

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RE: Why is pony play considered so exotic by many? - 7/28/2006 6:26:16 AM

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I've heard that from some people. Pupply play holds some appeal, but not on the same level as poly play, for me. But thanks for the advice, and the reply, though.

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RE: Why is pony play considered so exotic by many? - 7/28/2006 6:32:07 AM

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Have you ever placed a saddle and reigns and stirrups upon a standing upright naked female? Have you ever tethered a naked famale to the shaft of a cart,and placed reigns upon her? Have you ever done the same with a naked male? You may then understand the power,sensuality and control that brings.

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RE: Why is pony play considered so exotic by many? - 7/28/2006 6:55:50 AM

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Now that could be fun!
I can see the potential in it.
And, it has a lot of B&D aspects in it as well, a bit gag, no talking like you mentioned Susan, of course ponys can't talk. Reins attached to the neck, whipping on the ass to get the pony going faster and yes, you could dress up your pony too!
Susan, what kind of costumes do they have for ponys?
Where would you get them? I've never seen any in the Adult stores.

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RE: Why is pony play considered so exotic by many? - 7/28/2006 7:04:36 AM

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popeye:I have only seen costumes and headresses at online stores (and don't have any site references in particular). But I know they exist, because I've seen them. Mostly it's been head-dresses (lots of feathers).

- Susan

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RE: Why is pony play considered so exotic by many? - 7/28/2006 7:16:16 AM

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There is a magazine called Equus Eroticus that is focused on this portion of the Lifestyle. Mind you, many of the people there do carry out their play to the extent. Not only the costuming, but acquiring land to have a stable, making carts, specialized equipment, etc.

Can this be expensive? Certainly. Can it be scaled back? Of course. You tend to start somewhere and go from there with what makes sense for the partners involved.

I think you have touched on the aspects that people gravitate towards. Control. Understanding the roles.

That magazine, which comes out quarterly or so, would be very helpful. Of course there are other resources.

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RE: Why is pony play considered so exotic by many? - 7/28/2006 7:17:55 AM

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I think I may look it up and subscribe (or at least have a very long look at it). I am aware there are pony farms for extensive roleplay in this area. Thanks for the magazine reference, mstrjx!

- Susan

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RE: Why is pony play considered so exotic by many? - 7/28/2006 7:27:53 AM

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Susan, yesterday in here someone e-mailed me that they had 20 acres in N.W. Georgia in a secluded area that they were devoting exclusivly to lifestylers for "outside play." and invited anyone who'd be interested in doing that and I've heard of other things like that in this state and in N. Carolina as well. So, these places (are) around!
I would think that Pony Play would be much more fun to do outside of course.

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RE: Why is pony play considered so exotic by many? - 7/28/2006 7:28:56 AM

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Fancy that, and to think I live in NW Georgia.

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RE: Why is pony play considered so exotic by many? - 7/28/2006 8:59:18 AM

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Mstrjx, well Howdy Neighbor, I'm up in Myrtle Beach.
I just went into the "y" and looked under "Pony Girl Training" and there's a bunch of sites!
It seems to be big in Europe as one site had Pony Girls in some sort of parade in "public", that was probably in Holland just by the looks of the pictures.
Some *very* erotic pictures in some of those sites! In some of them the guys take their Ponys into the tack rooms, tie them up and do all kinds of things to them or have the other Ponys do sexual things with them.
And some very nice costumes too! Looks like the Ponys can make a lot of the headress themselves and yes feathers too.
If I were to have a Pony I'd probably put a cowgirl hat on her, a scarf around her neck, cowgirl boots with black nylon stockings and a black leather garterbelt and thong and *of course* a nice long Pony tail!
I don't think the reins and bit would be too expensive not that that's a problem.
Oh, and a lot of the Ponys have bondage belts around their waistes with hooks and their wrists bound to the belts.
Gee, thanks Susan, now I'm going to be "addicted" to Pony Girl Sites!!! lol

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RE: Why is pony play considered so exotic by many? - 7/28/2006 9:05:45 AM

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Susan, Popeye,

Let us not forget the butt-plug tails. Doubly yummy!

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RE: Why is pony play considered so exotic by many? - 7/28/2006 9:21:17 AM

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Jeff, yeah! VERY erotic!
You could bend your Pony over and tie the reins to a fence on a "short leash" as it were and insert the butt plug end of the tail into her!
I'm looking at one of those sites now and some of the tails are very long almost down to the ground. *VERY* nice!
I like Western wear anyway as you can probably tell by my photo.
And yes, that is a real STETSON that I'm wearing.
All my jeans are "Wranglers" "boot cut" and I like to wear "Justin" Texas cowboy boots. Funny, two weeks ago I just ordered a belt from "Sheplers" Western wear. It's got carved designs on it and a silver belt buckle. Not too bad only $45.

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RE: Why is pony play considered so exotic by many? - 7/28/2006 9:23:41 AM

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P.S. when you had your Pony bent over like that she'd have to spread her legs to keep her balance making it easier to insert the tail.

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