LadyPact -> RE: California reduce penalties for knowingly exposing partners to HIV (10/14/2017 4:41:22 PM)
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If nothing else, on my end, it's been an enjoyable conversation, so I do want to thank you for that. quote:
ORIGINAL: JVoV I haven't said that I think the new penalties are enough. No punishment is enough when it's you or a loved one violated at this level. And I'm totally lost how this isn't a sex crime. The thought has crossed my mind as well. I'm not sure how it could be worded in legal terms unless it was verbiage similar to sexual assault, though that could also be considered too harsh. I don't really have a determination in my head about should such a thing land a person on the sexual offender's registry. I'd be more likely to say yes if the whole intent thing could be proven. It would have to be a case by case thing. Kind of murky, isn't it? quote:
I'm not disregarding any of the possible impact on the newly infected. I've been their hand to hold, shoulder to cry on. Whether as their friend or as a volunteer at the LGBT Center in Orlando through the years. That's a very compassionate thing for you to do. quote:
I'm wondering how many have pressed charges through the years, how many convictions there have been. What sort of ordeal is it for the victim? I'd imagine not much different than a victim of rape. Maybe this change will make things easier for the victims, by making prosecution easier and getting more guilty or no contest pleas than an 8 year prison sentence, coming out as a felon. Yes, I wondered about the first part as well, especially since we talked about cost. It's odd for me to think that there are so many people in the prison system for this very specific thing, that anybody dealing with the budget is looking at this as a huge way to trim it. I'm with you about thoughts of the victim as it relates to therapy. I can't imagine that it wouldn't be a trauma, just the same as any other life changing diagnosis would be. (Think diabetes or cancer.) It's isn't really all about it being manageable via medications. It's also about the new person being in the same boat, too. Having to inform partners they might have/currently have/or might have had and all that goes with that. That might be a part of why I feel so fiercely on the subject. As a closed poly female who is fluid bonded with two people, if one of them brought home any 'gift that keeps on giving,' I'm the link that would infect the other one. I wouldn't know but I'd still feel responsible. quote:
How many STD's are incurable and potentially fatal? If there is no equivalent law for exposing any of those STD's knowingly, without warning, then the bias against gay & bisexual men, the most disproportionately effected segment of the population living with HIV/AIDS in the US, is fairly obvious, whether you see it or not. Add to that any personal bias against gays held by the cops, prosecutors, or anyone else involved with the case, and reporting can turn into victim shaming & blaming to a whole new level. You'll probably laugh, but my mind went straight to syphilis because of the complications when left untreated. Not to mention the bag of tricks (other issues besides death) that it can come with. One of the more recent buzz words has been HPV because of it's link to increased risk of cervical cancer. (Cut me a break. I'm female and any woman my age has to think about that.) I did a quick google-fu and you are right about gay and bisexual men still being the greatest group as far as infected, though I'm looking at data from 2010-2014. The rates do seem to be decreasing for all categories, which I'm hoping has some relation to better education. Much different than the way this all was put out to the general public in the '80's. I'm still rather convinced that the worst thing they ever did back then was that period where they were calling it GRID. That's where some of that bias comes from, even thirty years later. Not to mention Jerry Falwell proclaiming on live television that AIDS was a plague from God on live broadcast. Some of that stuff set the tone. quote:
Prop 47 made most minor drug offenses misdemeanors a few years back. So a minor weed offense isn't gonna land you in prison anymore in California. Yet future prison numbers still have to be kept under control, to avoid overcrowding. Well, at least that part is good. You'll have to forgive me for thinking anybody in prison for a prior charge when it was illegal should still be locked up when it's legal now. To me, that would just seem dumb. quote:
The stigma associated with HIV/AIDS has already changed so much since the disease first struck, in the West at least. So much fear and panic, ignorance and hate in the 80's when we had helpless, innocent children being pushed out of their community, burned out of their homes, for trying to go to school after being infected via blood transfusions. As a generalization, I think a lot of people fear what they don't understand, so if we talk about the 80's when nobody knew what we were dealing with, of course it was fear. And, I get it. Most het people didn't think it could touch them until it was realized that it was a blood pathogen. quote:
I think sexual health is an important conversation. Prescriptions for PReP can be obtained from most primary doctors, as well as Planned Parenthood and many LGBTQ+ Community Centers. It's one more layer of protection, like birth control to prevent unwanted pregnancies. Neither one mean you completely forego condoms, but both mean that if you do forego condoms or a condom rips, you're still better protected than not being on them. And both help lessen the possible trauma of a sexual assault, by helping to prevent life-changing side effects (at least HIV infection/pregnancy). I think it's an important conversation as well. As I mentioned before, I sincerely wish we had more conversations about the subject on this site, just as we should be talking about things like pap smears, mammograms, colonoscopies, and just about any other thing. I'm not exactly perfect about doing some of this myself, but I think good examples should be discussed. I see it more on Fet than CM, though I attribute that to this forum being rather hetero-normative. I've already quoted you darn near to death, so I won't add the other post. I appreciated the examples in the follow up. I'm not sure how to phrase it, so I'll go with this: Prior to 2013, Uncle Sam and the UCMJ didn't do a stellar job with this kind of thing. Some people wouldn't know what's criminal or not under it. (I did a huge eye roll about the term 'crimes against nature' bit.) Other stuff that falls in there are things like oral sex, anal sex, poly, swinging, and who knows how many other subjects that a bunch of forum posters are doing (at least one) on the regular. I've got some experience with the UCMJ, but it is, and pretty much always has been way behind when considered to civilian law. Not exactly what I'd consider the pristine example.
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