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RE: But you did not tell me..... - 8/11/2006 1:42:46 PM

Cutiepie74019

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ive tryed that line onece to many and yet it never seems to stick that it wont work either its sheer stupidity, some higere uncean force of nature or my subconsious saying "punish me" im leaning towards the second or third choice :p

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RE: But you did not tell me..... - 8/12/2006 4:01:22 AM

LeatherBentOne

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If my sub did this, I would take it as an attempt to manipulate and I don't tolerate manipulation. To me, manipulation attempts are disrespectful and indicate a propensity for disobedience, which I don't tolerate, either. Disrespect and disobedience are grounds for release as I would have to question compatabilty. That's why I move slowly and carefully ~ to try to avoid being incompatable and releasing as a result ~ but people do change and nothing is guaranteed. However, I don't foresee a change in myself regarding my feelings toward manipulative behavior and/or disobedience. They are just not on my "Qualities that I Seek in a Submissive" list, unless they occur during predesignated "down time." I don't enjoy being challenged in the way as some do.

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RE: But you did not tell me..... - 8/13/2006 12:38:28 AM

Sirandlittle1

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ORIGINAL: littleone35

Hi all just a Question. How many subs slaves can answer too but this is mostly for subs. Try to get out of a displine but saying somthing to their Master like "you did not tell me i could not do (insert activity here)."

Let me try to explain today Master was doing something and he stopped for a moment to look at the clock he had a meeting to go to so i continued .When he turned back and saw what i was doing he was a little surprised he asked what i was doing i knew i was in trouble ao i tried to get out of it by saying you did not tell me i could not. He said i also did not tell you that you could. Needless to say i did not get out of my displine.

Did any others ever try that line?

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Depends. If it is something that were you to of asked, you 'know' the answer would of been no, and you go ahead and do it. Then that's dishonesty.
If its something you truly did not know you were not allowed to do, then that is a lesson, that he needs to teach you, not a punishment or discipline issue. For instance, when we'd first got together, i was at a girls night in, and got to drunk to find my own way back, wasnt up for the cab fare, and asked to stay over at my mates house. I was allowed, but it was explained that in future, that was not ok. That my place is beside him, in our bed, not on some sofa somewhere. Unless it were a special pre-arranged occasion that required a sleep over. Like visiting distant friends for instance.

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RE: But you did not tell me..... - 8/13/2006 4:38:18 PM

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I have tried it many many times. sometimes in a playfull manner and sometimes as an attempt to get punished. I have a brat streak that rears its ugly head at the oddest moments. playfully ment is ususaly acompanied by a gigle by me a cheaky smile what ever its a joke and I have never done this with Dom men who dont grasp that girls can tease them. when its an attempt to get into trouble it never worked :( but I think thats just because the person i was with never punished me and thats why i was trying to push him to. we didnt stay together long.

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RE: But you did not tell me..... - 8/13/2006 5:21:51 PM

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I've used "I should have known"... and ended up getting out of it. Then again I tend to hold myself more accountable than most would consider reasonable.

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