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My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 4:07:40 PM   
Diane269


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Status: offline 		I took on a new strapon slut this weekend. We have chatting online and met once.
He told me he could take huge strapons. He lied...I put on my Kong strapon and
he had a very worried look on his face like he was very intimated. Anyway he asked
if I had something smaller. I asked how small? He replied about 6". I said WTF
you told me you have been trained to take huge dildos. So, I put the 6" on and
started to push it in. I told him to relax cuz it's not going in. He finally told me this
was his first time.
He is a very cool guy but, I don't like people that lie to me.

Should I send him on his way or pound his ass?


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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 4:15:40 PM   
ScrappinKitty


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Status: offline 		There is a possibility of more lies involved in the relationship.  Is trust and respect an issue for You?


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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 4:17:31 PM   
MistressOfGa


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Status: offline 		Diane,
First of all welcome to the boards. What you do, of course, is up to you, but if it were me, I would let him go. I am going to assume that he is a bottom and not a submissive to you. If that is the case, there are plenty of bottoms out there who will be honest with you, why would you want to keep a lying playtoy, if that is all you are going to be using him for? Toy stores are open 24/7 <g> Slap him on lying ass and send him out the door. Life is too freakin' short.
 
Good luck to you.

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 4:20:16 PM   
sophia37


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Status: offline 		Its up to you isnt it? Do you like the guy? At least he was willing to try. Give him some credit for that. Why not hold on to him? Because he "lied?"

Would you have rejected him if he said he was a virgin? Maybe thats what he was afraid of.

You might have been sending out some sort of signals. Give it some thought before you come to a conclusion. Who knows, maybe you've got an interesting person who's willing to play. That's something positive right there. 

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 4:21:54 PM   
Diane269


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I just don't like a bullshiter!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 4:23:52 PM   
Diane269


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Status: offline 		Thanks for the welcome MistressOfGa

You're right there's lots of bottoms out there.

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 4:27:27 PM   
Diane269


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Status: offline 		I would rather train a virgin and I told him that but, he assured me he wasn't a virgin.
So, I brought the proper tools for the job.

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 4:27:41 PM   
seeksfemslave


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Status: offline 		No Diane pound his arse big time. Then let us know how it went. You are too considerate you should have just used Kong. No questions asked.

Stuff that femme stuff Kitty is it ???!!!! lol Trust relationships I arsk ya. You will be talking about feelings next.

I dont think he lied.....he just prevaricated a little.   Its out with KONG I say.

Out of interest Diane, what did you say to him at the time ?

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 4:30:16 PM   
MasDom


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Status: offline 		Well sadly it go's either way.
Either he lied to just get what he wants.
   Or he honestly lied because he wants you to like him.
I say feel it out a little more then decide.

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 4:30:47 PM   
Diane269


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Status: offline 		Believe me I really thought about it

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 4:33:11 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		I don't understand the conversation in the first fuckin' place.  He lied?  Be goddamed if he did... If you asked and he said.....Then he gets your FAVORITE part.... so he is sore...

This is not a conversation, lose it.

You told him what the fuck you were gonna do, he said what the fuck he was gonna do.......that was the reality.  No conversation is  anything other than butterflies and flowers.

Close your eyes and do it.  Unless he is  going to die, or become  a  slobbering Cujo, laughing like woody woodpecker...........

He will wise up to the truth.  You said he is new.  But he will do what he says, unless YOU are a cunt and won't do what you say, and I hardly believe THAT to be true.

New needs training.....trust is a two way street, consequence is  the artifact of your decisions............

If you are advertising that you are real, be real.........

If you can't do the crime, don't do the time...........

Oh, sure, soothe him later, but make the point that life ain't all about fantasy and dildoes.  Somebody gotta own up to reality.  Cause thats just the way it is.


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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 4:36:15 PM   
MizSuz


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Status: offline 		What do you want out of the relationship?

If it's someone to only play casually with then what do you care if he lies?  You now know you can't rely on him for honesty, so don't rely on him for honesty.  No harm, no foul.  Use him if you want to.  He wants you to.  Again no harm, no foul.

If you're looking for a relationship with a self-assured individual with integrity, and nothing else will do, kick him to the curb.


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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 4:44:08 PM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		edited to take out what I wrote.....I misread the OP, sorry!

< Message edited by windchymes -- 8/8/2006 4:45:39 PM >

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 4:44:27 PM   
MistressOfGa


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sophia37

Its up to you isnt it? Do you like the guy? At least he was willing to try. Give him some credit for that. Why not hold on to him? Because he "lied?"

Would you have rejected him if he said he was a virgin? Maybe thats what he was afraid of.

You might have been sending out some sort of signals. Give it some thought before you come to a conclusion. Who knows, maybe you've got an interesting person who's willing to play. That's something positive right there. 

Sophia,
I tried to look up your profile and was met with No Profile found. I did a search for your name and came up with the same thing. I have no idea if you are a sub or a dom, but I want to say that at this point it no longer matters.
I am blown away by your response here. Are you suggesting that Diane is responsible for this guys lie to her? It sure sounds like it. If the only reason for Diane to keep this person is because "maybe you've got an interesting person who's willing to play. That's something positive right there." then IMO, that is the worst advice I have seen on these boards. There are just too many honest ones out there who don't feel the need to compromise their integrity by starting a relationship with a lie, for her to forgive and forget. How hard up does one have to be to overlook such a liar, just to have a play toy? I, myself, would rather use a vibrator than to put up with someone who lies to get his ass fucked.
My pup was a virgin, he made sure I was fully aware of that before we met. The choice to meet him and consider him was mine, but I appreciated the fact that he was honest about his virginity.
This guy should have been honest and it says alot about his charactor, that he wasnt. I wouldn't of even given him the chance to be fucked once he said he lied. Or like seeksfemslave said, I would of shoved that Kong right up his virgin ass. Either way, he would of known what being fucked really means. But then again, that is just my own opinion of this.

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 4:47:54 PM   
seeksfemslave


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Status: offline 		Is your post a concept an event or gossip windy....stubborn pig that I am !

Joking aside that quote is brilliant.  Minds vis a vis (oh err) concepts events gossip I mean.
In fact both quote are....brilliant.

< Message edited by seeksfemslave -- 8/8/2006 5:04:40 PM >

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 4:49:43 PM   
MisPandora


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Status: offline 		I swear we just went through this in another post.

1) He yanked your chains online.  Every dildo slut is expert at taking large things up their ass in their minds.

2) Where is your brain?  Force it in?  Against his training and experience?  I'm kinda thinking that someone should stick one in YOUR ass for even thinking something so freakin totally foolish and disrespectful.

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 4:52:49 PM   
MisPandora


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

I tried to look up your profile and was met with No Profile found. I did a search for your name and came up with the same thing. I have no idea if you are a sub or a dom, but I want to say that at this point it no longer matters.

Her profile that I just came across is changed already to not looking because she met a new buttslut last night.  Me thinks we're all having our chains pulled by a player!

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 4:58:48 PM   
Diane269


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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 5:04:53 PM   
MistressOfGa


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

I tried to look up your profile and was met with No Profile found. I did a search for your name and came up with the same thing. I have no idea if you are a sub or a dom, but I want to say that at this point it no longer matters.

Her profile that I just came across is changed already to not looking because she met a new buttslut last night.  Me thinks we're all having our chains pulled by a player!

Hi Pandora,
I was referring to Sophia37 when I said I couldnt find her profile. I am confused who it is you think is the player here? Sophia or Diane? I am lost lol not hard to do to me today <s>

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 5:07:37 PM   
MistressOfGa


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quote:

[Awaiting Approval]

Sheesh Ron what the heck did you do? How long does one stay on moderation before they are allowed to post freely again? Not that I am trying to hi jack this thread <s>

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