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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 6:12:57 PM   
MistressOfGa


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Actually, I should speak however I wish to speak;  not how you dictate. You really need to get the domme stuff in perspective  Now,  If my intent was to call someone out, trust me, I would have.  I hate to shatter your ego, but I was referencing the guy with the shades on and someone named Diane who responded to him by saying she 'thought' about it.  Frankly I  couldnt be bothered to go back and check for his nic, nor did I find it necessary in order to make my point. I said what I said to express my opinion. Thats what people do here.  One more time in case its not clear.....  My intent was to comment on what I had read, which I did.  Dont like it?  Too bad.   I am an "authority"  on my own beliefs and I stand behind what I said.  Anyone who would shove something carelessly up someones ass should not be in control of another person.  Dont like that either?  Thats too bad too.  Oh and this may come as a shock to you, but your personal relationship with "pup" and whether or not he is comfortable with your control is not of interest to me, nor  is it what I commented on. But thank you for sharing and have a lovely day. 


I said I was one of the ones you were referring to. You did not make it clear as to who you were talking about, so I took it upon myself to defend my position about what I had posted. Say what you want to, but I will not agree with you. You do not need to repeat yourself, I am not stupid. No, it is not hurting my ego at all that you were not referring to me nor does it come as a shock to me that you can care less what my relationship with my sub is. I did not personally attack you and tell you that you need to get this sub stuff in perspective. How I view being a Domina is MY business, not yours. So don't tell me what I need or don't need to put into perspective. I'm through with this, have a nice night.

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 6:17:05 PM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		are you kidding ?Pounding a novice ass could tear the shit out of it n not consentually. I think it should be quite clear how unsafe your question about just ramming his ass anyway should be.

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 6:19:14 PM   
michaelGA2


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Status: offline 		now...it would be an appropriate punishment for a serial rapist...would it not?


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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 6:24:49 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Forgive me for being the dilletante here, but if any of these Dominatirxes here said they would take mine in the ass................I would believe them.

SSC Rack and all the asswipe neither here nor there/

We sit here and know what we are going to do.

If you want to fantasize, I don't think anyone would have a problem.

If you are coming to see me real time, and do the 'deep check' and all that shit,,,,,,,,,,,,,,cute.............so women have feelings us Domminatrixes dont have

Why is the argument whatever it is,
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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 6:27:12 PM   
marieToo


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ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

are you kidding ?Pounding a novice ass could tear the shit out of it n not consentually. I think it should be quite clear how unsafe your question about just ramming his ass anyway should be.


Well, it seems to be the consensus here.  I think there were about 4 people who supported this notion as a viable option to venge a liar.

Im thinking maybe they should fuck themselves hard in the ass instead, to teach themselves a lesson in how to choose better partners.  Imagine taking the responsibility for what you drag home.  What a concept.

I do wonder if this had been a female submissive who had lied, how many people wouldve suggested a male dominant rip through her ass.


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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 6:29:23 PM   
KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: Diane269

He is a very cool guy but, I don't like people that lie to me.

Should I send him on his way or pound his ass?

Diane269
aka DianeB


You can't be serious about this question are you... What kind of stupidity is this!?

He lies to you and you are considering Pounding his ass with the strap-on.... Thou he may have lied.... The question is what is your Motivation to "Pound his Ass"

If you asked... "Should I let him go" or should I work past the lie and teach him to take a Strap-On?"

No instead you give the impression your going to "Pound his Ass" Because he Lied!

Can you work past the lie and still be safe in doing the play... any play for that matter.  Or are you going to let this issue negatively affect you as it appears to be doing.



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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 6:33:14 PM   
KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: MisPandora

I swear we just went through this in another post.

1) He yanked your chains online.  Every dildo slut is expert at taking large things up their ass in their minds.

2) Where is your brain?  Force it in?  Against his training and experience?  I'm kinda thinking that someone should stick one in YOUR ass for even thinking something so freakin totally foolish and disrespectful.


Very well said

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 6:34:48 PM   
KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: marieToo

And whoever suggested shoving it in his ass anyway,  because he lied,  shouldn't  be in control of *anyone*.  


I agree!!!

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 6:36:19 PM   
marieToo


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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

quote:

ORIGINAL: Diane269

He is a very cool guy but, I don't like people that lie to me.

Should I send him on his way or pound his ass?

Diane269
aka DianeB


You can't be serious about this question are you... What kind of stupidity is this!?

He lies to you and you are considering Pounding his ass with the strap-on.... Thou he may have lied.... The question is what is your Motivation to "Pound his Ass"

If you asked... "Should I let him go" or should I work past the lie and teach him to take a Strap-On?"

No instead you give the impression your going to "Pound his Ass" Because he Lied!

Can you work past the lie and still be safe in doing the play... any play for that matter.  Or are you going to let this issue negatively affect you as it appears to be doing.





Ah....the voice of reason.  Ya gotta love this guy.

Edited to say....oh gees!


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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 6:50:14 PM   
enigmabrat


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Status: offline 		ok Honestly Im not sure he may have only lied because he wanted you to like him is that the only lie can you trust other thigs i mean its hard to trust after any lie because what els has the person lied about... Also it could have been dangerouse he said he wasnt a vergin and was with anal that can cause damage you have to be properly streched properly warmed up you cant use a kong first try in fact you should start with a finger not a didlo at all so safty wise he could have really gotten hurt... any way ill hush now\

respectfully
-da bratling-

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 6:54:17 PM   
KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: marieToo

Ah....the voice of reason.  Ya gotta love this guy.

Edited to say....oh gees!



Thank you... but history tells me that when someone gets to know me... I am either loved or hated.... very few are ever indifferent.

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 7:01:03 PM   
TheOriginalBitch


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Status: offline 		A Lie Is A Lie Is A Lie

Ask Yourself....What Else Will He Lie About?

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 7:53:14 PM   
HouseofBear


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Status: offline 		He lied, so therefore personally I would let him go.  However,what I seek is a relationship that is based on trust and honesty, not that of just play partners, though I would not want a play partner who would lie either, as that can become dangerous.  No, I would not just pound his rear, as that can cause damage to the one being pounded, and is a liar worth your own honor?

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 8:31:42 PM   
stockingluvr54


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ORIGINAL: Diane269

No

I just don't like a bullshiter!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


EXACTLY.........cut him loose!   (or tie him up and take the Kong to him.....yeoooowwwwww!) LMAO!

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 8:49:39 PM   
KarbonCopy


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ORIGINAL: Diane269

I took on a new strapon slut this weekend. We have chatting online and met once.
He told me he could take huge strapons. He lied...I put on my Kong strapon and
he had a very worried look on his face like he was very intimated. Anyway he asked
if I had something smaller. I asked how small? He replied about 6". I said WTF
you told me you have been trained to take huge dildos. So, I put the 6" on and
started to push it in. I told him to relax cuz it's not going in. He finally told me this
was his first time.
He is a very cool guy but, I don't like people that lie to me.

Should I send him on his way or pound his ass?


Diane269
aka DianeB


Who'd have thought that someone you agreed to meet over the internet would be a liar :p

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 10:12:04 PM   
Misstoyou


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ORIGINAL: KarbonCopy

Who'd have thought that someone you agreed to meet over the internet would be a liar :p



In the advertising trade it's called "puffing." If the lie means he doesn't suit, he doesn't suit. I'd be disappointed, but not particularly outraged...but then, I teach adolescents, and I find a lot about that experience transfers to here. lol

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 10:33:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		Perhaps asking why he lied would be the first step?  The next step would then depend on the answer and how you are feeling.

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/8/2006 11:30:24 PM   
joyinslavery


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ORIGINAL: marieToo

I do wonder if this had been a female submissive who had lied, how many people wouldve suggested a male dominant rip through her ass.




I wonder the same thing (and think I already know the answer).  I coudn't agree more. 



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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/9/2006 3:35:00 AM   
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No Diane pound his arse big time. Then let us know how it went. You are too considerate you should have just used Kong. No questions asked.

Stuff that femme stuff Kitty is it ???!!!! lol Trust relationships I arsk ya. You will be talking about feelings next.

I dont think he lied.....he just prevaricated a little.   Its out with KONG I say.

Out of interest Diane, what did you say to him at the time ?


That's mighty white of ya eggn' her on like that. How bout if I come find you, put a paper bag over your head and hang you up on a hook.....at let her fuck YOU in the ass.  How would you like that? I thought so....



 - R

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/9/2006 6:56:02 AM   
TeeGO


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Status: offline 		I have to chime in.  Lies are bad, very bad.  But depending on all the other circumstances a lie can be forgiven.  There is not enough information for me to make that judgement so just based on what I do know from the OP, I think he should be gone.

Now as to just pounding his ass?  Please, that is far from sanity.  It's stuff like that which feeds the perception in the vanilla that us BDSMers are sick.  A Top must be responsible and take care of their charge, that would be the bottom, in any kind of scene.  If you are on the side that has suggested otherwise I would ask you to stop and think about it.

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