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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/9/2006 7:22:07 AM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		Sounds to Me like the "fey Ray" met the mighty Kong and the fantasy didn't prepare him for reality- (objects in the mirror always appear larger than they are)--as with most do me's--I'd say spank the monkey and send the fool back to his comic books--stunts like that can get someone hurt and I'll have no part of that, IMHO.
 
 
 

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/9/2006 7:30:17 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MHOO314
--as with most do me's--I'd say spank the monkey and send the fool back to his comic books--stunts like that can get someone hurt and I'll have no part of that, IMHO.


Leave him to spank his own monkey, don't reward bad behaviour


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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/9/2006 3:03:01 PM   
Diane269


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Status: offline 		I'm sorry for what I said earlier in this thread.

It turns out he is also married so, I sent him on his way.

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/9/2006 4:00:39 PM   
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As Gorbachev said during the summit talks with Reagan, "Trust but verify."

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/9/2006 5:59:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think you have that backwards.  Knowing that doveryay, no proveryay was a favorite Russian proverb of both Gorbachev and Lenin,  Reagan said that to Gorby in 1987 during the signing of the INF Treaty.

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/9/2006 9:45:23 PM   
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I think you are correct.

Subnote: As everyone knows, Gloria Steinein coined the term "missile envy. " So, the "Kong" dildo had me imediately thinking of ICBMs and MIRVs. Clearly the lying boy was Russian. Lucky for him he didn't have to face the Pershing Dildo.




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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/9/2006 11:06:03 PM   
ToServeIsToLive


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Status: offline 		That's got to be one of the worst things you could possibly lie about (from the perspective of your own well being).  Putting stuff to big up there = painful.  Getting stuff  you can normally take rammed up there while your nervous = incredibly painful... I can't even imagine what the two combined would be like.

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/10/2006 4:00:26 AM   
forluvofmaria


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Status: offline 		A lie is a lie, nothing changes except any trust gained has now been lost....I give No second chances...If you break an egg, even unintentionally, you still have a broken egg....I measure My words carefully, I offer trust and expect to be able to trust ones words....when W/we meet and I find you have lied? Sorry, your loss and next contestant....Hurt Me with a truth and W/we can discuss it, Shame me with a lie and there is no where to go but, Gone.

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/10/2006 9:13:25 AM   
MistressSassy66


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Diane269

I took on a new strapon slut this weekend. We have chatting online and met once.
He told me he could take huge strapons. He lied...I put on my Kong strapon and
he had a very worried look on his face like he was very intimated. Anyway he asked
if I had something smaller. I asked how small? He replied about 6". I said WTF
you told me you have been trained to take huge dildos. So, I put the 6" on and
started to push it in. I told him to relax cuz it's not going in. He finally told me this
was his first time.
He is a very cool guy but, I don't like people that lie to me.

Should I send him on his way or pound his ass?


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Liars have no place in My life...My opinion...toss em.

A small fib like maybe he had some anal with smaller things....but to have NONE
after claiming he did.....out you go and dont let the door hit you on the ass on your way out.

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/10/2006 8:59:22 PM   
LTRsubNW


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ORIGINAL: Diane269

I took on a new strapon slut this weekend. We have chatting online and met once.  He told me he could take huge strapons. He lied

Guys do that. We wish for...we're sure that...but sometimes reality is a big shocker.
 
(You just learned this?)

...you told me you have been trained to take huge dildos. So, I put the 6" on and started to push it in. I told him to relax cuz it's not going in. He finally told me this was his first time.

DOH!!!  (Call me...I'll explain the details).

He is a very cool guy but, I don't like people that lie to me.

No one does.  He's a guy.  You didn't do your homework.

Should I send him on his way or pound his ass?

You should do what you think is appropriate.

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/30/2006 10:42:43 AM   
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im thinking in my humble opionion that honesty is the best policy for Aall parties. i have been totally honest with my Owner in that i have had no experience at all in this life style-even in the vanilla sense as well (i mean i was a virgin before i met Mistress (i am not embarrassed to admit that)) , Mistress has taught me everything i know, and i still have L plates as well, & i know im not ready for the strap on yet (Mistress knows & understands that), i mean, whats the point of pushing lil old me when i am not ready? LOL, just as well Mistress is watching me over my shoulder, my spelling sucks big time- or more to the point i am expert at typonese.


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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/30/2006 10:55:46 AM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		Reading this, all I could think was "Well, maybe he wasn't exactly clear on how big is 'big.'" Gods know that even something little in your butt can feel pretty huge, especially if you're inexperienced.

It seems like a good possibility that a relativly unexperienced person -could- think that a 6inch strapon is pretty darn large.


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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/30/2006 11:10:45 AM   
SaphireLynn


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quote:

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Diane269

Bottom feeder me? Have you looked in a mirror lately?


Yes in fact I have and I didnt see someone who takes pigs home then bitches when they squeal.


very good.... LOL

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/30/2006 11:13:34 AM   
babyboyk


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Status: offline 		on 30/08/06 perverse angelic wrote:
'Reading this, all I could think was "Well, maybe he wasn't exactly clear on how big is 'big.'" Gods know that even something little in your butt can feel pretty huge, especially if you're inexperienced.'


i would have to agree, lol

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/30/2006 11:30:09 AM   
marieToo


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quote:

ORIGINAL: babyboyk

on 30/08/06 perverse angelic wrote:
'Reading this, all I could think was "Well, maybe he wasn't exactly clear on how big is 'big.'"


Or maybe he wasnt clear that his asshole was actually his ass hole and not the proverbial hole in the ground that people have been talking about for centuries.

I cant believe this thread came alive again.  Im cracking up over here!! 

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 8/30/2006 11:41:38 AM   
perverseangelic


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Or maybe he wasnt clear that his asshole was actually his ass hole and not the proverbial hole in the ground that people have been talking about for centuries.

I cant believe this thread came alive again.  Im cracking up over here!! 


Didn't actually notice when it'd been written. It shows up as new on my screen.

I think maybe it's just that i'm pretty inexperienced when it comes to anal stuff. I, personally, have no concept of what big is, in terms of anal penetration. ~shrug~


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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 9/1/2006 12:19:49 AM   
marieToo


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quote:

ORIGINAL: perverseangelic

quote:

ORIGINAL: marieToo


Or maybe he wasnt clear that his asshole was actually his ass hole and not the proverbial hole in the ground that people have been talking about for centuries.

I cant believe this thread came alive again.  Im cracking up over here!! 


Didn't actually notice when it'd been written. It shows up as new on my screen.

I think maybe it's just that i'm pretty inexperienced when it comes to anal stuff. I, personally, have no concept of what big is, in terms of anal penetration. ~shrug~



Im sorry, I didnt mean to lessen the value of your obviously sincere statement.  I just happened to have been reading all the responses and played off of yours to make yet another joke about the situation.  I didnt mean to use you to do that, or to drag you into being a party to my sarcasm.  :) 

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 9/9/2006 3:13:17 AM   
birdie7015


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Status: offline 		I've read quite a lot of this topic and find myself agreeing with MistressOfGa.
 
I'm a submissive in England currently looking for a domme.  This topic has hit a crucial thing with me.
 
As far as I'm concerned to lie to your Mistress is the most tragic of crimes a submissive can do.
 
First of all it destroys all trust between you and then there is no point in the relationship.  It means that that domme will not be able to control the subbie because the relationship has gone to playing games.
 
There are several reasons why I will NEVER  under any circumstances lie to a domme.  I have given the first reason because it destroys all trust, confidence in each other and the domme then everytime they ask a question, will wonder if it is the truth.  There is then no point to the relationship whatsoever.  If people want to play sexual erotic games this is fine but I am assuming that here we are talking about a real domme/subbie or slave relationship.
 
Another reason why I would never tell a lie even if I knew I would punished for it, is because I would hate to found out later.  I would rather take a bit of punishment for something I had done, but had owned up to it.  To lie to a domme is just about the worst crime a subbie can commit and should carry the maximum penalty.  Either termination of the relationship or if a second chance was on offer, punishment would have to be in the form of a real sadistic beating to ensure that it didn't happen again.
 
I am in the business of avoiding beatings like that, so I would never put myself in that position.  It's hard enough trying to accomplish 100% obedience just with minor transgressions and the punishments because of them.  No, to lie to a Mistress is Taboo - it would destroy everything and all the work done to date.

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 9/9/2006 7:32:32 AM   
Owned1


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Status: offline 		holy crap birdie lower the font just a tad please, it almost blinded me

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RE: My new male slut lied to me - 9/9/2006 9:06:34 AM   
birdie7015


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Status: offline 		Yep! That's the sort of reply one expects from a player only out for a sexual thrill.  It's people like you who give BDSM a bad name.

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