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RE: Why do (some) Dommes specify no sex - 8/9/2006 9:00:35 AM

LaTigresse

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The only sex I want to have is with a S.O., any male that has contacted me, about serving me, has at some point or other brought up the part of their body below their belly button and above their knees. I do not wish to discuss, see or think about that part of their body. The only time that part of the body would interest me is if I fell madly in love with them. The odds of that happening are about the same as the odds of my being able to retire in the lap of luxury tomorrow.

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RE: Why do (some) Dommes specify no sex - 8/9/2006 10:07:13 AM

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

My 2 cents
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And LTRsubNW, you can have my offers. I get more now that I actualy put in my profile that I have someone under consideration than I ever did before. I dont understand that...

I think the explanation for the greater number of contacts is that male subs know that you're really looking for someone, and it stirs their competitive juices as they think they can ace out this contender.

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RE: Why do (some) Dommes specify no sex - 8/9/2006 10:09:18 AM

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Have you recently bought any lottery tickets? Keep me posted, LT.

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RE: Why do (some) Dommes specify no sex - 8/9/2006 10:10:27 AM

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ORIGINAL: MsGothUk

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ORIGINAL: Arpig

because once sex is involved they can no longer chatge money and claim "I am not a whore"

where in the question did it say Pro Dommes?

Exactly. This is for Dommes in general that do not make sex a primary factor. Face it.. once a guy blows his wad-he's done. Keep him in a suspended state you can actualy play with him :) 3 hours is far more fun than 2 minutes.

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RE: Why do (some) Dommes specify no sex - 8/9/2006 11:13:13 AM

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Because there health and reproductive issues/risks that are not innate to SM or Ds or bondage.

Because I want there to be only fully consensual sex since it does involve these risks. That cannot be assessed until one is in the relationship in my opinion.

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RE: Why do (some) Dommes specify no sex - 8/9/2006 1:29:24 PM

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Have you recently bought any lottery tickets? Keep me posted, LT.

Heyyyyyyy Ronbabyyyyyyy!!! Actually no. I keep forgetting.

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RE: Why do (some) Dommes specify no sex - 8/9/2006 4:24:43 PM

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I get more now that I actualy put in my profile that I have someone under consideration than I ever did before. I dont understand that...

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I find that too!!! strange..... or maybe it's the guys that don't want committment so therefore feel safe!!

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RE: Why do (some) Dommes specify no sex - 8/9/2006 4:31:59 PM

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This (DOM) specifies no sex as well but the sub ladies won't leave me alone!
"Sex, Sex, Sex" that's all they want to talk about!
Lotus, what do I do about that?

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RE: Why do (some) Dommes specify no sex - 8/9/2006 4:46:34 PM

zenofeller

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i think whoever does it is silly. sex is a great communication tool, it builds empaty and in general a capacity to understand the other. taking it out is like trying to play blindfolded baseball. sure, if you wanna. but i find it silly.

and i find the reasoning even sillier. hey, taking the visuals out of baseball allows the batter to concentrate on the bat. mkay.

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
The only sex I want to have is with a S.O., any male that has contacted me, about serving me, has at some point or other brought up the part of their body below their belly button and above their knees. I do not wish to discuss, see or think about that part of their body. The only time that part of the body would interest me is if I fell madly in love with them. The odds of that happening are about the same as the odds of my being able to retire in the lap of luxury tomorrow.

that strikes me as terribly sad.

< Message edited by zenofeller -- 8/9/2006 4:47:42 PM >

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RE: Why do (some) Dommes specify no sex - 8/9/2006 4:48:32 PM

LotusSong

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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

This (DOM) specifies no sex as well but the sub ladies won't leave me alone!
"Sex, Sex, Sex" that's all they want to talk about!
Lotus, what do I do about that?

I guess you'll just have to "cave" to the pressure :) You poor, poor man :)

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RE: Why do (some) Dommes specify no sex - 8/9/2006 4:51:09 PM

LotusSong

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ORIGINAL: zenofeller

that strikes me as terribly sad.

No doubt, it would be..... for you

< Message edited by LotusSong -- 8/9/2006 4:53:29 PM >

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RE: Why do (some) Dommes specify no sex - 8/9/2006 4:54:22 PM

popeye1250

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Lotus, I'm a Wreck I tell Ya!

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RE: Why do (some) Dommes specify no sex - 8/9/2006 4:54:24 PM

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Well its like I say, "once a king always a king, but once a knight is enough" What the hell does that mean anyways?

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RE: Why do (some) Dommes specify no sex - 8/9/2006 4:57:11 PM

PairOfDimes

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Error.

< Message edited by PairOfDimes -- 8/9/2006 4:58:05 PM >

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RE: Why do (some) Dommes specify no sex - 8/9/2006 5:00:30 PM

mp072004

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Because doing BDSM rarely causes me physical arousal or makes me want to engage in vaginal, anal, or oral sex.

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RE: Why do (some) Dommes specify no sex - 8/9/2006 5:42:01 PM

zenofeller

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong
No doubt, it would be..... for you

why do you think that it's something particular to me rather than universal (as it obviously is) ?

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RE: Why do (some) Dommes specify no sex - 8/9/2006 5:57:44 PM

popeye1250

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Lotus, "2 minutes?" You need to stop hanging out with frat boys!

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RE: Why do (some) Dommes specify no sex - 8/9/2006 6:02:09 PM

Wickad

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I'm not a big fan of the 'me too, me too' kinda posts but .... me too, me too!!

I don't fuck my boys because I chose not to. I find the idea .... distasteful. I don't find my boys unattractive just .... slaves.

Wickad

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsGothUk

quote:

ORIGINAL: Arpig

because once sex is involved they can no longer chatge money and claim "I am not a whore"

where in the question did it say Pro Dommes?

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RE: Why do (some) Dommes specify no sex - 8/9/2006 6:11:58 PM

LotusSong

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quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Lotus, "2 minutes?" You need to stop hanging out with frat boys!

Ya do what ya gotta do.. :)

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