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Overweight Male Doms - 8/12/2006 3:49:07 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


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Status: offline 		Okay, people REALLY want to talk about weight? Really? Fine, then, I have a question.

Why do so many male doms criticize overweight subs they don't know, or will never meet, when they themselves don't have the willpower, or control over themselves, to lose their own weight?

Do they really think that the way their sub looks reflects on them as the master, but the way they themselves look, doesn't?

Do they think we don't notice when they say before meeting that they have a few pounds they can afford to lose, the few meant 30, 40, or more? Is this honest?

Go on, you want to talk about weight? Then lets discuss the men for a change.

::grumble::

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RE: Overweight Male Doms - 8/12/2006 3:53:07 PM   
Level


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Status: offline 		This thread offends me and my sensibilities. I have contacted Mods 22 through 48 and posted complaints with them. I am sucking in my gut until I finish this post, then I am going to finish my 3 Musketeers bar (it has 45% fewer calories than the average leading chocolate bar, you know).

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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
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RE: Overweight Male Doms - 8/12/2006 3:54:07 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Plainly speaking,  we don't appear in the magazines in the plethora of situations you guys do.............michael jordan in whitey tighties (I actually like wts, more than boxers, and it had to do with Hash Jeans if you remember them, unisexual and no room for packages, did not Mr. Magoo in there swishing around and doing the chafe dance.)

I am ok with rubenesque women, I am  some tubby at my stage of life.  but if I drive the quarter ton ford explorer sport, I can't have a woman sitting there maxing out the GVW.

Ron


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RE: Overweight Male Doms - 8/12/2006 3:55:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		*pokes Level's tummy and makes him giggle* 

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RE: Overweight Male Doms - 8/12/2006 3:57:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

*pokes Level's tummy and makes him giggle* 


*makes he-man muscles while giggling and choking on the choco bar*

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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
One more trip and I'll be gone

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RE: Overweight Male Doms - 8/12/2006 3:58:47 PM   
DoctorDubious


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ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful

Okay, people REALLY want to talk about weight? Really? Fine, then, I have a question.

Why do so many male doms criticize overweight subs they don't know, or will never meet, when they themselves don't have the willpower, or control over themselves, to lose their own weight?

Do they really think that the way their sub looks reflects on them as the master, but the way they themselves look, doesn't?

Do they think we don't notice when they say before meeting that they have a few pounds they can afford to lose, the few meant 30, 40, or more? Is this honest?

Go on, you want to talk about weight? Then lets discuss the men for a change.

::grumble::



Jeeezuz woman! 
Shut up!
If shit like this was allowed to go on,
there'd be red faces and sucked-in-guts
from one end of Ameeeerica to the other

DD
it's a good thing you're from Canada
where all the men look like lumberjacks and hocky players
(except the eskimos, who are redeemed by their willingness to share a wife or two)

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RE: Overweight Male Doms - 8/12/2006 3:59:03 PM   
Daddysredhead


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Status: offline 		Hi, Ron...

I've missed you, ya' big ole' rugged thing, you... 

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RE: Overweight Male Doms - 8/12/2006 4:01:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		This just gave me very undignified giggles..........poking tummies then running to the bathroom due to giggles and much wine and water drank with no food

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RE: Overweight Male Doms - 8/12/2006 4:03:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		I agree Cin.  Although my Dom is built like the proverbial brick well you know and He is very altheletic, I've seen soooo many that aren't and read profiles of those who aren't.  Let's face it...its hard to lose weight...man or woman. 
What we need is encouragement, not criticism.

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RE: Overweight Male Doms - 8/12/2006 4:04:09 PM   
Daddysredhead


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Status: offline 		Hey there, Level...

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ORIGINAL: Level

*makes he-man muscles while giggling and choking on the choco bar*


*does her best to perform the Heimlich manuever on her buddy and make it look like a dance move as not to detract from his manliness* 

(I do my best to look out for your well-being and preserving your machismo, Level)

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RE: Overweight Male Doms - 8/12/2006 4:07:01 PM   
sharainks


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Status: offline 		I've wondered about this myself.  Somehow I think men view themselves differently than they view women and often women view them differently as well.  A tall heavy man is "imposing" etc. 

Like the OP what gets to me is when a man posts a pic of himself obviously quite overweight and proceeds to declare that he is athletic and in shape and will only accept submissives who are in the best of shape.  One has to wonder about the difference in what is in the pic and what they see in the mirror. 

The reverse is often true of women.  They post a pic and seem to be of about average weight and label themselves as a BBW.  One also has to wonder what they see in the mirror. 

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RE: Overweight Male Doms - 8/12/2006 4:09:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

This just gave me very undignified giggles..........poking tummies then running to the bathroom due to giggles and much wine and water drank with no food


Hey there, LaT...

can I drink wine with you?  You sound like fun!    And to think...  it all started with the bewbies, lol... 

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RE: Overweight Male Doms - 8/12/2006 4:10:37 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


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ORIGINAL: Level

This thread offends me and my sensibilities. I have contacted Mods 22 through 48 and posted complaints with them. I am sucking in my gut until I finish this post, then I am going to finish my 3 Musketeers bar (it has 45% fewer calories than the average leading chocolate bar, you know).


Mmmm, personally I have a weakness for a man with some padding...

::passes Level a whole box of 3 Musketeers::

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RE: Overweight Male Doms - 8/12/2006 4:12:30 PM   
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Plainly speaking,  we don't appear in the magazines in the plethora of situations you guys do.............


My goodness, youhave NEVER been to a store that sells gay magazines, or firefighter calendars?

Never been to bar on ladies night when the strippers are on?

Men are just as much physical objects of lust as women are these days.

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RE: Overweight Male Doms - 8/12/2006 4:14:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

Hey there, Level...

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

*makes he-man muscles while giggling and choking on the choco bar*


*does her best to perform the Heimlich manuever on her buddy and make it look like a dance move as not to detract from his manliness* 

(I do my best to look out for your well-being and preserving your machismo, Level)


lol at "dance move"
 
*using Elvis voice* *how appropriate LOL*........Thankyew thankyew vurry much.....

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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
One more trip and I'll be gone

~~ Stone Temple Pilots

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RE: Overweight Male Doms - 8/12/2006 4:16:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

This thread offends me and my sensibilities. I have contacted Mods 22 through 48 and posted complaints with them. I am sucking in my gut until I finish this post, then I am going to finish my 3 Musketeers bar (it has 45% fewer calories than the average leading chocolate bar, you know).


Mmmm, personally I have a weakness for a man with some padding...

::passes Level a whole box of 3 Musketeers::


*stashes the box and hugs cin, wiggles eyebrows*
 


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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
One more trip and I'll be gone

~~ Stone Temple Pilots

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RE: Overweight Male Doms - 8/12/2006 4:16:52 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		If I have, I have tried my goddamnedest to be blissfully unaware of it.  Looks like it is working, for me.

Seriously,
Ron


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RE: Overweight Male Doms - 8/12/2006 4:19:37 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


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ORIGINAL: DoctorDubious

Jeeezuz woman! 
Shut up!
If shit like this was allowed to go on,
there'd be red faces and sucked-in-guts
from one end of Ameeeerica to the other


Well, maybe if more men were made to feel self-concious about their weight they wouldn't be shouting insults at large women as they drive by them on the street.

Maybe they wouldn't send random emails to women calling them fat ugly pigs.

I would never wish the shoe to be on the other foot...but I'm tired of being target practice for the idiots who keep those stupid overweight women threads alive.

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it's a good thing you're from Canada
where all the men look like lumberjacks and hocky players



LOL Haven't you ever heard the Lumberjack Song? They apparently all dress in high heels and eat buttered scones for tea.

As for hockey players...Eeek, I like a man with teeth, thanks.

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RE: Overweight Male Doms - 8/12/2006 4:21:05 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		I agree!
Overweight Doms need to hit the gym, walk, run, bike and push away from the table.
I'm 6'0" tall and about 6 weeks ago I weighed 233 lbs.
The trainer at the gym I go to did a total body workup on me and said my "Optimum weight" is "209".
I went on that Nutrisystem diet for a month and lost 6 pounds without going to the gym.
I'm back at the gym 3 days per week now treadmill for 40 minutes and total body workout for an hour afterwards.
I'm down to "225.2" lbs now so I have about 14 more pounds to lose but I'll work out like an animal for the next month or so!
(They have an electronic scale that measures to the tenth of a pound there)
I really feel like I've accomplished something when I weigh myself once a week and see 3 pounds gone!
And I like it when after a few weeks I really start to get my strength and stamina back!
And I feel much better, my clothes fit better and I have a lot of energy when I workout regularly. Also, my posture gets better from strengthening all those muscles.
Yes, Guys, don't bitch about the women if you aren't in some type of regular excercise program to keep the weight off or lose it if neccessary!
Even if it's only a regular walking regimen.
Now! Get down and give me "20" Fatboy!

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RE: Overweight Male Doms - 8/12/2006 4:24:13 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


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ORIGINAL: bandit25

Let's face it...its hard to lose weight...man or woman. 
What we need is encouragement, not criticism.


 Thank you!! That's all I was saying!! Time for tolerance and compassion.

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