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Poor me - 8/16/2006 9:54:04 AM   
CrappyDom


Posts: 1883
Joined: 4/11/2006
From: Sacramento
Status: offline 		This site is driving me nuts.  In the past I have rarely found people whom I was interested in but had great success in connecting with that select group of women.  Here I find a amazing plethora of women who I find interesting and attractive but they all seem to be hundreds of miles away and the few who are local have never responded to my emails.

When I ran a group I had access to more women than I wanted but having recently reentered the scene I have found almost nobody I was interested in locally. 

Craigslist has been of no use, either through running or responding to ads, either with or without a picture.  I write a mean ad and again, even without pictures, I used to get somewhat bombarded by responses.

I just don't get it, I am wiser, more experienced, more talented and stable than I was before.  I guess it could just be the whole running a group thing but then that would make it all not about me, a concept I hate to admit.

Anyway, I just had to vent here since I don't seem to find any other place to "vent" anything...
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RE: Poor me - 8/16/2006 9:57:59 AM   
michaelGA2


Posts: 1533
Joined: 4/26/2006
Status: offline 		welcome to the jungle

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RE: Poor me - 8/16/2006 10:00:36 AM   
KatyLied


Posts: 13029
Joined: 2/24/2005
From: Pennsylvania
Status: offline 		Distance and attraction are inversely related.  sorry.

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RE: Poor me - 8/16/2006 10:07:53 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


Posts: 19224
Joined: 10/25/2005
Status: offline 		Something about you just isn't ready yet...

Plus you're not poly :)

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RE: Poor me - 8/16/2006 10:11:07 AM   
NastyDaddy


Posts: 957
Joined: 9/8/2004
Status: offline 		Cheer up crappy, you know women love losers, and besides... it can always get worse...








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RE: Poor me - 8/16/2006 10:16:50 AM   
CrappyDom


Posts: 1883
Joined: 4/11/2006
From: Sacramento
Status: offline 		LA,

I am normally monogamous but I just don't have the time for a committed relationship and am quite open to almost anything at the moment.  Hell I am even reading "The Ethical Slut" a book that was presented to me by the slave of a local lesbian dominant.

I have even pushed away a rather stunning woman from Nevada because I don't want to commit to a full time relationship right now so while I am not poly in my core it is what I am doing at the moment.

edited to add, something about me is VERY VERY frigging ready.

< Message edited by CrappyDom -- 8/16/2006 10:17:48 AM >

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RE: Poor me - 8/16/2006 10:22:13 AM   
zumala


Posts: 1121
Joined: 6/16/2005
Status: offline 		...  Something in your pants, perhaps, Crappy?  I thought you weren't looking?  And why do something against your interest and nature?  If you're a monogamous kinda guy, you should stick to your inclinations.
 
But anyway...  I'm sorry that you're frustrated.
 
zuma

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RE: Poor me - 8/16/2006 10:26:14 AM   
Homestead


Posts: 1005
Status: offline 		It's times like these that always make me grateful to have porno.

God knows what idioces I would pursue otherwise.

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RE: Poor me - 8/16/2006 10:34:10 AM   
Bearlee


Posts: 2311
Joined: 10/25/2004
From: South Central CO
Status: offline 		Seems to me I've seen your picture and your profile...but it's gone missing!  Yes, I understood you not to be looking too.  I would say THAT might be your 'problem'...that you stated you weren't ready.  Silly one! 
 
You're an interesting man...it'll happen when you quit thinking (and stating) you aren't ready.
 
beverly

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RE: Poor me - 8/16/2006 10:35:48 AM   
juliaoceania


Posts: 21383
Joined: 4/19/2006
From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Status: offline 		I do not see how a couple of hundred miles should make a difference for a more casual affair without long term expectations. Perhaps you should cast your net further afield to find someone looking for a more casual and short term fling even if they live a good distance away. After all, the distance could help keep things more to the level of commitment you desire in a play partner.

I set my sights within the state of California, because I knew the likelihood I would find what I needed local were slim, and it worked for me in my present situation. In your situation it might work since you are not looking for either relocation or a serious connection.

Just some thoughts

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RE: Poor me - 8/16/2006 10:41:32 AM   
mnottertail


Posts: 60698
Joined: 11/3/2004
Status: offline 		Hey, Crapster...

Set yourself up as the bumpsenmeister to women wanting to get out for the day under the huber law, or whatever it's called in your state.

When they go to workin' on your last nerve, you can get them cross-wise with the jailer without too much trouble.

Ron 


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RE: Poor me - 8/16/2006 10:42:42 AM   
PlayfulOne


Posts: 1047
Status: offline 		Crappy,

Did you consult Delray and get an ok to create a venting post?

On a serious note maybe the problem is that you are so ready.  Relax , roll with flow, and things will take their course.

K

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RE: Poor me - 8/16/2006 11:06:28 AM   
proudsub


Posts: 6142
Joined: 1/31/2004
From: Washington
Status: offline 		Maybe it's your name Crappy, no one wants a crappy dom.

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RE: Poor me - 8/16/2006 11:17:46 AM   
michaelGA2


Posts: 1533
Joined: 4/26/2006
Status: offline 		isn't it odd how a Dom can express the same things a sub can and it's not whining...hmmm
go figure, huh?


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RE: Poor me - 8/16/2006 11:26:30 AM   
gooddogbenji


Posts: 5094
Joined: 11/15/2005
From: Toronto
Status: offline 		Maybe it's because he's a well respected poster already who's whining for the first time after 1100 posts?  And it's still whining, but, I would think, knowing Crappy, slightly tongue in cheek.

I will, however, whine that you're whining that his whining aint whining, but yours is whining.

Yours,


benji

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RE: Poor me - 8/16/2006 11:27:42 AM   
michaelGA2


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Status: offline 		but if whining is whining, then the whiner is whining as much as past whiners whine...LOL

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RE: Poor me - 8/16/2006 11:32:47 AM   
happypervert


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Joined: 5/11/2004
From: Scranton, PA
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I just don't get it, I am wiser, more experienced, more talented and stable than I was before. 

All of that may be the problem. I suggest that you forget what you know, read a few books by John Norman and then incorporate your newfound knowledge in all communications with the objects of your desire.

Soon enough you'll be up to your eyeballs in babes, and you will owe me big time.

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RE: Poor me - 8/16/2006 11:34:24 AM   
mistoferin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: happypervert

quote:

I just don't get it, I am wiser, more experienced, more talented and stable than I was before. 

All of that may be the problem. I suggest that you forget what you know, read a few books by John Norman and then incorporate your newfound knowledge in all communications with the objects of your desire.

Soon enough you'll be up to your eyeballs in babes, and you will owe me big time.



Priceless!!!!

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RE: Poor me - 8/16/2006 11:34:54 AM   
popeye1250


Posts: 18104
Joined: 1/27/2006
From: New Hampshire
Status: offline 		Crappy, I think that if you want to be in this site as it IS a National site you have to be willing to travel.
I stated in my profile that I'm available to travel anywhere in the country. Also that I'd be willing to split up half the time at my place, half the time at a submissive's place. You HAVE to be more flexable I think in this situation.

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RE: Poor me - 8/16/2006 11:35:16 AM   
Bearlee


Posts: 2311
Joined: 10/25/2004
From: South Central CO
Status: offline 		 

ROFLMAO...
 
Now THAT was funny!!!

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