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Attractive married men cheating on their wives...

are a turn off because of dishonesty

37% (39)

are more attractive than the same man if he is single

3% (4)

are a turn on, but I would not date one myself

1% (2)

used to turn me on until I slept w/ one

1% (2)

neutral, would sleep w/ him & keep his secret if I liked him

7% (8)

should divorce & become poly if they seek variety

14% (15)

used to turn me off until I dated one who told me he was single

0% (1)

are a turn off for another reason

7% (8)

are great for sex because they don't get clingy

9% (10)

are the majority of dominant men that I have met

10% (11)

r a big% of the responses I get, tho I asked them not to reply

4% (5)

Total Votes : 105

(last vote on : 11/9/2009 6:38:01 AM)
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Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 2:28:46 PM

Crake

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please answer assuming you would be attracted to the man if he weren't married:
you can check multiple answers.
feel free to elaborate on your answer if you'd like to discuss it in depth.

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RE: Married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 2:33:41 PM

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None of the above they are just men.
Who really knows why people cheat. I've cheated and been cheated on and neither made me feel very good about myself.

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RE: Married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 2:34:32 PM

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I try not to judge someone as "scum", but I will state I am not turned on by a married man, especially one that is lying to his wife.

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RE: Married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 2:34:55 PM

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Cheating is wrong. And not the dirty naughty fun kind of wrong. Although there is one guy I was fooling around with and later found out not only is he married, but he's a pastor. For some reason that got me hot, but I would never knowingly get involved with someone who was married to someone else.

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RE: Married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 2:48:34 PM

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To each thier own...

But I feel like if the guy would cheat on his wife, he'd cheat on me too.
I myself think if hes cheating hes not an honest guy, there fore he is not desirable
in my eyes.

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RE: Married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 2:49:03 PM

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people who are cheating on their spouce need a swift kick in the ass and need reported to their spouce. IT's deceitfull, wrong, dishonest, and It's not honoroable.

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 4:10:29 PM

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quote:

please answer assuming you would be attracted to the man if he weren't married:

OK... Attractive married men who are cheating on their wives are... (drum roll please)

Unacceptable and off limits to me because I would never do that to another human being.

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 4:11:55 PM

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something tells me Crake is married.

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 4:14:31 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Evanesce

OK... Attractive married men who are cheating on their wives are... (drum roll please)

Unacceptable and off limits to me because I would never do that to another human being.

Perhaps your answer would be different if you were wearing different shoes. And this is not a shot at you. Everyone's circumstances are drastically different.

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 4:14:51 PM

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quote:

something tells me Crake is married.

LOL! Ya think?

quote:

Perhaps your answer would be different if you were wearing different shoes.

I've worn different shoes, and been sorely tempted to cheat on my spouse, but did not, because, again, I would not do that to another human being. There simply is no excuse for it, unless said spouse is so profoundly affected by Alzheimer's that they're in a nursing home and don't even know who you are. In that situation, it's understandable.

However, for myself, I can't even DATE more than one guy at a time, and if the Kaptin was the one in the nursing home with Alzheimer's, I'd still be faithful to Him, because that's just who and how I am.

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 4:25:15 PM

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or maybe Crake is single and wondering if he should date a married woman and posing the question a different way to track gender bias in answers....

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 4:26:33 PM

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IMHO...you should Not date a married woman....nothing good will come of it.

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 4:27:56 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Crake

or maybe Crake is single and wondering if he should date a married woman and posing the question a different way to track gender bias in answers....

My Suggestion: no.

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 4:28:13 PM

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I have dated married men before. It's not something I am proud of, but at the time it fitted my needs in the best way. I was in a relationship (she knew) and I didn't want anything but sex. This gave us both what we wanted.

I don't go out looking for them, but I won't ever say I wouldn't sleep with one again. At this time though, that's not what I am looking for.

I guess because I only expected what was given, it didn't bother me in the same way. I didn't want him to fall in love with me, leave his family, or anything like that. I just wanted some enjoyable sex, that's it.

We are all human and we do things sometimes we never thought we would... I can promise, I never thought I would either.

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 4:28:21 PM

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quote:

or maybe Crake is single and wondering if he should date a married woman and posing the question a different way to track gender bias in answers....

I dunno... how fond are you of the teeth you could be losing if her husband were to find out?

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 4:32:59 PM

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Along these lines, as I cruise the site, I am amazed by how many men seem to use this site just to cheat on their wives.

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 4:56:12 PM

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Once a cheater always a cheater, the same applies to liars as well. Wait in this case I would suggest cheaters are liars and visa versa.

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 5:53:11 PM

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The primary reason I am not interested in married men is the dishonesty factor. However, I have also met married submissive males whose wives have no problem with them going outside the marriage to find a Dominant Woman. I am not interested in them, either, because I am seeking a life partner and such a man already has one.

There wasn't a box for "make up a large percentage of the responses I receive, even though I state very clearly that I am not interested in them," or I would have checked that box, LOL.

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 9:50:41 PM

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The only way it would be even remotely acceptable would be if I were to talk to the wife/SO and varify for myself that she knew and was ok with it. Otherwise, I will not help someone cheat. I won't hinder them, but you can be damn sure that I don't aprove and I will NOT assist the person in any way.

However, because of the level of commitment that we are seeking, married men don't qualify even if their spouses do know and approve.

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 9:56:26 PM

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I will be honest my husband has others, just as i do, and we are both happy, but i can also admit this is my second husband and in over the years i have become more opened minded, and no matter what life still goes on

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