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Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:01:01 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		Alrighty, someone, in another thread (Considering this is the first post, it would be tough to have been in this thread, no?) suggested posting an ad on community boards to look for a Domme.  This got me thinking.  Would this work????

So, I have decided to test it out.  I want to post a paper in my building's laundry room which would attract the right type of woman.  I do have a few questions, to make it a kind of CM scientific, sociological experiment.  Essentially, what I would like to do is to attract a dominant woman not into BDSM, without scaring her off.  No mentions of slavery, or "I need to have electrified stakes shoved through my balls as you set my hair on fire." 

Please note, I neither expect this to work, nor do I necessarily want to be owned by the responding women.  I think it would be a very interesting experiment, and I would encourage everyone else to post similar notices near their homes, so we can get an idea of whether this would work.

Essentially, what I would like, is suggestions on how to go about this - phrasing, words to use, words to avoid, amount of text, contact info and such. 

Obviously, posting too much there could quickly lead to problems, so I am thinking that an anonymous e-mail address would be best. 

So, any suggestions?

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:10:48 PM   
BrokenDoll


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Status: offline 		Why not use the classafieds in the local paper for this

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:13:54 PM   
beenwhipped


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Status: offline 		i would agree on the annon email. and i would avoid the Walmart board

maybe phases like "strong woman not afraid to make demands" i would not use the words dominate or submit

it should be an interesting experiment


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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:14:41 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		Another good possibility.  Maybe some people could put their ad there, too.

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:15:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: beenwhipped

maybe phases like "strong woman not afraid to make demands" i would not use the words dominate or submit



I like that one!  Thanks!

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:18:09 PM   
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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:19:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Intelligent, well educated, somewhat shy but very adorable, young man seeks intelligent, humorous, confident woman to explore........(I got stumped here, need help)



Yeah, but we're looking for suggestions what I can wrote about me, not some fictitious Mr. Right, LaT.

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:20:25 PM   
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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:23:36 PM   
catize


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?????????????????????

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:24:30 PM   
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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:24:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

to explore... a female led relationship?



Excellent!  Very nice!  Me likey!

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:25:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: catize

Will carry your laundry basket wherever you lead me
?????????????????????



What was that saying about hell and handbaskets?  Where are we going again?  And you promised I'd get a flogging tonight!  LOL

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:27:54 PM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Intelligent, well educated, somewhat shy but very adorable, young man seeks intelligent, humorous, confident woman to explore........(I got stumped here, need help)



Yeah, but we're looking for suggestions what I can wrote about me, not some fictitious Mr. Right, LaT.

Yours,


benji


benji my precious pup.......I was writing about you! Sooooo, leave out the shy part if it is not applicable.

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:28:00 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

Alrighty, someone, in another thread (Considering this is the first post, it would be tough to have been in this thread, no?) suggested posting an ad on community boards to look for a Domme.  This got me thinking.  Would this work????

So, I have decided to test it out.  I want to post a paper in my building's laundry room which would attract the right type of woman.  I do have a few questions, to make it a kind of CM scientific, sociological experiment.  Essentially, what I would like to do is to attract a dominant woman not into BDSM, without scaring her off.  No mentions of slavery, or "I need to have electrified stakes shoved through my balls as you set my hair on fire." 

Please note, I neither expect this to work, nor do I necessarily want to be owned by the responding women.  I think it would be a very interesting experiment, and I would encourage everyone else to post similar notices near their homes, so we can get an idea of whether this would work.

Essentially, what I would like, is suggestions on how to go about this - phrasing, words to use, words to avoid, amount of text, contact info and such. 

Obviously, posting too much there could quickly lead to problems, so I am thinking that an anonymous e-mail address would be best. 

So, any suggestions?

Yours,


benji


What are you considerations for dealing with someone who may actually take it seriously?   Do you plan on playing them until you get your curiosity satisfied?  Or do you plan to tell someone who writes to your anonymous email addy, right off the bat that they were just a part of an experiment?

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:30:30 PM   
NastyDaddy


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Status: offline 		Don't know if this will help, but I recall a similar test from a couple years ago.

A man placed a personals ad in a local newspaper. His ad said simply ''Sugar Daddy seeks totally uninhibited and open minded young female playmates''. It ran for one day only, yet it received something like 23 replies. The majority of the replies were from totally uninhibited and open minded young females ages 16-20, many providing their cell numbers and street addresses. Out of those, the street addresses all came from very afluent neighborhoods.

Quite obviously it has potential if you don't word it wrong and fuck it all up.... there's no telling what your bait would attract.

While you're at it... leave a few ads for psychics to call you... don't leave a number, if they're really psychic they already know it.



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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:31:13 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		That I have not decided yet.  It is a valid concern.  However, I think if the right person comes along, who am I to say no, right?  And if they're all the wrong people, then I can say no without having lied.  That's a part of dating.

Any better suggestions?

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benji

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:33:08 PM   
jamesthehumanrug


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Status: offline 		greetings benji
i dont think the laundry is the place at all
what top goes in there
for that matter what good bottom is hanging there ?????????
you gotta be in the rite back yard dont you ,to send out smoke signals for someone to interpret right....
or left....
what ever the case, maybe....

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:33:44 PM   
beenwhipped


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Status: offline 		marieToo has a point that needs to be addressed, we are talking about a human being with real feelings. thank you for bringing that up

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:34:42 PM   
gooddogbenji


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

benji my precious pup.......I was writing about you! Sooooo, leave out the shy part if it is not applicable.



Mostly I just can't blow my own horn.  Not only do I have moral issues with it, but at 14" it just aint long enough to reach my mouth.

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:35:43 PM   
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