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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:36:44 PM   
beenwhipped


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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

benji my precious pup.......I was writing about you! Sooooo, leave out the shy part if it is not applicable.



Mostly I just can't blow my own horn.  Not only do I have moral issues with it, but at 14" it just aint long enough to reach my mouth.

Yours,


benji
and now its become a bit heavier because its full of shit

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:39:52 PM   
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That I have not decided yet.  It is a valid concern.  However, I think if the right person comes along, who am I to say no, right?  And if they're all the wrong people, then I can say no without having lied.  That's a part of dating.

Any better suggestions?

Yours,


benji


Yes.  My suggestion would be to only do this if your Ad is sincere. Otherwise, it would seem that you would be intentionally misleading people who are unknowingly becoming a part of your "experiment".  As you stated in your OP....

"Please note, I neither expect this to work, nor do I necessarily want to be owned by the responding women.  I think it would be a very interesting experiment...."

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:40:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

Mostly I just can't blow my own horn.  Not only do I have moral issues with it, but at 14" it just aint long enough to reach my mouth.

Yours,


benji


Okay, this part I understand all too well. I liked Tress's idea. (I generally do) I assume from what I know that well educated would not be horn blowing ( all 14") sooooooo.....how about  "Well educated, humble, yet playful, young man, seeks to explore... a female led relationship"??


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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:44:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: marieToo

Yes.  My suggestion would be to only do this if your Ad is sincere. Otherwise, it would seem that you would be intentionally misleading people who are unknowingly becoming a part of your "experiment".  As you stated in your OP....

"Please note, I neither expect this to work, nor do I necessarily want to be owned by the responding women.  I think it would be a very interesting experiment...."


Unfortunately, I do not believe in protecting the uninvolved from investing 10 minutes to write an e-mail to an anonymous account.  I mean, if I then wrote back saying I was interested and played it up for a month before coming clean, sure, that would be a problem, but again, if it's the right person, I will reply with a positive message, if I don't see any hope of it, then I will reply with a "sorry, but I'm not interested" message.  If that's too abusive to someone, I'm sure I'll survive.

Yours,


benji

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:48:40 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		littlesarbonn, I see you lurking.  I do hope you decide to post here, your input is needed.

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:49:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		Fascinating notion.  Make sure you let us know the results, will you, Benji?
 
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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:51:25 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I don't think it would be any different than having a profile on here and recieving e-mails. If you get an interesting one and answer, great, if not.....they are the ones that replied to your add. As in life, there are no guarantees.

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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:56:31 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		Now, let's add to the mix - Suggestions for e-mail adresses - is hotmail better than yahoo, or any preference there (I just mean for someone to send to - would anyone be more apt to respond to a yahoo account or something?  Does it even matter?
- Any suggestions for a user name?

Also, should I include my age or any othe personal information in the ad, or just "Well educated, humble, yet playful, young man, seeks to explore a female led relationship"

Are we happy with this text?

Yours,


benji

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 2:59:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

Now, let's add to the mix - Suggestions for e-mail adresses - is hotmail better than yahoo, or any preference there (I just mean for someone to send to - would anyone be more apt to respond to a yahoo account or something?  Does it even matter?
- Any suggestions for a user name?

Also, should I include my age or any othe personal information in the ad, or just "Well educated, humble, yet playful, young man, seeks to explore a female led relationship"

Are we happy with this text?

Yours,


benji


Hmmm... maybe not your actual age, but you should say somewhere that are are legal. 
 
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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 3:00:54 PM   
gooddogbenji


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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 3:09:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

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ORIGINAL: marieToo

Yes.  My suggestion would be to only do this if your Ad is sincere. Otherwise, it would seem that you would be intentionally misleading people who are unknowingly becoming a part of your "experiment".  As you stated in your OP....

"Please note, I neither expect this to work, nor do I necessarily want to be owned by the responding women.  I think it would be a very interesting experiment...."


Unfortunately, I do not believe in protecting the uninvolved from investing 10 minutes to write an e-mail to an anonymous account.  I mean, if I then wrote back saying I was interested and played it up for a month before coming clean, sure, that would be a problem, but again, if it's the right person, I will reply with a positive message, if I don't see any hope of it, then I will reply with a "sorry, but I'm not interested" message.  If that's too abusive to someone, I'm sure I'll survive.

Yours,


benji


Nothing wrong with that.  Your intentions sound very sincere at this point.  In the OP they didnt.  You asked for suggestions and mine was that you dont do anything that could lead to someone getting hurt or being used in your 'experiment'.  I hope I brought an important consideration to your attention.  good luck, I hope you find someone.   

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 3:18:25 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		My intentions are still primarily to dissect people as they squirm beneath my scalpel.

Maybe not literally, but it still is not primarily about finding someone.  It is primarily about finding out if this avenue could work or not. 

And yes, I am involving the innocent.  Screw 'em.

Yours,


benji

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 3:21:40 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Hmmmmm, knife play! (or would that be filed under the category of medical play?) I think it best to leave that OFF the flier.

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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 3:22:33 PM   
gooddogbenji


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benji

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 3:25:08 PM   
LaTigresse


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Awwwwww... please, LaT?

Yours,


benji


Well, it might make for more interesting replies. In that case you MUST forward them to me!


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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 3:28:49 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		Alright, now, back to serious.  E-mail address, in line with the whole "not scary" concept.

[email protected]?
[email protected]?
[email protected]?

As you can tell, I kinda need your ideas at this point.

Yours,


benji

< Message edited by gooddogbenji -- 8/18/2006 3:29:14 PM >

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 3:31:41 PM   
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<perks>  The Tigress uses knives????     <swoons>

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 3:32:14 PM   
beenwhipped


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Status: offline 		make the email simple, and not refering to the lifestyle. unlike mine i created a yahoo account just after i discovered the lifestyle so that i could use that email and now i wish it were something else

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 3:34:14 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		So just create a new one!  I'm sure I have about 20 e-mail addresses I used at some point, but would have no idea what they are....

So, what would be an example of a simple, non-lifestyle related address?

Yours,


benji

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RE: Back to the basics - Laundromats - 8/18/2006 3:38:10 PM   
beenwhipped


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Status: offline 		gooddogbenji at whereever you want

or just anything random letters that you can remember

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