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RE: Is this too funny or what?? - 9/27/2006 2:26:20 PM

FirmhandKY

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I read your post, and I was pretty sure it was going to be "mod-ified" pretty quickly.

Generally, a summary is best, or no more than a sentence. Common emails like "u wannna chat?" are so generic that you can post the entire thing.

Most people don't have a problem figuring out what the mods will allow. I just get the feeling you are in the "don't wanna know, just wanna bitch" stage of acceptance (or lack thereof).

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RE: Is this too funny or what?? - 9/27/2006 2:37:57 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: FirmhandKY

I read your post, and I was pretty sure it was going to be "mod-ified" pretty quickly.

Generally, a summary is best, or no more than a sentence. Common emails like "u wannna chat?" are so generic that you can post the entire thing.

Most people don't have a problem figuring out what the mods will allow. I just get the feeling you are in the "don't wanna know, just wanna bitch" stage of acceptance (or lack thereof).

FHky

Please explain the difference between the op here where it would appear the total message was reposted and mine.

Obviously others also have a problem knowing what the moderators will allow, judge that by the number of postings removed from this thread by the moderator.

As for my level of acceptance, I post things as I see them, which I am perfectly at liberty to do. If you see that as bitching, well that is up to you.

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RE: Is this too funny or what?? - 9/27/2006 2:54:06 PM

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I can't answer for the mods, I'll let them do it.

But from my point of view there are a couple of issues. The first is that the mods simply can't make everyone happy, and there are by definition going to be instances and times where they make decision that will be uneven. There is simply no way around it, unless "no standard" is the standard.

The second issue is attitude.

I've been corrected by the mods before, for something I posted. I thought it was pretty harmless, and that others had done a lot worse, but I took it in stride. I understand how difficult it can be to be a mod, and didn't take it personally.

The impression I get, why I think yours was pulled (and I'm no mod, I am just speculating), and this one stays is because, if I remember correctly, you DID post the email originator's nick the first time. The second thing (from memory) was that your thread and post was more in the "bitchy" category, rather than the giggles category.

Different intent, different reactions from the mods. I can live with it.

I think your harping on your "injustice" kinda validates the mods decision the first time. Take your lick, learn from it, and have fun.

Or not. Your decision. *shrugs*

FHky

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RE: Is this too funny or what?? - 9/27/2006 3:16:04 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: FirmhandKY

I can't answer for the mods, I'll let them do it.

But from my point of view there are a couple of issues. The first is that the mods simply can't make everyone happy, and there are by definitions going to be instances and times where they make decision that will be uneven. There is simply no way around it, unless "no standard" is the standard.

I've been corrected by the mods before, for something I posted. I thought it was pretty harmless, and that others had done a lot worse, but I took it in stride. I understand how difficult it can be to be a mod, and didn't take it personally.

The impression I get, why I think yours was pulled (and I'm no mod, I am just speculating), and this one stays is because, if I remember correctly, you DID post the email originators nick the first time. The second thing (from memory) was that your thread and post was more in the "bitchy" category, rather than the giggles category.

Different intent, different reactions from the mods. I can live with it.

I think your harping on your "injustice" kinda validates the mods decision the first time. Take your lick, learn from it, and have fun.

Or not. Your decision. *shrugs*

FHky

You remember incorrectly. My original post did not show the originators nick at any point. I was very careful to remove it from the post and that was not an issue at all. Secondly if you read back I was not the only one that giggled at the post.

Only I can know the intent behind my original post so whether you can live with it or not is not really the point.

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RE: Is this too funny or what?? - 9/27/2006 3:42:57 PM

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quote:

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And how exactly did you determine that my post contained the complete email received and the ops only contained an excerpt?

We can't know for certain, which is why only brief excerpts are allowed. Brief as in a line or two at the most. This isn't personal, please don't take it as such.

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RE: Is this too funny or what?? - 9/27/2006 4:07:50 PM

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so .... ok, angelina, what is your purpose for arguing with a mod, and trying to say there is some sort of hypocrisy going on?

You think you are going to change something? Start a revolution? Or is it an attention getting mechanism? Or perhaps you are one of those people who every little inconsequencial slight must be addressed and addressed and everyone has to see you fighting "the man"?

What's that get you? Angry? Is that your "kink"?

I'm outa here on this one.

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RE: Is this too funny or what?? - 9/27/2006 6:47:28 PM

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I'm rooting for Fucky on this one.

No offense intended, but have you ever read "FHky" phonetically?

Yours,

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RE: Is this too funny or what?? - 9/27/2006 6:49:23 PM

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A few days ago I received a message from someone saying he was passing through my city on business, would be here for two days, and wanted me to come to his hotel room to prove I am "for real." I started to send a friend who is a detective for the violent crimes division in my city. Just to make the guy nervous. lol!

I also received a message from a supposed Dom in my state asking me if I wanted to chat. After six emails within two or three minutes, I finally said "no." At which point he called me a fake and said I couldn't "handle the heat."

And an email from a Dom who said I should be taking orders not issuing them.

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RE: Is this too funny or what?? - 9/27/2006 9:05:27 PM

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I'm rooting for Fucky on this one.

No offense intended, but have you ever read "FHky" phonetically?

Yours,

benji

None taken.

Treasure thought it was Firm Hanky for the longest time ...

No one has ever posted about mucus play ...

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RE: Is this too funny or what?? - 9/27/2006 10:34:26 PM

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*edited*

I double checked myself since I've not had to report anyone in a while and it seems that there are more categories than there used to be for the report message options.

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RE: Is this too funny or what?? - 9/28/2006 1:23:43 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: FirmhandKY

so .... ok, angelina, what is your purpose for arguing with a mod, and trying to say there is some sort of hypocrisy going on?

You think you are going to change something? Start a revolution? Or is it an attention getting mechanism? Or perhaps you are one of those people who every little inconsequencial slight must be addressed and addressed and everyone has to see you fighting "the man"?

What's that get you? Angry? Is that your "kink"?

I'm outa here on this one.

FHky

Whilst you are entitled to your views, I really can't see what this has to do with you. I was making a comment to the mod and not to you and can see nothing wrong with trying to understand the difference between 2 posts. If you think that is attention seeking then that is your opinion not mine. I did not realise that you were not allowed to question things here, just accept.

I would suggest though that if you are going to comment on any of my posts you at least take the time to ensure that your comment is accurate. Suggesting that my post was pulled because I included the originators nick in my original thread is totally false. Because you did not find my post amusing does not make it bitchy. Others; male, female, Dom and Sub did find it so.

From what you have said so far it seems that this is supposed to be a place where you should not question or learn but just to accept what you are told. I may be submissive but that does not mean that I sit back and accept without question.

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