mstrjx
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ORIGINAL: RavenMuse ACK! The only thing I have to add here is that needle play is one of a very few areas where, if a girl of mine has a burning curiosity to try them, or has already tried and gets great enjoyment from them, it is something where I will find someone who's skill I trust and place her in his/her hands for the duration of that play. One needle phobic old coot here! I usually only post on topics that I really have something of value to add, or to make an interesting (to me, anyway) joke. This is one of the few areas that I don't have any experience. Japanese bondage is another. The latter I would like to try. This one, I'm not so sure. I think it is one thing to know someone with experience in an area we are uncomfortable to 'have at it' (a deliberately bad expression) with our partner so he/she can have the experience. I have always thought, however, that if my partner wanted to have an experience that I am not qualified that I would learn that skill. First, ultimately it means more to my partner to have 'me' do something with her. Second, it gives me experience for the future. Of course doms can have limits as well, but I believe ours should be softer than our partner's. We should fewer taboos, IMHO. No, I haven't done needles. Seen pictures of it. Might be cool, might not. But if I was with someone who really wanted/needed to know, I would prefer to learn than to feel that she was somehow 'outgrowing' me. Jeff
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