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odinlove -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (10/20/2006 6:44:57 PM)

Any body wanna send me some slave nude family photos, or masters mistress, or slaves, and you can reamain anamous.  



subartist4dom -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (10/20/2006 7:30:43 PM)

Yes we are nude in this home most of the time.  Although when master where's shorts they get pulled down all the time.  When it comes to cooking I wear sweats.  Master didn't understand why till a few days ago while he was cooking.  Some grease splattered onto his foot and his foot is now proudly donning band-aids.  *grins*  Of course when we have guests we wear clothes and to keep people peering in we got blankets out and covered the windows.  As for unmentionables, as we have one here, it is ok to be nude up to a certain age.  Once they start running around and asking 101 questions is when clothes come on. 



odinlove -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (10/20/2006 7:50:57 PM)

That was a great note, that last post and a good mention, This a long thred , and may have been mentioned, what about kids and Being Nude at home.



RedSavageSlave -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (10/20/2006 7:56:09 PM)

It is against TOS to discuss any issues relating to children on these threads.



LadySeraphina -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (10/20/2006 8:39:10 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: RedSavageSlave

It is against TOS to discuss any issues relating to children on these threads.


I totally understand why, but it's almost a shame, since this is an excellent opportunity to find out how others blend family and BDSM.


At any rate, I was going to say that my boy and I are nude almost all the time when we are home alone. Naturally we don clothes around others, but it's not so much that I require him to be nude as it is the most natural state for both of us, especially given how much we love skin-on-skin contact of any sort.



odinlove -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (10/20/2006 8:49:55 PM)

Thanks Lady Seraphina and last Post was Yummy?  and thank you Red SS



subsue6 -> Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (10/23/2006 7:05:50 PM)

I have served a domme (not 24/7 but most weekends) who had me topless all the time and occasionally nude, often when her women friends were visiting.  I find this is a fairly common requirement among dommes.

                  Sue



r4l884slave -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (10/23/2006 7:27:59 PM)

I agree she has to be warm-getting sick isnt any good-and as an Owner it is One's responsability to keep her healthy and safe too(in response to cooking and errands)
I agree about pizza man-shouldnt force lifestyle onto anyone not willing. Plus can cause problems that frankly are not worth it.



LadyHugs -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (10/23/2006 7:41:13 PM)

Dear LotusSong, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
In response to loosing the allure of being special or arrousing sexually, if a slave was naked in house; I can only speak for my own experiences and what is in my mind's eye.
 
I personally do not want to see a slave as a 'sex' object.  I want to see the beauty of slavery.  In motion, the body is artistic and beautiful to me, their inability to mask their own sensuality, emotions and the body's silent language is what I enjoy.  I see slaves as beautiful spirits free in service and in life.  I don't want to be drawn to genitals--I want to be drawn to their soul/spirit--
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs



LadySeraphina -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (10/23/2006 7:45:25 PM)

What a lovely point, Lady Hugs. My houseboy is both sexually and aesthetically pleasing to my eye, but even my subs who serve non-sexually must be nude during play, and initially they seem to think I will be looking at their genitals, or thinking of it sexually, but I simply prefer the power differential it creates, along with the access it gives me for play.

I honestly don't know how that will work out when I have a multi-slave household. I may compromise by having a minimal 'uniform' of sorts. *shrug*

Ultimately, do what feels right.

Edited for spelling.



LadyHugs -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (10/23/2006 8:00:44 PM)

Dear LadySeraphina, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
In having a multiple slave household and at one point a mix of men and women in a multiple slave household, I find having the slaves treated differently than the slaves present or past, gave them mental assumptions.
 
I noticed you mention 'play' frequently.  In my household, it wasn't about play or sex; although there was such.  However, the Master/Mistress-slave dynamic I'm accustom to and enjoy maintaining is about the relationship and not the fun frilly playing.  Every morsel of a slave needs feeding, not just the physical play or sex but, their mental, emotional, spiritual self and see that the power slaves possess is beyond 'play scenes' and or 'sex.'  I don't like seeing slaves self conscious about their bodies or to be in an awkard position, that some find themselves in, if some are nude and some in uniform, just as much as its awkward to have some use formal protocol and some none at all.
 
Uniformity in my mind's eye, is equal love, equal protection, equal responsibility and duties, equal in all things as much as permitted.
Even those I only touch for a moment, get the maximum of my attention, appreciation and admiration.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs



dsamethyst -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (10/24/2006 11:20:39 AM)

before the great and powerful twin succumbed to the dreaded cancer three years ago...I wore a bra almost 23-24 hours a day...of course you must be aware that I had a G-H cup size...and if i didnt have the ladies bolted down they had a life of their own....i have a new pair now .....they are just past ayear old now  and well they stand up all ontheir owna nd well unless i do not want my new nipples pointing to mars i wear a bra..  well i just like being able to wear  big girl bra that matches my panties now...and well i just like wearing a bra like a big girl!  so now im a 12 -16 hour girl....it is a weird thing for me trying to figure out   bra or now bra...

I would have thought that not wearing a bra would have increased the likelihood of cancer...becasue well of calcifications that occur fromthe trauma of those large and lovely knckers knocking around!!

perhaps another  answer why bra wearing women are more likely to have breast cancer  women with larger breast are more likely to wear a bra longer...well the larger the boob the more tissue that can go bad!!! 



yuik -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/9/2007 1:03:15 PM)

i started serving a woman about a month ago who requires this of me. Well i am kept naked cept a chastity device while at her residence but i consider that nude. And its really not an issue my gym bag is always right by the door and if i need to answer the door i just slip on my shorts, i have got some wierd looks from the fedex guy wearing just gym shorts everytime i answer the door but i really dont care. As for windows i never really thoguht of it as an issue shes on the 9th floor and if anyone can see in our windows they have a issue of their own, we have the blinds closed when playing and we are seperated by a 4 lane street from the building across from us so theres no way you coulf glance across and make out what your seeing. (or at least i hope not). and i dont cook or have breasts so thats not an issue, just makes me realize what women go through for some men. and i thought i was going above and beyond....



wwsmith -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/9/2007 1:24:36 PM)

For me, some clothes are sexier anyway, I'd prefer she wear a thong all the time, with a high slit skirt, I like that look. Boobs do a bit more for me with something under them (corset, push up, etc.), and I think over time if they have any weight they hold up better when supported.

Now one could dream of chains from nipple rings to collar as a support system...[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m13.gif[/image]

Keep something practical next to the door for the neighbors and the various missionaries (though maybe we could get put on some sort of do not preach list if she answered the door for them all geared up....)



MasterNdorei -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/9/2007 1:36:30 PM)

This thread was started so long ago there is a chance i already responded, but with 11 pages, i am not going back to see...

Master has kept me naked most of this summer. We live in a small town, with no neighbors close enough to see in our windows.

One thing about the expereince that i did not expect is how odd it feels to wear clothes. i am aware of them every moment. It's almost like wearing something in public is an adventure because no one knows that i really am a slave.

When Master and i lived together close to the beach there was no way i could be kept naked, but if your setting permits, i highly recommend it.

Master's dorei
(who also keeps a sarong by the door)



MistressDiane -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/9/2007 1:44:24 PM)

Around our house it's just not practical.
Besides that, I personally like a little left to the imagination. I find it highly erotic to *strip* someone down or watch as they do it themselves at our command.



nmjardine -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/9/2007 2:07:41 PM)

I'm not yet collared, but I would have no problems with it as long as I am allowed to put on clothing when not-consented others are around. I'm usually naked when I'm at home already and just wear panties when it's that time of the month.



favesclava -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/9/2007 2:19:16 PM)

Master's slaves have slave dresses . these are very short straplees things that are easy off easy on. in the bed room we are naked unless ordered to wear "outfits" (corsets or matchin bra panties thingys) .he is  always wearing something



Crush -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/9/2007 5:11:42 PM)

Our home is pretty much "clothing optional"which means we are both nude most of the time.  Yes, there is a robe near the door for that occasional knock from the mailman or neighbor, but otherwise inside or out back behind our fence, clothing isn't really a thing here....more like a mini-nudist camp!

Yep, it is a good thing !



DVS -> RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? (8/9/2007 5:36:35 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SusanofO

Is this a reasonable request? I've read that some Dominants and Masters want their submissives or slaves to be nude at home all the time. They are simply not allowed to wear clothes in the home. I am wondering how this actually works for them in a practical sense.

I am not ashamed of nudity, but - what if a pizza delivery man or a mail person, or a friend or relative comes to the door who either 1) Is not aware of their bdsm life-style or 2) Doesn't necessarily want to see them nude? What then?

I see this listed as a "requirement" for potential submissives and slaves in some Dominant profiles, and am wondering if they actually do live this way, or are mostly just fantasizing and hoping someone will agree to it someday.

What say you?

Thanks for any replies.

- Susan
Everything BDSM is relative.  Nothing is decided by just one partner.  You both sit down and talk things over and you both decide what is going to be and what isn't.

If you don't like the nudity thing, you say so.  If you want to negociate yourself a deal where you can wear something when it's cold, or when someone comes to the door, you should be able to.  If it were me, and I was saying nudity was the rule, I'd only have you nude when I was there to see.  What difference does it make if you are nude or not, if I can't be there to enjoy the visual? 

Maybe you want to negociate where you are totally nude, but if someone comes to the door, he will always answer it.  And, if he's not there, you are not required to be nude.

Just some examples of how you might make it easier for you two to get along and both be happy with what you decide.  There are no set rules that HAVE to apply to your situation.  EVERYTHING is negociable, as long as the both of you decide how it will be, and agree to the terms.

Make your relationship totally yours and yours alone.   Just because you are the submissive member of the partnership, that doesn't mean you don't have any rights.

There should be times when you can talk to him as an equal, and make your points understood.  And, if he's a good man, he will listen to you, and allow you to have your way, sometimes.  It's only the smart thing for him to do, if he really cares about you.



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