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RE: This Is Embarrassing.. - 8/29/2006 12:45:23 PM   
twicehappy


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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Wow! None of the ladies in here like being on top? (Cowgirl)
Which position do you like then?


Bad me, i like being on top once in a while providing Scooter is wearing goggles and a snorkel, lol (yes i know we are talking about intercourse here and so am i). 

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RE: This Is Embarrassing.. - 8/29/2006 12:46:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		I never found that to be so for me. I can't get any pleasure pychically from riding on top,  I don't get enough clit stimulation, and I don't get aroused. and I have bad knee's bad back bad everything and so riding on top put me in quite a lot of pain from being on top of my knee's and my partner was to skinny and small to bear any of my weight so I had to bear it myself which stressed wrist joints to no end, and even when I could sit up and ride instead of hovering, I still didn't get any enjoyment out of it.

I get far more 100 percent more clit stimulation arousal and enjoyment from plain old missionary. And it's not going to cause me any amounts of pain or discomfort from the bad back bad knee's bad ankles or anything else on me that is fucked up and causes me pain.


Women can control their own stimulation more, and get more direct clitoral contact by being on top and are much more likely lead to orgasm.


< Message edited by FelinePersuasion -- 8/29/2006 12:50:35 PM >

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RE: This Is Embarrassing.. - 8/29/2006 1:51:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have to disagree that its an unflattering position from my point of view atleast.  Especially when she leans over a little and her hair cascades around her face and her breasts are in mine.  Wow that is a thing of beauty, but then I'd have a hard time thinking of a position women look bad in.

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RE: This Is Embarrassing.. - 8/29/2006 2:05:17 PM   
Sunshine119


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Status: offline 		OK, I have to agree with many of the women here that being on top is not my favorite position either.  I like my body, enjoy how he has his hands free to torture other parts of me while I am riding, but, the clitoral stimulation is not anywhere as good as it is when I'm in the missionary position.

Finding comfortable positions is becoming more and more of a problem as we both age....lol  When he's on top, his knees start to hurt.  When I'm on top, my arms start to hurt.  What a mess we are.  Consequently, we take turns in about 5 different positions (ok, so we CAN'T change positions in two!).  

The goal is to please him and not cause myself too much of the bad kind of pain.  In addition, I love to orgasm too, so I'm not a happy camper when I miss out on that.  But, being multi-orgasmic (as most women are), eventually we get around to being in a place where everything comes together.


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RE: This Is Embarrassing.. - 8/29/2006 2:05:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		wOw,  this post surprises me,  I did not realize there were so many women who did not like different postions.  Personally I love variety, I love sex, and I love any position.  I have yet to find a postion I dont enjoy.  I think it is a matter of letting yourself go and enjoy the ride.  Sex is way better than working out in the gym and gets great results when done often enough <eg>

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RE: This Is Embarrassing.. - 8/29/2006 2:14:37 PM   
redpetals


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Status: offline 		my favorite position for anal is on top..facing my partner..

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RE: This Is Embarrassing.. - 8/29/2006 2:20:07 PM   
DivaZya


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Status: offline 		Hellos, the position caught My attention, hope y'all aren't bent that I had to toss in a comment!
I get nothing at all from missionary, tho I *think* I may have kinda sparked in that position once- Riding gives Me maximum sensation and controll of the moves. After I orgasm, I'm willing to let My Primary spurt. after all, it's all about the sensations, why let it be over too fast?

Does it matter that I'm not even a sWitCh or submissive?

I also suggest facing away, with your legs / [ / ] every other.. makes for even more interesting connectivity, and of COURSE your man can smack your tushie all you want!

Always the best Diva~Zya



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RE: This Is Embarrassing.. - 8/29/2006 2:42:08 PM   
akisha


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Status: offline 		I love being on top, that way He can bite and play as much as He likes because His hands are free. It's not a dominant position for me because for one, i dislike my body and on top I can't hide it from Him where as in missionary what really can He see but my face and sometimes my chest hehe. If you slide your knees back you get way more clitoral stimulation.

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RE: This Is Embarrassing.. - 8/29/2006 3:02:10 PM   
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Finding comfortable positions is becoming more and more of a problem as we both age....lol  When he's on top, his knees start to hurt.  When I'm on top, my arms start to hurt.  What a mess we are.  Consequently, we take turns in about 5 different positions (ok, so we CAN'T change positions in two!).  


We gave up on intercourse a few years ago with my bad knee and His bad hip.  But toys are wonderful!!

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RE: This Is Embarrassing.. - 8/29/2006 3:02:53 PM   
KeirasSecret


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Status: offline 		I've found that being on top is easiest for me if I can keep one foot on the floor. It makes for really good leverage so my legs dont get tierd as fast and helps in changing pace, depth, and angle. Though, I've only gotten off while on top once....wish I could remember how I did that.

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RE: This Is Embarrassing.. - 8/29/2006 3:12:59 PM   
givemyall


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Status: offline 		oooh I love being on top... get the lighting right, suck yout stomach in, shoulders back, throw your hair about in a sexy way and grind away to your hearts content! 

One thing I have always found to help, is having a mirror placed where you can see yourself, I always find it quite erotic and encourages me to lose myself - but it is all down to the lighting and having the confidence that YOU are the best hes ever had riding him...Enjoy!

Ooh bugger, now im feeling horny lol

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RE: This Is Embarrassing.. - 8/29/2006 3:20:04 PM   
stockingluvr54


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

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Wow... This is kinda surprising for me? I was under the impression most women liked being on top? I've heard that a woman has more control of her clit stimulation by being on top? But I'm a male so WTF do I know? Anyways...carry on...will watch this thread with interest.....

Women can control their own stimulation more, and get more direct clitoral contact by being on top and are much more likely lead to orgasm.

It's also a very stereotypically dominant position, exposes the woman's body in as unflattering a way as possible, is awkward and tiring to maneuver, and puts a lot of focus and attention on giving the woman pleasure.


Ya...somewhere along the line I'd heard that a woman can have more control over her clit stimulation in the on top position...that's why I was surprised to see the semi negative posts on this position?

As far as some women thinking it's an unflattering position? I don't get that at all? If they're facing you you get to peek/play at the muff/ titties/ face...if facing backwards there isn't a better view in the world from this mans point of view!!!!!

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RE: This Is Embarrassing.. - 8/29/2006 3:22:46 PM   
stockingluvr54


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ORIGINAL: twicehappy

quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Wow! None of the ladies in here like being on top? (Cowgirl)
Which position do you like then?


Bad me, i like being on top once in a while providing Scooter is wearing goggles and a snorkel, lol (yes i know we are talking about intercourse here and so am i). 


Hell Twice...you don't count....you just like to ride...period! (couldn't resist..lol)

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RE: This Is Embarrassing.. - 8/29/2006 3:42:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Wow! None of the ladies in here like being on top? (Cowgirl)
Which position do you like then?


My favorite is doggie style...I love doing it that way...feels great!!

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RE: This Is Embarrassing.. - 8/29/2006 7:19:27 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Most of the women I went out with loved being on top because they had much more control over their own stimulation.
I liked it because I could look at them and twist their nipples!
It's sexy looking at a woman's face when she cums!

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RE: This Is Embarrassing.. - 8/29/2006 7:32:25 PM   
cuddleheart50


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Status: offline 		Im just not comfortable on top, it just doesnt feel right.

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RE: This Is Embarrassing.. - 8/29/2006 8:24:25 PM   
LeMis


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Status: offline 		I LOVE being on top (cowgirl - either facing him or his feet), along w/ doggy and spooning too. 

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RE: This Is Embarrassing.. - 8/29/2006 8:55:20 PM   
addisonclarkgirl


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Status: offline 		i don't enjoy being on top either.  i'm worried about how i look, if i'm too heavy, that i'm not doing a good enough job.  Plus, it doesn't seem overly submissive to me.  i'm glad someone else out there feels the same way.  i always thought that women loved it, because it helped them orgasm better or something.  i get too nervous to even come close to cumming.  Thanks for posting this though!  It helps knowing i'm not alone.

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RE: This Is Embarrassing.. - 8/29/2006 9:02:16 PM   
marieToo


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As far as looks, I think I look adorable perched on a cock.  But I have the large breast issue which can make it a little uncomfortable, unless they're teathered somehow.   plus...I dont get any enjoyment being on top, I dont like the feeling of being in control. 

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RE: This Is Embarrassing.. - 8/29/2006 9:12:10 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Marie, there's that large breast thing again.
Just how big are they?
Are you talking "Breast Reduction" territory?

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