cynnacent1 -> RE: Ownership Tattoo (1/4/2005 12:20:28 PM)
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Looks nice cynnacent. So where did your owner get his tattoo? Thank you. i'm very happy with way it. As far as any personal details regarding my Master (as well as anyone else's personal business), i'm sure He'll offer a reply, should He choose to. quote:
Given that relationships are often not permanent, I am impressed when somene gets permanently marked like that. In that He and i place a great deal of importance on communication in our relationship, my thoughts and feelings in regard to receiving the tattoo was discussed in great detail prior to His deciding that i would have it. Due to the communication we share, i can say that the event of my receiving INSIDEYOURMIND's mark of ownership was not shared on the forum with any intent or hopes of impressing anyone. He and i both always find great joy in sharing our happiness, and certain significant events of our relationship with other members of the boards. It should not be mistaken as anything less nor anything more than that. quote:
But when I meet a girl bearing a tattoo or brand from a former owner, I wonder just what it really means. Some relationships fail, true enough. Some make poor choices in choosing partners, true enough as well. Of course, no one here can answer what it means when you meet a girl bearing a brand from a former owner. you should Ask her, and Ask him as well. Beats the hell out of me as to what it means for anyone else in their relationship, i can only answer for myself. my Master's ownership mark signifies that i am His property for life. It's that simple. quote:
Sure, the submissive demonstrates devotion and probably the expectation of a permanent relationship, but what about the dominant? In this case i CAN answer for INSIDEYOURMIND as well as myself as it is a subject we have discussed between the two of us before. Our relationship is serious to us, and that is where the importance rests. In this relationship the devotion is mutual with each side equally committed to the other infinitely. There are many who have shared our happiness with us, we both understand that we will also run across the cynics along the way who may not take our relationship seriously. Perhaps five, or ten, or twenty years from now we will hold a huge formal party in celebration of our relationship having weathered the sands of time & invite those who have expressed a sharing of our joy, and welcome the cynics to attend as well! Time will tell. Shall we accept your RSVP now or then? :) quote:
Just my opinion, but it seems really shallow and maybe just a vanity for a dominant to permanently mark a submissive without getting marked in return. Of course your opinions matter in your relationships. Your kink is *yours*. Master's kink is *His*. Anyone in a BDSM relationship of any type can surely grasp that simple basic concept. Therefore, given the dynamics of THIS D/s relationship, whatever reason He has for taking pleasure in placing His ownership mark upon me, is perfectly fine with me ... however, i'll not answer for Him on this point either (even though i do know what His take on it is). ;) He and i discuss everything and the decisions are always His to make regardless. i am His to enjoy in anyway He may deem fit, and i trust Him with that power ... otherwise i'd not have submitted in giving Him such power over me. Many Master/slave relationships DO work that way, ...ya know? quote:
I notice that Merc and Beth went for tattoos together. Perhaps they'll share their opinions on this. i've followed their posts since they became members. i find myself in agreement with the majority of the opinions they have expressed. It seems that the structure of their relationship may be quite similar to that of mine and INSIDEYOURMIND. i won't be surprised to find that their opinion is in striking contrast to our's, if at all. ¸,ø¤º°cynnacent°º¤ø,¸ (proudly owned by, and devoted to INSIDEYOURMIND)
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