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INSIDEYOURMIND -> Ownership Tattoo (1/3/2005 11:15:22 AM)

I am taking my sub to a tattoo parlor for my mark, I will post a photo when we get back, and I am sure she will have some comments to go with it.

She does have a fear of needles!




sub4hire -> RE: Ownership Tattoo (1/3/2005 12:27:43 PM)

Speaking of tattoos. Well I'm not into them. I guess from the military and such. Knowing they track you by your tattoos. Not that I have ever committed a crime, It just sort of freaks me out to know I could be tracked so easily.

Aside from my paranoia's. I have a tan brand. I go to the tanning salon. Being shaved I decided to brand a D for Doug on myself. Only he see's it. Its great.

Anyone else ever done anything like that?




rubytuesday -> RE: Ownership Tattoo (1/3/2005 12:35:12 PM)

Cant wait to hear how that goes - I have a tattoo at the grand old age of 41 and I love it - while its not an ownership mark as such it does have special meaning - I was worried about the pain but in fact the pain wasnt anywhere near that bad ..................................

smiles
ruby




Mercnbeth -> RE: Ownership Tattoo (1/3/2005 12:59:27 PM)

Congrats!!!

I remember the day beth & I got our tattoos, the first for both of us. Are you getting one too?

Did you design it (Let me guess - Snake or Spider????) or are you getting something 'off the shelf? Don't keep us in suspense too long.




feline -> RE: Ownership Tattoo (1/3/2005 3:12:00 PM)

"I have a tan brand."

Interesting . . . I have done that before while tanning. But for no special reason. A heart here, a star there. [;)] I'm curious to know what you use to keep the area from tanning? I would ask to see a picture, but you mentioned something about shaving, so I'm assuming it's in a rather private spot. [:)]

I'm looking forward to seeing the pictures.[:)] I have a couple of tattoos myself. As far as being painfull, it on depends on where you have them placed. [;)]

Take care,

[image]local://upfiles/17000/4EE28C806DCC448CAAE1B7A93DEFFF0F.gif[/image]




perverseangelic -> RE: Ownership Tattoo (1/3/2005 3:32:20 PM)

ooooooooooo. I can't wait to see!

I'll be going to get my first tattoo in a month or so, depending on when the money is available.





sub4hire -> RE: Ownership Tattoo (1/3/2005 4:07:47 PM)

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Interesting . . . I have done that before while tanning. But for no special reason. A heart here, a star there. I'm curious to know what you use to keep the area from tanning? I would ask to see a picture, but you mentioned something about shaving, so I'm assuming it's in a rather private spot.


I use a child's alphabet D. Just have to be careful about making sure it stays in the same spot. Yes, it is in a private place. Although I once had a photo. Not a clue where it is now.





sub4hire -> RE: Ownership Tattoo (1/3/2005 4:08:19 PM)

Magnet I should say...of the refrigerator variety.




INSIDEYOURMIND -> RE: Ownership Tattoo (1/3/2005 7:10:29 PM)

DRUMROLL PLEASE!

It was a fun afternoon, she got her tatt, and was a trooper!

She was so good, I even took her out for dinner!


[image]local://upfiles/7331/EFFA81D36A6945AE87EEFC6A38AE4E37.jpg[/image]

This photo also gives you a good view of the collar that she wears at all times in public.




cynnacent1 -> RE: Ownership Tattoo (1/3/2005 8:40:20 PM)

i'd been looking forward to having Master's ownership tattoo. He designed it Himself and i am proud and honored to display it.

Although i do have a high tolerance for pain, needles make me a bit woosey. Since the work was performed behind me, i couldn't watch even if i'd wanted to and that held the wooseys back. It wasn't nearly as painful as i had imagined it would be. The worse moments of pain were experienced while the tattoo artist worked on the center most areas of the design probabley because the midsection of the nape of my neck is not exactly the fleshiest spot. The spinal bones of the neck are a sensative area when receiving a tattoo. Although it did hurt like hell, i closed my eyes most of the time & focused on other thoughts as well as on keeping my body as relaxed as i could, and it helped alot. Even so, it hurt enough that my eyes watered from beginning to end, my palms moistened, and my entire body was covered in sweat by the time it was finished.

i'm appreciative of having such a concerned and caring Master, He held my hand the entire time and did ask a few times whether or not i needed to take a break. i didn't take any. It seemed like a good idea to just tolerate the pain and be done with it. Besides, i couldn't wait to finally see the final results! i love it.

( Thank You Master, i love You. [sm=kiss.gif] )


¸,ø¤º°cynnacent°º¤ø,¸ (proudly owned by, and devoted to INSIDEYOURMIND)







rubytuesday -> RE: Ownership Tattoo (1/3/2005 10:34:11 PM)

I love the tattoo - well done cynnacent - you should be proud of yourself :-))

smiles
ruby




proudsub -> RE: Ownership Tattoo (1/3/2005 11:00:38 PM)

Very nice.[:)]




MizSuz -> RE: Ownership Tattoo (1/4/2005 6:00:32 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: sub4hire

Speaking of tattoos. Well I'm not into them. I guess from the military and such. Knowing they track you by your tattoos. Not that I have ever committed a crime, It just sort of freaks me out to know I could be tracked so easily.



Last night I logged onto Amazon.com to purchase a couple of books. I've only purchased things on Amazon dating back to 1999, but I was horrified to be prompted to select an address and find that they had pretty much all my addresses dating back to 1993 on file.

Investigations of public records is what I do for a living. You can be tracked by your utility accounts, your name, your social security number, your business records, your website ownerships, any disability claims you've made...I could go on and on. All of that is public record.

Folks who don't want just anybody to track them would be well served to contact the three main credit companies and advise them that they do not want ANYBODY to run ANY credit inquiries without their expressed permission. It's a pain in the ass because if you WANT any sort of credit (including utility accounts) you will have to sign a permission before the inquiry can be run and the red tape will slow the process. It also means that a lot of your junk mail that you get in snail mail will disappear.

It's very difficult to live off the grid in this day and age.




MizSuz -> RE: Ownership Tattoo (1/4/2005 6:03:31 AM)

Very nice!

Does that collar require an alan wrench to open? I have one that is similar to that. They are beautiful.




INSIDEYOURMIND -> RE: Ownership Tattoo (1/4/2005 6:12:57 AM)

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Does that collar require an alan wrench to open?


The collar she is wearing does not require a screw to close it, it is a solid piece of sterling silver that has an opening. To put it on, she must twist it in a manner to fit on her neck.

It is a beautiful piece of jewelry, and it compliments her slim neck very well. This collar is worn at all times except when we are alone.

When we are alone she wears a leather collar that I made myself.




happypervert -> RE: Ownership Tattoo (1/4/2005 10:10:52 AM)

Looks nice cynnacent. So where did your owner get his tattoo?

Given that relationships are often not permanent, I am impressed when somene gets permanently marked like that. But when I meet a girl bearing a tattoo or brand from a former owner, I wonder just what it really means. Sure, the submissive demonstrates devotion and probably the expectation of a permanent relationship, but what about the dominant? Just my opinion, but it seems really shallow and maybe just a vanity for a dominant to permanently mark a submissive without getting marked in return.

I notice that Merc and Beth went for tattoos together. Perhaps they'll share their opinions on this.




Mercnbeth -> RE: Ownership Tattoo (1/4/2005 10:46:01 AM)

quote:

it seems really shallow and maybe just a vanity for a dominant to permanently mark a submissive without getting marked in return.
I notice that Merc and Beth went for tattoos together. Perhaps they'll share their opinions on this.


this slave can't speak for Master regarding His feelings, but she feels very positive and honored to have a tattoo representing her relationship with Master. to this slave, it is a representation of her position in our relationship, to serve our relationship by being His slave for His pleasure til' death do us part.

however, it was done as and is a representation of our M/s relationship. it was not a case of a dominant permanently marking a submissive; it was Master's decision to have His slave permanently marked. it is difficult to explain to those who see no distinction between being a dominant's submissive and being Master's slave. if Master had NOT wanted to get one, it would not make the one that is on this slave any less meaningful, or an indication that He was not as committed to our relationship, it would be simply just His preference.

this slave would not have the tattoo had it not been for Master wanting it. He got a tattoo at the same time, so it is something that we share and something He told His slave that He desired for us to have together. we each have a different design, but they are a set.






perverseangelic -> RE: Ownership Tattoo (1/4/2005 11:32:24 AM)

Beautiful! It's very lovely. Congrats.




cynnacent1 -> RE: Ownership Tattoo (1/4/2005 12:20:28 PM)

quote:

Looks nice cynnacent. So where did your owner get his tattoo?

Thank you. i'm very happy with way it. As far as any personal details regarding my Master (as well as anyone else's personal business), i'm sure He'll offer a reply, should He choose to.
quote:

Given that relationships are often not permanent, I am impressed when somene gets permanently marked like that.

In that He and i place a great deal of importance on communication in our relationship, my thoughts and feelings in regard to receiving the tattoo was discussed in great detail prior to His deciding that i would have it. Due to the communication we share, i can say that the event of my receiving INSIDEYOURMIND's mark of ownership was not shared on the forum with any intent or hopes of impressing anyone. He and i both always find great joy in sharing our happiness, and certain significant events of our relationship with other members of the boards. It should not be mistaken as anything less nor anything more than that.
quote:

But when I meet a girl bearing a tattoo or brand from a former owner, I wonder just what it really means.

Some relationships fail, true enough. Some make poor choices in choosing partners, true enough as well. Of course, no one here can answer what it means when you meet a girl bearing a brand from a former owner. you should Ask her, and Ask him as well. Beats the hell out of me as to what it means for anyone else in their relationship, i can only answer for myself.
my Master's ownership mark signifies that i am His property for life. It's that simple.
quote:

Sure, the submissive demonstrates devotion and probably the expectation of a permanent relationship, but what about the dominant?

In this case i CAN answer for INSIDEYOURMIND as well as myself as it is a subject we have discussed between the two of us before. Our relationship is serious to us, and that is where the importance rests. In this relationship the devotion is mutual with each side equally committed to the other infinitely. There are many who have shared our happiness with us, we both understand that we will also run across the cynics along the way who may not take our relationship seriously. Perhaps five, or ten, or twenty years from now we will hold a huge formal party in celebration of our relationship having weathered the sands of time & invite those who have expressed a sharing of our joy, and welcome the cynics to attend as well! Time will tell. Shall we accept your RSVP now or then? :)
quote:

Just my opinion, but it seems really shallow and maybe just a vanity for a dominant to permanently mark a submissive without getting marked in return.

Of course your opinions matter in your relationships. Your kink is *yours*. Master's kink is *His*. Anyone in a BDSM relationship of any type can surely grasp that simple basic concept. Therefore, given the dynamics of THIS D/s relationship, whatever reason He has for taking pleasure in placing His ownership mark upon me, is perfectly fine with me ... however, i'll not answer for Him on this point either (even though i do know what His take on it is). ;) He and i discuss everything and the decisions are always His to make regardless. i am His to enjoy in anyway He may deem fit, and i trust Him with that power ... otherwise i'd not have submitted in giving Him such power over me. Many Master/slave relationships DO work that way, ...ya know?
quote:

I notice that Merc and Beth went for tattoos together. Perhaps they'll share their opinions on this.

i've followed their posts since they became members. i find myself in agreement with the majority of the opinions they have expressed. It seems that the structure of their relationship may be quite similar to that of mine and INSIDEYOURMIND. i won't be surprised to find that their opinion is in striking contrast to our's, if at all.


¸,ø¤º°cynnacent°º¤ø,¸ (proudly owned by, and devoted to INSIDEYOURMIND)




INSIDEYOURMIND -> RE: Ownership Tattoo (1/4/2005 12:52:16 PM)

quote:

So where did your owner get his tattoo?


I find it curious that you question if and where I received a tattoo.

It is my decision as my sub's Master to decide if, where, when, how, and what I choose to mark what belongs to me.

The mark I placed on her was not a sign of devotion, respect, or anything else of that nature. It is simply a mark to denote what is mine.

Many relationships fail, not only D/s based, but vanilla as well. I would not simply put a mark on her for my benefit, but as a mark that declares her status as my property. It was certainly not done without careful consideration of the consequences.

When I first read your post, I was annoyed and was going to give you one of my snide and sarcastic answers, but I thought better, and chose this approach. If you have read my posts, you are well aware that I am not politically correct, or willing to go with the flow in regards to these threads. I do not want, or expect anyone to endorse what my sub and I do within our relationship.

I share the experiences with my sub on these forums because when reading all the problems and issues that people experience in trying to make a real relationship from this site, I think it may help to give people hope, and promise that they can experience the same type of joy themselves.

And to answer your question, I did in fact get a tattoo at the same time, it is not a symbol or mark that shows my devotion to my sub, but it is a symbol of my devotion to my sub.

The last sentence while cryptic, will mean everything to the person who reads it, and needs to understand it.


The last point I would like to make is that while many on this site profess to the lifestyle, we live it, everyday, 24/7, and in real life.




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