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RE: no hands - 3/30/2007 8:48:58 AM

mistoferin

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ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile
On the flip side of the coin, how would many submissives deal with it mentally,
if their Dom/me became disabled tempory or long term. Where the Dom/me
looses the ability to use their hands or walk, or other.

We all like to have nice mental pictures in our heads about what if, but to actually
live it is another thing. What if your Dom pretended to be crippled for a day or
two, how well would this play out.

Well, I actually got to find out the answer to that one too. My Dominant was injured in a motorcycle accident....broke his leg in 28 places. He spent quite a long time hospitalized and then several years basically bedridden (or couchridden...lol).

It was a very difficult thing to deal with...but in the end I think that most people do what it is they have to do without giving much thought to it. It was a stressful time, taking care of him, taking care of small children and trying to be the breadwinner.....but in the end I think there were many benefits. We learned a lot about each other....and about ourselves.

< Message edited by mistoferin -- 3/30/2007 8:49:36 AM >

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RE: no hands - 3/30/2007 12:14:33 PM

rskenderian

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ORIGINAL: softness
this scenario is reminding me a lot of a task i was asked to complete once. I had to prepare a piece of writing on what is was to be pleasing.

That's an excellent exercise.

i'm being repeatedly amazed that there are other people who think and do as i do. i've never come across this before.

i think you're extremely fortunate to have such a Dom; how many people put thought into such matters? Can i share your Dom?

hah jj.

Oh, after you say "Don't touch anything with your hands."
... you leave.

- richard "puppy"

< Message edited by rskenderian -- 3/30/2007 12:45:07 PM >

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RE: no hands - 3/31/2007 10:37:17 AM

softness

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ORIGINAL: rskenderian

quote:

ORIGINAL: softness
this scenario is reminding me a lot of a task i was asked to complete once. I had to prepare a piece of writing on what is was to be pleasing.

That's an excellent exercise.

i'm being repeatedly amazed that there are other people who think and do as i do. i've never come across this before.

i think you're extremely fortunate to have such a Dom; how many people put thought into such matters? Can i share your Dom?

hah jj.

Oh, after you say "Don't touch anything with your hands."
... you leave.

- richard "puppy"

sadly He is not my Dom ... just a helpful intelligent Friend giving me some guidance .. but He does have some devlish useful things to help a girl on her way *s*

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