DiannaVesta
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This thread will no doubt be ANOTHER long one. We've all beat this dog a millions times, a million ways. If giving gifts and tribute to a woman is an issue, move on down the line.
I don’t know how many of you were in the scene back in the 70’s & 80’s before the web, but all we had to rely on was black and white fetish publications.
I think tribute was much more expected back then then it is today. We use to place ads and there was often a 20 or more in the envelope even if you didn’t request it in your ad. The mindset is that we get approached by so many men and at least 80% (I’m being kind) have no intention on following through and no clue what a dominant woman really wants. This is a fact and far too many of them expect a dominant woman to be all over them simply because they say, “I want to be your slave”. What bull! If only we could hear the unconscious ramblings below that request. The selfish motivations of a sexually needy male.
Oh yeah but I’m a female supremacist and I hate men! Lol- damn forgot that. What the fuck do I know?
And ladies, lets get real… maybe a few of you have been so luck in finding a good relationship with a submissive male without all the painstaking effort. NO other relationship on the planet requires SO much work as finding a truly submissive man. But I would judge to say that 80% of you are without a slave and the ones that will fess up and be honest will tell you how hard it is and that they have to weed out a whole lot of selfish jerks to find a prince.
Very few males are capable of following instruction and why the hell would I want a male that can’t? If you can’t set a plan of action that includes getting and keeping her attention then don’t even get involved because the reality is that NONE of you, submissive males, really want a woman that caters to you. That’s exactly what a woman is doing when she allows a male to give her the run around. Very few times are they on equal playing ground and when this happens it beautiful BUT when you take a seasoned Domina, THAT CAN HAVE almost anyone she wants because of her experience then you gotta jump through a few hoops. This isn’t just about money but that men stop this whining and time wasting.
You know I have a FREE online training course that step by step lays out a femdom training course for a slave. Sure we ask them, if they want to ALSO download the audios to upgrade to paid for 14.95!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! holy shit 14.95 to support us. 14.95 to support the education of so many dominant women, couples and submissives. “Oh but it should be free… there’s lots of free sites, why should I pay?” I won’t even get into all of that because its all pretty pathetic.
Anyhow, its still FREE for anyone that chooses to take it and follow the course. It involves a commitment, meditation and denial. I still get email from guys begging to be my slave that actually say, “But I’m not into that!” I just want to pull my hair out. It gets old.
Everyone wants, wants and wants but no one wants to make a commitment and honestly I see this as being the major down fall in the community today. That’s why so many of you are alone and turning up empty handed. You expect things to just fall in your lap. Just BECAUSE your dominant OR just because you offer yourself, your counterpart should just magically arrive.
I’m so sick of the same damn topics with the same lame ass answers and self righteous shit about how YOU happen to be lucky enough to not have to put up with all the BS, when in reality you know damn well that ain’t true.
Lol- damn I’m sorry to get on this rant but come on! Lets wake up and get constructive and stop this petty ass back and forth non-constructive mud slinging. If a woman expects gift then OK. Guys if this bothers you then stay away from these women that do. Plain and simple. Ladies if you expect gifts and to be taken care of then just say so. Lay it on the table. Don’t make excuses because there are men out there that DO want to honor you like a QUEEN and make sure you have what you need without all the bitching, whining and complaining. The MOMENT you begin to settle for less that’s exactly what you’re going to get. In fact you’ll get bombarded with it. Set your sights high and wait for the right situations. If a submissive man can’t meet your standards then move his ass on down the line and don’t waste your breath. TRUST me there are men worth your time if you’ll just stop believing you don’t deserve it and keep wasting your breath/time on guys who want you to fulfill their sexual fantasies.
Oh damn I better stop! Lol My hormone are raging which is why I’m on fire but everything I’m saying is true. This should get some shit sling and porve my point exactly.
Did anyone catch the interview with Michelle Peters I did? She talked about how things were back in the 60 and 80’s. People respected each other and slaves did as they were told, honoring their mistress’s and masters. It was a really tight knit community where differences were respected and there wasn’t all this petty ass crap.
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RE: The great gift/tribute/money domme question - 
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I don't see you all bitching because restaurants and hotels charge you a fee for their services: when you're tired or hungry, you're just grateful that you don't have to starve or sleep out in the rain. 
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