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Mytimetoserve -> RE: What is Shibari (1/11/2005 7:00:35 PM)
My my, we hear from yet another that has posted negative comments on the aforementioned thread. I guess their domination consists of nothing more than expressing their hate, and dreaming they had a real human being to domme. keep trying ladies, even you can find someone to buy you lines.

SherriA -> RE: What is Shibari (1/11/2005 7:21:14 PM)
FWIW (and I know that not much, especially since I've rarely been here lately) I've always enjoyed Stef's posts - the sarcasm, the biting wit, the ability to cut through the bullshit and get to the point while making me grin. I certainly hope she doesn't "crawl back into a hole" as was suggested, or I'd have to go dig her out. That would be HELL on my nails! I pretty much felt the same way when I read the initial question. How difficult is it to enter a word into google and then ask questions about it if you want more information?

ProtagonistLily -> RE: What is Shibari (1/11/2005 8:09:36 PM)
Dear Mytimetoserve, I thought that the other Mistresses should see what you sent to my mail box: I don't need any long drawn out excuse to tell you that you are nothing more than a man hater. Why not post you weight so we all can see why you can't get a man. Thank you for your detailed analysis. I'm sure it will get you far, it sounded extreamly submissive to me. Lily

GoddessJules -> RE: What is Shibari (1/11/2005 8:13:05 PM)
Is gentlesubmissive at his old antics again? It's the same MO he used in the other thread where he got his ass spanked. I guess he doesn't take to spankings very well. I wouldn't worry about it. . .he'll come up with yet another name to spew his BS. Some people have FAR too much free time on their hands. J

Goodmix -> RE: What is Shibari (1/12/2005 3:53:52 PM)
Geez, i have to agree with MytimetoServe. For the record i am 145 lbs, and am told i am attractive, and have a Dom in my life, but i still don't see any reason to have responded that way. i tell people all the time that this site is a good source of information, and to get so many negative resonses, well, i'm glad i didn't ask the question.... And btw, if you are wonding how the responses could have been said, yet still gotten the point across ~ how about "Shibari is Japanese rope bondage. A google search could have gotten you this information a little quicker" After all guys (just a figure of speach) we all all on the same team, aren't we?

stef -> RE: What is Shibari (1/12/2005 4:24:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Goodmix Geez, i have to agree with MytimetoServe. For the record i am 145 lbs, and am told i am attractive, and have a Dom in my life, but i still don't see any reason to have responded that way. What does your appearance and relationship status have to do with what anyone here said? quote: i tell people all the time that this site is a good source of information, and to get so many negative resonses, well, i'm glad i didn't ask the question... And btw, if you are wonding how the responses could have been said, yet still gotten the point across ~ how about "Shibari is Japanese rope bondage. A google search could have gotten you this information a little quicker" There's never any benefit from rewarding the lazy. If you want to reinforce poor behavior, that's entirely your right, but please don't expect that others will share your opinion on the matter. quote: After all guys (just a figure of speach) we all all on the same team, aren't we? Clearly, we're not. ~stef

Goodmix -> RE: What is Shibari (1/12/2005 4:49:02 PM)
quote: What does your appearance and relationship status have to do with what anyone here said? Someone had made a coment about weight & the inabilty to find someone, i went back to look for it, but it is no longer there. MY point is, (see i do reward the lazy, obviosly you can't read, or maybe it's a comprehension thing) We can stilll be niceor maybe you can't...it's women like you that make me glad i like sucking cock

GoddessJules -> RE: What is Shibari (1/12/2005 5:03:48 PM)
quote: MY point is, (see i do reward the lazy, obviosly you can't read, or maybe it's a comprehension thing) We can stilll be niceor maybe you can't...it's women like you that make me glad i like sucking cock I don't see how that was nice at all. . . J

ProtagonistLily -> RE: What is Shibari (1/12/2005 5:06:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Goodmix quote: What does your appearance and relationship status have to do with what anyone here said? Someone had made a coment about weight & the inabilty to find someone, i went back to look for it, but it is no longer there. MY point is, (see i do reward the lazy, obviosly you can't read, or maybe it's a comprehension thing) We can stilll be niceor maybe you can't...it's women like you that make me glad i like sucking cock And dear, it's women like you that make me glad you like sucking cock.... Lily

stef -> RE: What is Shibari (1/12/2005 5:22:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Goodmix MY point is, (see i do reward the lazy, obviosly you can't read, or maybe it's a comprehension thing) We can stilll be nice or maybe you can't... Your "point" was never in question. Looking at my posting history will show that I can be nice too. I just don't feel the need to be particularly nice to lazy or stupid people. Forgive me if that causes you such distress. ~stef

Goodmix -> RE: What is Shibari (1/12/2005 5:26:35 PM)
PortaganisticLily, Where did You come from? Because i perfer to be nice, You are glad i like suck cock? Your not to smart either.....Bear in mind, i never said i don't eat pussy too, just that i was glad, when i meet mean and nasty Witch (oh, i spelled that wrong, i should have used a B) i have a choice. wonder if her mother raised her like that? it might take a little more effort in the begining, but eventually, it takes far less effort to be nice than it does to be nasty, (obviosly i can be both) and haven't any of you heard that "Y/you catch more flies with honey than Y/you do with vinegar"? Your mothers never taught you that? Come on people (again just an expression) there's no point in discussing this any longer, if Y/you don't get it, Y/you never will, and it's not worth the effort in trying to explain to a group of people who choose to be so negative.... Nice matters PERIOD..that's all there is to it

Mytimetoserve -> RE: What is Shibari (1/12/2005 5:29:38 PM)
As I'm sure more of you than just myself have figured out by now that the big three rip every man apart (and women too that don't bow to them) on every thread on this site. Betwee, the Boston, Goergia, and New York big three man haters, i guess the only question is, do they all sleep together, or does catwoman just play when her husband gives her permission. I once thought there were some good discussion on this venue, but these three have definitely spoiled it for anyone that can't take their racist and bias remarks.

Mytimetoserve -> RE: What is Shibari (1/12/2005 5:32:11 PM)
Jules, Protagonist, and sfgrrl, you are all dismissed.

GoddessJules -> RE: What is Shibari (1/12/2005 5:34:58 PM)
Now, now gentlesubmissive. . .don't get your panties in a wad. This is the internet. Take a deep breath, turn off your computer. . .and maybe go outside and take a walk. . . J

stef -> RE: What is Shibari (1/12/2005 5:37:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Goodmix Your not to smart either..... I'm not sure if this is the funniest or saddest thing I've read here in months. Amazing. ~stef

Goodmix -> RE: What is Shibari (1/12/2005 5:49:17 PM)
Stef, I did not look at your posting history. All i was seeing was that someone very innocently was asking for help. I have found on this site that people are ususlly very helpful, and i tell others about this site all the time. THEN, it felt like you came after me. What did you think i would do, I a sub, not a doormat. Beleive me, i can be as bitchy as the next "guy". i have always apprecated the responses i got, and i honestly thought "i'm glad i didn't ask that". i will think twice before i ask a question on this site from now on. And i have one i want to post, but i think i'll go somewhere else...no one needs to feel stupid for asking a simple question, especially one that obviolsy many people here knew. maybe she could have gone someplace else, but she knew enough to come here She came to the right place, she just got slammed, and i felt bad for her.... i looked up "objectication" but it's not on webster.com so i asked people i knew. again, i 'm glad i didn't ask it here That's all i was trying to say, i wasn't trying to start any argument. i beleive that if someone in the lifstyle needs, wants, is looking for infomation that means they want to grow in the lifestyle, and i want to help, becasue without the help i have gotten, i would have been lost. i am sorry of i offended anyone, but i still believe NICE MATTERS, and we are all on the same team

GoddessJules -> RE: What is Shibari (1/12/2005 5:52:50 PM)
quote: i looked up "objectication" but it's not on webster.com I'm not trying to be a jerk. . .but maybe it wasn't there because you didn't spell it correctly. J

Goodmix -> RE: What is Shibari (1/12/2005 5:57:57 PM)
Touche' but i copied and pasted it from the site. I don't think You are a jerk, I enjoy a lot of the things You post.

GoddessJules -> RE: What is Shibari (1/12/2005 6:12:14 PM)
Goodmix, Perhaps you and Stef just got off on a bad note. She isn't a jerk either. If you had a question. . .she would most likely be one of the most helpful people in directing you toward a very useful resource. A lot of posters agreed that just coming on the boards to ask a simple definition that would have taked 3 seconds to google is a bit lazy. It would have been a totally different ballgame if the original poster asked "I'm interested in shibari. . .what are some good books to learn technique?" or "I have a physical disability but am really interested in shibari. What is the best way to go about practicing this without exacerbating my condition?" The latter questions show that the person is actually interested enough in the topic that they did some of their on initial ferreting of information. . .but still wanted the expertise of someone more versed in it. It would be like me going to a philosophy message board ans asking the question: "What is existentialism?" There are plenty of articles and tutorials out there for those that don't know what it is and want to know. I'm sure if I did ask that question. . .I'd get some really "short and curt" answers. . .like "Go look it up on google." But if I said: "I read Heidegger's Being and Time but I do not see any existentialism in his writing. . .can someone please point out what I'm not seeing?" I'm sure that would be better received. And by the way: Objectification: 1) To present or regard as an object: “Because we have objectified animals, we are able to treat them impersonally” (Barry Lopez). 2) To make objective, external, or concrete: thoughts objectified in art. [;)] Take Care, J

explorer44106 -> RE: What is Shibari (1/12/2005 8:44:44 PM)
It is much faster to ask an expert for a reference than to wade through 1000 google sites on a subject you know nothing about. It takes a little bit of knowledge to figure out where to go for more knowledge. No one was under obligation to even look at the thread if they didn't want to, so if the original poster wasted your time it was your decision to waste it not theirs. New here, rather surprised to see someone flamed for an innocent question. As an example of what I am talking about, the sites posted by Destinyskeins included some of the best I have ever seen on rope bondage, and I have done google searchs for bondage info before. They were probably tucked away on page 17 of my google search or something.

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