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Male Subs with Both a "Straight" and a "... - 9/12/2006 5:45:24 PM   
MysticFireTopaz


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Status: offline 		Every now and then I come across a male sub who has both a straight and a bisexual profile.  In all of the cases I have seen, both profiles have current activity, so it's not a case of one profile no longer being active.  It would seem to Me that a person is either straight or bisexual.  How can the same individual be both?
 
I wonder what is the motivation for doing this?  Do they look at a particular Dominant's profile, then respond under the profile with the sexual orientation that they think the Dominant would find most appealing?  I know some Dommes specifically state no bisexual men, so I wonder if they have the straight profile to respond to these Dommes?  Or might they be straight, but open to bisexual experimentation?
 
Personally, I am open to either, which is how I come across these dual profiles.  However, this practice seems a little deceptive to Me and I would be reluctant to get involved with such an individual.
 
I am curious as to what others think.  What is the motivation for the two profiles? Dommes, would You still consider a sub if You ran across another profile from him with a different sexual orientation?
 
Lady Topaz

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RE: Male Subs with Both a "Straight" and a &q... - 9/12/2006 6:01:16 PM   
TNstepsout


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RE: Male Subs with Both a "Straight" and a &q... - 9/12/2006 6:19:09 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		Do they also have a gay profile?

Are they looking for exactly the same kind of relationship in both?

It could be that they're just hoping to get ANYthing. It could be that they are not ready to just say their bi. It could be that they think they will attract one type of person with one profile and another with another.

If I did it, here'd be why:
I really consider myself "het-flexible" rather than bi. Given the choice, I'd probably 75-80% of the time, choose a man as a sexual partner. However, there are those women who just do it for me. Technically, that makes me bi. However, I have noticed that I got more responces from male submissives/slaves when I listed myself as het than I do bi. So, while being bi is the truth, saying I'm het puts me in the listings of those who I'd most likely be attracted to.

Clear as mud?

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RE: Male Subs with Both a "Straight" and a &q... - 9/12/2006 8:16:22 PM   
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RE: Male Subs with Both a "Straight" and a &q... - 9/12/2006 8:28:08 PM   
naughtynick


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MysticFireTopaz

Every now and then I come across a male sub who has both a straight and a bisexual profile.  In all of the cases I have seen, both profiles have current activity, so it's not a case of one profile no longer being active.  It would seem to Me that a person is either straight or bisexual.  How can the same individual be both?
 
I wonder what is the motivation for doing this?  Do they look at a particular Dominant's profile, then respond under the profile with the sexual orientation that they think the Dominant would find most appealing?  I know some Dommes specifically state no bisexual men, so I wonder if they have the straight profile to respond to these Dommes?  Or might they be straight, but open to bisexual experimentation?
 
Personally, I am open to either, which is how I come across these dual profiles.  However, this practice seems a little deceptive to Me and I would be reluctant to get involved with such an individual.
 
I am curious as to what others think.  What is the motivation for the two profiles? Dommes, would You still consider a sub if You ran across another profile from him with a different sexual orientation?
 
Lady Topaz




I think you should ask them personally and see how they respond. These men are obviously lying and only telling the Dommes what they want to hear. I wonder what would happen if a Domme agrees to meet with one of them and he gets approached by men during play?

What bothers me about bisexual women is most of them say they only want single women or couples, no single men. We must be second class to them. Males are only good enough for them if they are attached with a woman

I have no problems with participating with bisexual women but I find them the most arrogant at times. I think I have more chances with a straight woman.

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RE: Male Subs with Both a "Straight" and a &q... - 9/12/2006 8:53:14 PM   
GoddessDustyGold


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Status: offline 		I am not surprise that you have found this.
I suspect for the same reason that many have a profile under submissive and Dominant.  Whatever will give them their best shot.
I would be hestitant to get involved, also, and it would take quite a selling job to convince Me why I should take a request for service to Me under consideration.

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RE: Male Subs with Both a "Straight" and a &q... - 9/12/2006 9:54:22 PM   
iwearpanties


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Status: offline 		i saw this just couldnt resist im a sub male but i honestly think many sub males do and have a hidden want too submitt too a Dom Male /  Master  ...   wouldnt it be the perfect type sission for a sub male too endure this maybe he might  dressed in Panties and a  Bra  or even a garter too make the session more of a mind game or mind fck.....

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RE: Male Subs with Both a "Straight" and a &q... - 9/12/2006 11:35:14 PM   
UtopianRanger


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MysticFireTopaz

Every now and then I come across a male sub who has both a straight and a bisexual profile.  In all of the cases I have seen, both profiles have current activity, so it's not a case of one profile no longer being active.  It would seem to Me that a person is either straight or bisexual.  How can the same individual be both?
 
I wonder what is the motivation for doing this?  Do they look at a particular Dominant's profile, then respond under the profile with the sexual orientation that they think the Dominant would find most appealing?  I know some Dommes specifically state no bisexual men, so I wonder if they have the straight profile to respond to these Dommes?  Or might they be straight, but open to bisexual experimentation?
 
Personally, I am open to either, which is how I come across these dual profiles.  However, this practice seems a little deceptive to Me and I would be reluctant to get involved with such an individual.
 
I am curious as to what others think.  What is the motivation for the two profiles? Dommes, would You still consider a sub if You ran across another profile from him with a different sexual orientation?
 
Lady Topaz




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RE: Male Subs with Both a "Straight" and a &q... - 9/12/2006 11:51:10 PM   
MisPandora


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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam
If I did it, here'd be why:
I really consider myself "het-flexible" rather than bi. Given the choice, I'd probably 75-80% of the time, choose a man as a sexual partner. However, there are those women who just do it for me. Technically, that makes me bi. However, I have noticed that I got more responces from male submissives/slaves when I listed myself as het than I do bi. So, while being bi is the truth, saying I'm het puts me in the listings of those who I'd most likely be attracted to.

I think I'm your brunette sister LOL

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RE: Male Subs with Both a "Straight" and a &q... - 9/13/2006 12:27:10 AM   
naughtynick


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Status: offline 		Practically in sites such as this and any personals site, women have it all. No matter if she's a Domme or sub. They get everything they want and this is what causes males to lie their asses off to get female attention. It takes a lot for a male to get a woman interested while it takes little to nothing from a woman to get a male interested. She just has to be simply a woman and she is in luck. I dont think there would be a need for these types of lies if men got treated equally the same. Who do you blame?

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RE: Male Subs with Both a "Straight" and a &q... - 9/13/2006 12:37:43 AM   
MisPandora


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quote:

ORIGINAL: naughtynick

Practically in sites such as this and any personals site, women have it all. No matter if she's a Domme or sub. They get everything they want and this is what causes males to lie their asses off to get female attention. It takes a lot for a male to get a woman interested while it takes little to nothing from a woman to get a male interested. She just has to be simply a woman and she is in luck. I dont think there would be a need for these types of lies if men got treated equally the same. Who do you blame?

What does this rant have to do with my post about being Fire's brunette sister?????

Of course, it's OUR fault that men lie and create two profiles.  What's next in the blame game?

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RE: Male Subs with Both a "Straight" and a &q... - 9/13/2006 12:42:14 AM   
naughtynick


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora

quote:

ORIGINAL: naughtynick

Practically in sites such as this and any personals site, women have it all. No matter if she's a Domme or sub. They get everything they want and this is what causes males to lie their asses off to get female attention. It takes a lot for a male to get a woman interested while it takes little to nothing from a woman to get a male interested. She just has to be simply a woman and she is in luck. I dont think there would be a need for these types of lies if men got treated equally the same. Who do you blame?

What does this rant have to do with my post about being Fire's brunette sister?????

Of course, it's OUR fault that men lie and create two profiles.  What's next in the blame game?


I didn't mean to point my last post at you. I just clicked on the closest (reply option) to my mouse pointer. I am sorry if it seemed directed at you but it's not.

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RE: Male Subs with Both a "Straight" and a &q... - 9/13/2006 12:51:02 AM   
UtopianRanger


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It takes a lot for a male to get a woman interested while it takes little to nothing from a woman to get a male interested. She just has to be simply a woman and she is in luck. I dont think there would be a need for these types of lies if men got treated equally the same. Who do you blame?


Really?  I don't know about you brother but I can't remember any time in my life that I was attracted / interested in a lady just because of her gender and the fact she was ''just there''. Maybe I am reading you wrong?




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RE: Male Subs with Both a "Straight" and a &q... - 9/13/2006 12:55:00 AM   
naughtynick


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora

quote:

ORIGINAL: naughtynick

Practically in sites such as this and any personals site, women have it all. No matter if she's a Domme or sub. They get everything they want and this is what causes males to lie their asses off to get female attention. It takes a lot for a male to get a woman interested while it takes little to nothing from a woman to get a male interested. She just has to be simply a woman and she is in luck. I dont think there would be a need for these types of lies if men got treated equally the same. Who do you blame?

Of course, it's OUR fault that men lie and create two profiles.  What's next in the blame game?


My other post was not directed at you as I said, but I have to say that it is partly women's fault because of women's expectations in here. It takes a very large amount of women with picky expectations for males to act this way in the first place.  Most males dont fit the criteria to what most women want in here, thats the thing. Women expect too much. Many women expect the impossible. There is no Brad Pitt or Fabio in here. And dont expect every male to surrender his whole precious life to you just because you own a pussy.

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RE: Male Subs with Both a "Straight" and a &q... - 9/13/2006 1:11:12 AM   
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ORIGINAL: naughtynick
My other post was not directed at you as I said, but I have to say that it is partly women's fault because of women's expectations in here. It takes a very large amount of women with picky expectations for males to act this way in the first place.  Most males dont fit the criteria to what most women want in here, thats the thing. Women expect too much. Many women expect the impossible. There is no Brad Pitt or Fabio in here. And dont expect every male to surrender his whole precious life to you just because you own a pussy.
Nick baby boy,
When are you going to stop hating on the pussy, and either go get yourself one or become gay?
You are one man full of issues with women, and it never stops.   It's interesting you used to spread all your hating on the general message boards, but have now peculiarly decided to drop it in ask a mistress.   I'm guessing you're a masochist?    M

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RE: Male Subs with Both a "Straight" and a &q... - 9/13/2006 1:18:02 AM   
naughtynick


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

quote:

ORIGINAL: naughtynick
My other post was not directed at you as I said, but I have to say that it is partly women's fault because of women's expectations in here. It takes a very large amount of women with picky expectations for males to act this way in the first place.  Most males dont fit the criteria to what most women want in here, thats the thing. Women expect too much. Many women expect the impossible. There is no Brad Pitt or Fabio in here. And dont expect every male to surrender his whole precious life to you just because you own a pussy.
Nick baby boy,
When are you going to stop hating on the pussy, and either go get yourself one or become gay?
You are one man full of issues with women, and it never stops.   It's interesting you used to spread all your hating on the general message boards, but have now peculiarly decided to drop it in ask a mistress.   I'm guessing you're a masochist?    M


Hating? No, its just telling the truth of HOW ITS LIKE FOR MEN. I am sorry if you think it's hating the pussy. When ever a man says how hard it is for his gender, it seems to be hating the pussy for many women. It gets tiring. If thats how women want it, I guess its fair to say all feminist are men haters, hows that?  I just wish women looked at their own behavior, which they never do.

I wouldn't want to be around women if I hated them. I just ask for fairness.

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RE: Male Subs with Both a "Straight" and a &q... - 9/13/2006 1:37:20 AM   
BlkTallFullfig


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ORIGINAL: naughtynick
Hating? No, its just telling the truth of HOW ITS LIKE FOR MEN. I am sorry if you think it's hating the pussy. When ever a man says how hard it is for his gender
Awh, poor you.   I don't see a lot of men (and I'm not using the word loosely to describe anyone born with a penis) complaining about how hard it is for them.   Men who have social skills, love in their hearts, and respect for self and women tend to do well with women in my opinion and experience.
quote:

it seems to be hating the pussy for many women. It gets tiring. If thats how women want it, I guess its fair to say all feminist are men haters, hows that?  I just wish women looked at their own behavior, which they never do
I look at my behavior all the time, and change it if it is leading me to a lot of personal misery, how about you?
It's possible some feminists are man haters, but that isn't the discussion here, and it certainly isn't showing up in any post on this thread.
quote:

I wouldn't want to be around women if I hated them. I just ask for fairness.
Sometimes we do crave that which we dispise for some sick reason.   As to fairness, life isn't, and you'll never find fairness especially on a pre agreed upon power imbalanced relationship.  The most you can hope for is a loving and considerate top to your bottom self.   M

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RE: Male Subs with Both a "Straight" and a &q... - 9/13/2006 1:50:01 AM   
naughtynick


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Status: offline 		Men get ignored by most women in here. Why do you expect men to be truthful and be polite to you? Ignoring someone is not being respectful and polite, so why expect men to be respectful and polite and honest when all women in here just ignore men anyway? No matter how a man approaches it, a man can be polite all he wants and he still gets ignored. How about the women in here make fake profiles being a man and see how it goes?



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RE: Male Subs with Both a "Straight" and a &q... - 9/13/2006 2:35:34 AM   
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RE: Male Subs with Both a "Straight" and a &q... - 9/13/2006 3:31:25 AM   
mons


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Status: offline 		greetings to all
 
i do not want a bisexula male slave at all, if they say they are willing to do anything i say i know they want to suck on a male dom,, i have many write me and tell yes i am bi and i want you to share me with anyone woman or men. this is not for me and i am very nice when i write and let them know it will not happen at all lol they are polite and sau thank you for answering back.
 
if a male slave want to have a dom they are under a gay male searching for a domme to give them the chance to try out what they have been deaming of so they are no good to me at all. i do not like the ideal of the hiding lies they use to get this thing. be forright in what you want come out and say it they now not all but many who are bi want to be gay and may be gay. i am not agist gay males or female but  like many of the submissive females they will say they are gay and are looking for a domme who is also gay, but the males use us to force them to do what they can not come out and say i am gay and i want a dom to master me. this is just mythoughts on this .
 
i find males who are striaght and love a strap on are different they will say i am not into having a male in with us i respect this too
 
mons

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