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RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION - 10/1/2006 2:33:55 PM   
DiannaVesta


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ORIGINAL: MisPandora

Well, there are some folks who are of the mind that it's ok to go about scaring the general public with our badly dressed sissies and our puppies and our ponies and our adult babies running around in places where there are Unmentionables, etc.  That's unfair and rude and downright non-consensual.  I needed to make sure I understood the question before I gave it a reply.
 
I agree with this and also find it rude. I don't like public displays of affection and feel they should be private. There are subtle ways to do this in even the most public of places.


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RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION - 10/1/2006 2:56:46 PM   
lilyophelia


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ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta
I agree with this and also find it rude. I don't like public displays of affection and feel they should be private. There are subtle ways to do this in even the most public of places.


Like, did You just mean, just kinky displays of affection, or all of them? i think things like holding hands, or even a quick and simple kiss on the cheek, are sweet and innocent enough...it's more when affection is less affectionate and more attention-grabbing in nature that i would have a problem with it. i'm curious what You meant exactly. ^^

-lily

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RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION - 10/1/2006 9:38:28 PM   
Owned1


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Status: offline 		Did ya ever notice these posts are often done by one with this being their only post and they are never to be seen again?

Its just getting way too predictable.

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RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION - 10/2/2006 12:15:43 AM   
MisPandora


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ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta

quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora

Well, there are some folks who are of the mind that it's ok to go about scaring the general public with our badly dressed sissies and our puppies and our ponies and our adult babies running around in places where there are Unmentionables, etc.  That's unfair and rude and downright non-consensual.  I needed to make sure I understood the question before I gave it a reply.
 
I agree with this and also find it rude. I don't like public displays of affection and feel they should be private. There are subtle ways to do this in even the most public of places.


I'm totally ok with vanilla PDAs, so long as it doesn't expose me to their bodily fluids LOL

What I find distasteful is needlessly exposing others to WIITWD.

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RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION - 10/2/2006 4:41:16 AM   
DiannaVesta


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ORIGINAL: lilyophelia

quote:

ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta
I agree with this and also find it rude. I don't like public displays of affection and feel they should be private. There are subtle ways to do this in even the most public of places.


Like, did You just mean, just kinky displays of affection, or all of them? i think things like holding hands, or even a quick and simple kiss on the cheek, are sweet and innocent enough...it's more when affection is less affectionate and more attention-grabbing in nature that i would have a problem with it. i'm curious what You meant exactly. ^^

-lily


Ok.... holding hands and a peck on the cheek is cool. This is something I'd do with my son. Making out and being all over each other is something you should do behind closed doors.

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RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION - 10/2/2006 6:52:54 AM   
MsKatHouston


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Status: offline 		I agree completely and regardless of whether or not it is vanilla or kinky, I don't want to see it in public.  Holding hands, a hug, a peck...that's one thing.  Tongues intertwining, groping, etc while in a store or restaurant is not something I want to watch. 

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RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION - 12/20/2006 6:17:26 PM   
pinkprincess71


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Status: offline 		I have not been humiliated in public.  I've had several people watch my cam, at one time.  Touching my tits, nipples, or pussy, while up to 3 are watching, is okay with me.  Any more than that, and I think it is humiliating.  Also, sharing 2 things I have done in private, embarrasses me.
How is a sub, who has not been in offline public, to handle a group watching her do a private thing?


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RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION - 12/20/2006 8:03:28 PM   
iwearpanties


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Status: offline 		Mistress'es as a submissives the things youve talked about as public ive never thoguth aboput as much espically the long face suxing or kissing but you do have a greta point about it

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RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION - 12/20/2006 10:20:07 PM   
FelinePersuasion


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RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION - 12/20/2006 10:46:00 PM   
jdtallfem


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Status: offline 		I don't have on, but I've always wanted to get one of those vibrating remote control butt plugs. I think that would be great fun in a restaurant with a male sub.  Whenever the waitress comes by to speak to us, I could make him vibrate.  Tee hee.

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RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION - 12/20/2006 10:51:40 PM   
Grlwithboy


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Status: offline 		I try to strike a balance, as someone who loves a little public.  I don't think that people should be confronted with my perv, but I also grew up in NYC, and I realize that there are places where unusual things fly and can be passed off as weird but ok,  and places where things don't  fly at all and I like to use the leeway it gives me if I'm sensitive to doing as the Romans do.

I like using bars as a backdrop for one thing - as you know that everyone there is over 21 if it's a place that's decent about carding!

And when I talk about public embarrassment, what I wind up doing is pretty tame compared to what most drunk straight vanilla people will do at 11 pm.

I agree about one thing, I do NOT dig the "go to Victoria's Secret and pester the cutest salegirl" thing - uh prodommes make more than $9 an hour for your perv, people, Blah.



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RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION - 12/21/2006 3:53:33 AM   
DiannaVesta


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Status: offline 		I admit that I have done some pretty extreme public scenes but I am also experienced and careful in assessing the situation. I’ll never forget a mistress friend of mine who invited me to lunch once and brought a male slave wearing lipstick and big gold hoop earrings. Of course everyone was staring and I was pissed off because that was HER scene, not mine and I wasn’t notified of it. Shit like that really makes me angry.


  At the same time I think its pretty harmless to paint a guys fingernail pink and take him out in public.

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RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION - 12/21/2006 4:53:11 AM   
MrrPete


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ORIGINAL: ToGiveDivine

Ooooooooo, Wal-Mart Public, I LOVE IT!!!!!  "Clean up on Aisle 7"

Oh my, now I have to clean myself up

MisPandora, you are a riot :-D


No , "It's clean-up on aisle 5" At least it is on Yahoo Messenger. :)

I use that audible a lot because I have a friend that works at WalMart



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RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION - 12/21/2006 5:01:25 AM   
YourProperty2Use


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Status: offline 		Got to say I do like a bit of public play.  Have had limited experiences.  Some discrete other not so.  But walking the dog with the leash tied round my balls was probably the worst.  You always wonder if anyone else actually notices.  Apart from that the more obvious ones like already mentioned shopping for lingerie an other female attire always gets me.


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RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION - 12/22/2006 4:16:32 AM   
iwearpanties


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Status: offline 		i think  shopping for female things panties and bras and other items is the most common for male subs ... ive done but ive never had the Humiliation  of  Mistress or Master make or have me do it i ve done it on my own since im an unowned submissive ....

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RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION - 12/22/2006 7:11:55 PM   
iwearpanties


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Status: offline 		also to answer the whats face suxing .. its anther way too say kissing

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RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION - 12/22/2006 8:33:35 PM   
LotusSong


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ORIGINAL: undergroundsea

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Want to know what my favorite is?  Having his masturbate using his non-dominant hand.


Yes, but what about the guys who are ambidexterous ;-)

Cheers,

Sea
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RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION - 12/22/2006 8:58:38 PM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: MistressTaboo

For someone who has worked in a tack store (horse supply store for you newbies) please DO NOT think you are the first person to come in and say "Mistress/Master has commanded me to get a new crop" and think this is ok as a humiliation scene. Nor is it ok to test the crops on each other in the store. And most importanly it is NOT ok to ask the young cute vanilla sales clerk if she wants to test the crops on you!

If I knew then what I know now...*sighs*

I make it a rule that the vanilla world shouldn't know what you are up to...no making people uncomfortable with your kink.



I offer hugs. I understand crops both as a submissive and an equestrian and I promise to never scare the tack shop salespeople.

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RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION - 12/24/2006 4:05:29 PM   
kamessa


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Status: offline 		I have been required to purchase bright red lipstick and nail polish and make sure the a sales lady (selected to be in her 30's or 40's) knew they were for me. Or put lip stick on in a bar (repeatedly). Do things like this really entertain?

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RE: PUBLIC HUMILIATION - 12/24/2006 4:47:20 PM   
FelinePersuasion


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