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CreativeDominant -> RE: Playing Naked (9/25/2006 11:47:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kyraofMists In many of the play parties that I have been to, it is not common to see the bottom play fully naked. Typically they will play with thongs on. Since alandra and I are rarely allowed to even wear underwear, we are almost always fully naked. I can't recall ever seeing a top play naked in public. This is a question for both tops and bottoms. When you play are you fully naked or partially clothed and is it different for private vs public play? It is inspired by Noah's twist on the word "debriefing" in another thread. Knight's kyra I always stay dressed when playing in public...black jeans, boots, white shirt...though the shirt may get unbuttoned as the intensity goes up. In private, I usually end up going down to my pants and shoes, though I had one submissive...who was mine at the time...who just loved it when I was in a shirt and tie and dress slacks and dress shoes while she was either completely naked or wearing just a thong.

Emperor1956 -> RE: Playing Naked (9/25/2006 1:01:20 PM)
quote: I've noticed the same thing with the sink, twice. pup really seems to like coming up behind me. Maybe it's just a convenient height to lean a girl forward over? Dunno. No, its the only way We can make sure you do the damn dishes! (snicker) E.

gemy -> RE: Playing Naked (9/25/2006 2:04:57 PM)
i have been in the lifestyle for just under a year. almost all of my play is in public and often with Ones i do not know well (usually they are well known to good friends whose opinion i trust, or it is a One i have have met and wish to play with, but don't want sex with, that type of thing) ~ ~ since i am not owned it is safer for me both emotionally and mentally because there are others about and that allows me to enter subspace, plus it is safer b/c there are usually Dungeon Masters or Watchers in public ..... that being said, i always wear a t-bar in public, as a subtle reminder i am to be played with, i am not there for sex ..... now in private - the few times i have played in private, i am naked ~~ at those times i am with a Dom that i trust enough to know my limits, AND W/we have discussed whether or not sex is involved and how much will be involved gemy

BalletBob -> RE: Playing Naked (9/25/2006 2:40:07 PM)
Well I had never been in public, but MADAM like me naked at times and dressed a certain way at times. I think she prefered the naked part for me, but was always dressed. Wish I had MADAM now, BalletBob

alandraofMists -> RE: Playing Naked (9/25/2006 3:58:34 PM)
okay twicehappy, i am confused..... why would you be giving kyra and i stuff which we don't use most times anyway. eg would be better to give it to some nice boys we can help cross-dress, they would put it to much better use. grins Knight's alandra

BalletBob -> RE: Playing Naked (9/25/2006 4:02:07 PM)
Hey AlandraofMists, Did you mention about giving some to some Boys to Cross Dress in? I am "ALWAYS" open to sugestions and ides from any friendly female sub. Now are these Thongs, Briefs, or Bikinis? Serching for my Tutu, BalletBob

Sub03 -> RE: Playing Naked (9/25/2006 7:46:33 PM)
The couple times I have played in public at a BDSM club I was fully nude. Which took a little getting used to at first but once I got into the scene I wasnt really thinking about it. Now I like playing nude. The other subs/slaves at the club are usally nude or pretty close to it. Though I have never seen a Dom/me play nude.

bigdaninwi -> RE: Playing Naked (9/26/2006 8:24:22 PM)
Humm at 6 3 the sink hits me in an entirely different place..however a girl always looks so vulnerable and adorable near a sink...

gemy -> RE: Playing Naked (12/1/2006 10:06:51 AM)
LadyEsenem -- perhaps one day Ma'am You will play with this one and she will be naked, either in public or in private *winks and huggs

damia -> RE: Playing Naked (12/1/2006 10:53:20 AM)
Public or private, i usually start at least partially dressed (which can be anything from a full costume to a body harness that only covers the genital area). In private play with my Master, i wear clothes particular to the scene, but may or may not be stripped of some or all of them as time goes. In public play, it depends on the Dom, but once i'm undressed, i never get fully dressed again (bra doesn't go back on, sometimes top never goes back on either, and if i'm wearing my harness, it stays that way all night). But during the actual scene, i am often nude or almost nude. Better access for the Dom. In private play, Master is sometimes clothed, but often at least partially undressed (i.e. no shirt), and if the scene includes sex, He usually is unclothed by that time. We haven't played in public yet, so i don't know about his public play.

Kirei -> RE: Playing Naked (12/1/2006 11:11:57 AM)
Public all depends on whats allowed. For example I have taken a sub to gay bar that had a cross upstairs. I knew they had a rule that said g-string and pasties as the min. Well she thought it would be just in her clothes play..so when I tied her up I kept tied her legs together instead. Then after a litte bit opened her blouse and pulled her pants down around her ankles. She didn't know if it was ok or not, but didn't care in end. When I told her I knew this place was ok to do that she loved it that she didn't know and thought it was only public. That little humliation effect came into play, so naked or not really is all a matter of what the sub.slave may need. Sometimes being naked privately is needed to reinforce their role, at others they could be dressed. Its really to me knowing the needs of your sub/slave. Koneko

whisperedsighs -> RE: Playing Naked (12/1/2006 11:33:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kyraofMists In many of the play parties that I have been to, it is not common to see the bottom play fully naked. Typically they will play with thongs on. Since alandra and I are rarely allowed to even wear underwear, we are almost always fully naked. I can't recall ever seeing a top play naked in public. This is a question for both tops and bottoms. When you play are you fully naked or partially clothed and is it different for private vs public play? It is inspired by Noah's twist on the word "debriefing" in another thread. Knight's kyra I have seen only one top play naked in public in our local dungeon. I see just about equal numbers of bottoms partially and fully naked in the that same dungeon. I think there is something to the increase of vulnerability of being the bottom, and fully and or partially naked when the Top is clothed. There is a psychological effect that is subtle at times, and blatantly obvious. I know when I am naked and playing and the Top has clothing on it makes me feel much more vulnerable. I have had it in personal play where the Top starts out clothed, and as the scene progresses becomes naked.

RedSavageSlave -> RE: Playing Naked (12/1/2006 12:27:31 PM)
<fast reply> I am comfortable with either partial dress or full nudity when playing in private or public. Once the play begins..its not like I am really noticing what I look like. [:D]

SirDiscipliner69 -> RE: Playing Naked (12/1/2006 12:31:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kyraofMists When you play are you fully naked or partially clothed and is it different for private vs public play? I start off clothed but usually will end up naked by end of play if that is agreed to. ;) Public play usually dictates that non-genitalia be the course of play depending on local laws. Hence I am more inclined to private play where the control is much more intimate. Ross Bon D' Age' : BDSM http://tinyurl.com/ygblqt Designermite : http://tinyurl.com/ueov5 Soul of Motorcycle Art http://tinyurl.com/ybg73a

GirlyDevil -> RE: Playing Naked (12/1/2006 3:23:58 PM)
I'm a top and I'm always fully clothed, I figure why give my slave pleasure in seeing me naked? And my slave is usually partially clothed when in private, but when we go to parties he ends up totall naked when I get to play with him :).

Carrianna -> RE: Playing Naked (12/1/2006 4:57:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kyraofMists In many of the play parties that I have been to, it is not common to see the bottom play fully naked. Typically they will play with thongs on. Since alandra and I are rarely allowed to even wear underwear, we are almost always fully naked. I can't recall ever seeing a top play naked in public. This is a question for both tops and bottoms. When you play are you fully naked or partially clothed and is it different for private vs public play? It is inspired by Noah's twist on the word "debriefing" in another thread. Knight's kyra I have been to clubs/parties where the dom is half dressed and draped over the sub. Ie top up and caressing/pressing against him.

jdtallfem -> RE: Playing Naked (12/1/2006 7:35:07 PM)
I'm usually fully clothed or in some fun costume, like my nurse ratchet uniform for public or private, and the sub/slave who is with me is on his way to being naked.

Sinergy -> RE: Playing Naked (12/1/2006 8:00:07 PM)
Hello A/all, When I have played in public my submissive's have worn thongs and nothing else, in private they are usually naked. In public play I usually am wearing my kilt, socks, shoes, sporran, and am bare chested. In private, I wear what I want to wear. She is probably blindfolded, and if I want to wear flannel boxer shorts with pictures of Spongebob Squarepants wearing Christmas regalia while I beat her silly, I will do so in a Domly manner. Just me, probably wrong, but there ya go. Sinergy Just me, could be wrong.

Siona -> RE: Playing Naked (12/1/2006 9:45:10 PM)
Now THAT'S a visual!

kateygirl -> RE: Playing Naked (12/1/2006 10:02:18 PM)
When i play in public i usually have a thong on because most of the other subs and slaves at our parties do also. i am unowned and it seems like it is easier to have that small scrap of fabric as a symbol of that as much as anything. However, i would also have no problem with being naked at play parties and occasionally have been when it seemed comfy to do so. It sometimes depends on the size of the party and how well i know those in attendance. In private it depends on who i am playing with and what our relationship is.

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