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If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 6:24:29 PM

bigdaninwi

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In a recent post, a Submissive was complaining that her Master was not all that he should be. In short (no pun intended), Master has a smallish cock. Many pages and discussions were devoted to the practice of viewing all the goods before committing to a Master.

So my question is, how many females actually experience organism from pure intercourse? If you can orgasm from intercourse, is it the best orgasm you've ever experienced? If not, describe your best orgasm.

For the record, while I am not the largest male on the planet, however, my Girl often complains of being too sore after we have been together. I am not bragging, just sharing my experiences.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 6:28:21 PM

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I have never experienced an organism from intercourse. That's actually kinda scary ;) (Just picking on you)

I can orgasm though from intercourse without any other stimulation. As far as I am concerned any orgasm is a good one. The best ones for me is when I have already had one by other stimulation and then alllll the rest come pretty easily and intensely.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 6:29:11 PM

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It is not the size that matters, its how well they are able to use the tools provided.
Yes, I have had orgasms from pure intercourse, but it was not necessarily with best-hung man Ive ever been with. I have had better sex with men of smaller endowment who had a better feel for what they were doing than I have with guys that thought becsaue they were big, they didnt need rhythm or skill.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 6:34:08 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: bigdaninwi
In a recent post, a Submissive was complaining that her Master was not all that he should be. In short (no pun intended), Master has a smallish cock. Many pages and discussions were devoted to the practice of viewing all the goods before committing to a Master.

In the OPs defense, I don't think she was just complaining about him having a small penis. I think she was confronted with a new situation she didn't expect and wasn't sure exactly how to deal with it, and asking for other perspective.

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So my question is, how many females actually experience organism from pure intercourse? If you can orgasm from intercourse, is it the best orgasm you've ever experienced? If not, describe your best orgasm.

I have been able to orgasm through vaginal intercourse with some partners at some times.

Describing my best orgasm seems pointless.

Most females need direct clitoral stimulation over a prolonged period in order to have an orgasm- vaginal/penile sex is not often conducive to this and many women never experience orgasm through vaginal intercourse alone.

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For the record, while I am not the largest male on the planet, however, my Girl often complains of being too sore after we have been together. I am not bragging, just sharing my experiences.

BigDan

Yes and you just had to share the bit about being sore...but not bragging.

I've had partners who were button sized and partners who were too large to have sex comfortably with.

As I said in the other thread:

The good news in the size debate is that sexual prowess and ability to please a female really is not related to penis size. Start any topic on turning on a woman and they all say "the mind is the biggest sex organ." While I won't suggest that size never does or shouldn't matter- there is a reason that toys were invented and it is not enough of an issue in itself to be a relationship killer.

Inability or refusal to address it and compensate however, certainly can be.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 6:36:07 PM

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Kat -

Thanks for sharing, I Love humor in all formats..so please pick away. :P

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 6:43:20 PM

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LuckyAlbatross -

Thank you for all of your responses. I enjoy reading your current an past threads when you post them.

Interesting, I have had several partners who needed no direct clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm. I whole heartily agree with you, the mind is the biggest sex organ. So I join you in trying to educate people on the joys of being creative and knowing your partner.

So I offer a big Hugg and Thanks for responding.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 6:54:02 PM

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I have not experienced an orgasm without clitoral stimulation, but I have orgasmed through intercourse while stimulating the clitoris. I would say it is more intense this way.

Does size matter? As long as I can "feel it" I would say truly it does not matter as far as my willingness to be in a relationship. It would not matter to me if my partner had ED either as long as he was open to being sexual. There is a lot more to sex in my mind than penis size.

I have had trouble with painful intercourse since the birth of my child 16 yrs ago. I will say that someone who is extremely large (bordering on freakish) is not probably going to be a good match for me.

The person I am with now... perfect... absolutely just right...

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 7:06:38 PM

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Ok, I will politely ignore that it's being assumed that "intercourse" can only be had by a het couple.

I have several kinds of orgasms, one that is soley through energy manipulation (that I can do myself, but it's a LOT more fun to have someone do it with me), one that is pain based that is thoroughly related to energy, but slightly different, one that is clitoral based and one that is g-spot based. I rarely orgasm from classic het intercourse. If I do, it's much more related to the energy-only one. While all orgasms are good, the ones that are most satisfying for me are the ones that combine energy, g-spot and clitoris. These are always from the use of hands, fingers and mouths. Good thing since I'm bi and I, for the most part, don't like dildos, huh?

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 7:20:00 PM

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I can orgasm just THINKING about intercourse. Let alone actual intercourse itself... I love it. It's great.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 7:45:20 PM

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MasterFire -

Many Thanks, you are correct it was insensitive to use "intercourse." I loved your post. I use dildos, vibrators, eggs, clit stimulators, fingers, sucking toes, anything that I can use to give my Girl pleasure from head to toe.

Thanks
BigDan

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 7:52:45 PM

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I'm highly orgasmic so yes I've had orgasms from intercourse. I find the thicker the better and luckily my sub is just right

Nothing smaller then 7 nothing larger than 8, that is my perfect cock range heh.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 7:59:41 PM

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Yes I have and can orgasm through intercourse... And yes size matters (it's possible to be too big as well as too small).
For myself, I admit that sex is a very important part of intimacy in my relationship (when I am in one), but knowing that there is more than one way to skin a cat (or reach my orgasm), I will remain in a relationship with a man who is an awesome human being (and treats me well) regardless of his size. M

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 8:01:55 PM

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I am not sure She was offended by the word "intercourse" so much as assuming E/everyone on CM is a HET couple...many of us are Lesbian,Gay or Bi.But then again I could be wrong....and shouldnt be assuming...

My bishop is the best lover I have ever had.W/we are so in tune with each other.Just a touch can send U/us over the edge.After 7 years its still just as intense now as it was in the beginning.

So as far as I am concerned size doesnt matter.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 8:13:36 PM

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I think short of micro-penis ( no pun intended) pleasure can be wrought from any size, though personally I (drool) love a cock with length and ohgodyesplease girth. I've found that what comes before and after the actual inserting has a huge impact on how I perceive the act itself.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 8:35:47 PM

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For me size does not matter, the best sex I have had was with a man who was the smallest I have ever been with. As for clit vs vaginal I prefer g-spot stimulation to cum it is much more intense and satisfying for me. I also love to have both stimulated..but I really don't care much for straight clit stimulation it is almost an uncomfortable sensation for me.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 8:40:07 PM

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Iam not all that new here but this OP caught my eye and I had to make my first contribution. Master always told me that isn't it nice that a man can be big but not too big. Why ? This might seem a little strange but while I have had so many easily achieved vaginal orgasms, the way he made it, the ones created by pleasing him orally were at least as intense. So I could take 'anything' big or small vaginally, but much preferred and loved to reserve the real thing for my dining pleasure. Do others find this to be the case ?

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 8:51:38 PM

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To orgasm while having intercourse, there either has to be direct clitoral stimulation for me, or lots and lots of hot play and emotional connection and/or chemistry before we have sex. My favorite thing is oral and then sex. Yum! I've been able to orgasm without touching myself at all, and that was stellar, too.

When it comes to sex, size does matter. I used to not think this, and then I had sex with someone who was on the small size (less than 4 inches erect). While he was wonderful with oral and other ways of pleasing, it did change the sex. I'm not into really big cocks, either. Just like Goldilocks, I want mine just right (and medium size).

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 8:51:56 PM

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Hello A/all,

I have always felt since I was a 12 year old teenager fumbling to open my girlfriend's bra that Mr. Tiny was lacking in the dimensionally advantaged department.

So I was lucky enough at the age of 17 to have a 22 year old girlfriend (working on her PhD. We went out for 2 years) who taught me what goes where and how.

I didnt really believe what my partners told me about the size of Mr. Tiny until two partners (not in succession, mind you) were vaginally torn being penetrated without proper warm-up.

Fine, I get it.

On the other hand, very few things thrill me more than going downtown on my partner. There is almost an electric thrill
feeling the muscles down there spasm and jerk, the moanings and
soft breathing...

It is all good. I will get mine, but I have driven my partner to heights of bliss, and that thrills me. Well, unless I decide that she should not orgasm that evening and simply get her close to the plateau.

But that is just me and I could be wrong.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 9:04:04 PM

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i'm very orgasmic and can orgasm with just intercourse and im finding, almost as intensely from anal intercourse.

i've been with smaller men than my Daddy/Master (who is by far the largest i've been with) and still was able to cum without anything other than penetration, but alot of sex is in the mind (IMO) and so the more someone is in my head the more. intensely, frequently and quickly i can cum.

i also have to respond to the soreness issue....i actually like the soreness or the pain factor sometimes...it makes it even better and then afterward it's wonderful to have that feeling of having been really taken.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 9:08:08 PM

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As long as we're not bragging and just sharing experiences, I'll relate that most women I've been with have been able to reach orgasm (and that's ORGASM, not organism) from "pure intercourse" (by which I assume you mean penetration, no touchy or licky).

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ORIGINAL: bigdaninwi

So my question is, how many females actually experience organism from pure intercourse? If you can orgasm from intercourse, is it the best orgasm you've ever experienced? If not, describe your best orgasm.

For the record, while I am not the largest male on the planet, however, my Girl often complains of being too sore after we have been together. I am not bragging, just sharing my experiences.

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