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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 7:49:47 AM   
marieToo


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Sometimes when people get their hearts broken, they have fantasies abouting ruining the person who hurt them.  It will pass.  The worst that you can do without breaking the law is maybe cyber-embaress someone.  I dont know what all the alarm is about.  

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 8:05:11 AM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

People Honestly please ok... He is hurt and came here to vent which many of us here have done befor, he is already been lied to cheated on and hurt by this girl why rub salt in an open sore!!! How about a LITTLE compation for his pain!!! I know this is a free forum and people can respond as they wish but please keep in mind how you would want to be responded to if this was you with the broken heart!!!

Magik's slave


That is what some of our mutual friends thought.. at first.. I was this meanie that broke his heart...at first they did not realize we had not been seeing each other for about 6 months before I started becoming interested in another.

After a few crying jags and his refusal to move on they began to get a clue how unhealthy it all was

Her friends would not give him information for a reason, and she did not contact him for a reason... reasons we will never know because it is none of our business

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 8:13:28 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		O, faithless and ignoble slave!

O, wretched day; espied from the mean depths of my rending

As it were but a nonce, the sundering is eternal, in this my breast;

O, vile defiler and betrayer of love's gluing..............

Read that (above) and get a quart of Jameson Irish Whiskey, ice cold, now; (don't stoop to her level)......drink the shit down and get over it.

You ain't gonna get no new blowjobs, mewling and puking about the old ones.

Ron

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 8:21:25 AM   
LotusSong


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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 8:55:42 AM   
MisPandora


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Status: offline 		Seriously, threatening someone's well being or saying you'd "royally fuck up their life" is sick.  You've not even met this person (a presumtion based on your post) and you're that nutty, and "in love"?????

Is the point of your post to give us the reason to question your maturity or your ethics?  Because that's exactly what it's done....so with this being your last slave, goodbye and good riddance.

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 9:02:11 AM   
MisPandora


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

People Honestly please ok... He is hurt and came here to vent which many of us here have done befor, he is already been lied to cheated on and hurt by this girl why rub salt in an open sore!!! How about a LITTLE compation for his pain!!! I know this is a free forum and people can respond as they wish but please keep in mind how you would want to be responded to if this was you with the broken heart!!!

Magik's slave

No, I'm sorry -- I don't blindly extend compassion or sympathy to strangers who come to hang their dirty laundry in my backyard.

We're hearing one part of it this story, but I can sure as heck read between the lines and speculate as to what we've not heard.  It reads to me that he didn't want to accept rejection and is mad about it to the point that he's threatened (and discussed publicly) her personal ruin.  Normal, level-minded individuals don't think on these terms, thank you kindly.

And as far as mourning the loss of a relationship -- a bunch of strangers behind a computer at CM is not the place I'd honestly go for "support".  I'm stretching at even using the word relationship, since it sounded to me like an online "friendship" that she didn't want to take RT and he did.  Sorry to be the Doubting Sally....

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 9:52:56 AM   
Iskander


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Status: offline 		Perhaps she didn't know how to tell you her feelings had changed and it was over.. Perhaps she didn't want to hurt you, so walking away and avoiding you in the hope she would slip out of your mind and heart.. It wouldn't be the first time this has happened in life...
This has nothing to do with being faithless, nor from what I gather indicates a patern of 'bad behaviour' that her new Dom should be made aware of...
Yeah it sucks to be on the receiving end, but nothing you can do will change it or make it better...
Surely if you loved her, then you would not want her to remain with you even if that made her unhappy?

"But I could have made her happy"
Ahhh but would you have remained true to yourself?

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 10:02:18 AM   
RedSavageSlave


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ORIGINAL: Strutinan

The only conclusion I can reach is that while I loved her, she didn't really love me.  I was just a convenient teacher and partner, to be lied to and stringed along until something more convenient was available.  And sometime between wendsay afternoon and friday evening a month ago, she found that something.

Then, rather than have the basic respect and courtesy to TELL me it was over, she started ignoring me.  I can't feel jellous of her new Master, after all they are going to go through the same ordeal when she finds somebody "better" or tires of the relationship.  But I can feel spiteful of the disrespectful lying little bitch.

And here is the thing: I have it in my power to royaly fuck up her life.  Legally.  A few words in the right ears, some time on the computer, and she will be without any friends or prospects for a good life.  The only problem is: I'm not a vindictive person by nature (despite being a Dom)...I usually let karma do all the work.

So that is the point of this post.  Who out there wants to share thier faithless sub/slave experiences, and what they did about it?


I am sorry.. I wish I could help but its not my week to drive the waambulance

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 10:14:14 AM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		When you say she moved away to go to school, I am assuming she is either 18 or 22, college or graduate school. That's very young, and much younger than you are. It is quite possible that while for you it was true love, for her it was more of a crush due to the intensity of the play, plus having an older man take her out to places she wouldn't go with a date her own age. All of this can be quite seductive which would work only as long as she was having it done to her. After a month at a new place, making new friends, away from the intensity of the play her feet finally came back to land.

Now, it was very rude to not call and say she needed time off to evaluate whether she was just dazzled by you or whether her feeling were true, but you cannot expect perfect manners and the ability to act appropriately in new situation with a girl that young. Which makes me wonder why you targeted a person so very much younger than you in the first place.

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 10:15:12 AM   
WhipTheHip


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Status: offline 		BitaTrouble wrote: "When someone says 'usually' it's because 'this time'
they are going to do things differently than their usual MO."
 
I don't know why people here are so poor at understanding English.
 
When someone says, "usually" it is NOT generally because this time
they are going to do things differently.  Just the opposite.  When people
say "ususally" in the context it was given, people usually mean nothing
more than what the word "usually" literially implies.  Reading his post
just means that he most of the time lets karma take its course, but
sometimes he does exact revenge, nothing more, nothing less.  I think
this is true of most people. 




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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 10:19:18 AM   
SxySlvTiger


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Status: offline 		sorry this happend to you.  Hope you have better luck in the future

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 10:20:58 AM   
WhipTheHip


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Status: offline 		Please accept my apologies Magic, we have a lot of nasty, very negative,
hypercrtical, super-sensitive, judgmental people here who assume
the worst about others who post here.  I myself think they are just projecting.

quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora
No, I'm sorry -- I don't blindly extend compassion or sympathy to strangers who come to hang their dirty laundry in my backyard.

We're hearing one part of it this story, but I can sure as heck read between the lines and speculate as to what we've not heard.  It reads to me that he didn't want to accept rejection and is mad about it to the point that he's threatened (and discussed publicly) her personal ruin.  Normal, level-minded individuals don't think on these terms, thank you kindly.

And as far as mourning the loss of a relationship -- a bunch of strangers behind a computer at CM is not the place I'd honestly go for "support".  I'm stretching at even using the word relationship, since it sounded to me like an online "friendship" that she didn't want to take RT and he did.  Sorry to be the Doubting Sally....


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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 10:25:02 AM   
WhipTheHip


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quote:

ORIGINAL: zumala
I've experienced some scary shit as well in the past.  All I can say for certain is this - if you aren't vindictive or making threats, then those things are NEVER even mentioned.  Period.  They just don't factor into a normal person's thought pattern.  zuma

 
Another expert on what is normal and what is not normal from someone
who is perfectly normal. 

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 10:28:27 AM   
WhipTheHip


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Strutinan
I meant "usually" (and please note that the emphasis in the quote was not there in the source) in terms of the past tense.  As in "this yer we can expect not to be able to have protracted camping trips, because usually this month it rains too much".  Most of the time I just have to wait out the pain, and move on.  But sometimes I can get a vicarious thrill from knowing that they fucked themselves over, such as the afore-mentioned stalker/felon.  Hence the past-tense use of "usaully", since sometimes what I do or do not do doesn't factor into the result of the situation.

Otherwise the quote would read "I'm usually not a vindictive person by nature (despite being a Dom), but this time I think I will be."  THAT is the use of "usually" you are referring to as meaning "except this time", since the sentence contains a qualifier.


You were perfectly clear.   This is exactly how I understood you.

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 10:30:57 AM   
WhipTheHip


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Status: offline 		MisPandora wrote: "You've not even met this person (a presumtion based on your post) and you're that nutty, and "in love"?????"
 
It was clearly and explicitly stated that he had met this person.   I don't
know how it is possible for someone to so misread a post so clearly written.

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 10:55:24 AM   
BitaTruble


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quote:


 
I don't know why people here are so poor at understanding English.
 
When someone says, "usually" it is NOT generally because this time
they are going to do things differently.  Just the opposite.  When people
say "ususally" in the context it was given, people usually mean nothing
more than what the word "usually" literially implies.  Reading his post
just means that he most of the time lets karma take its course, but
sometimes he does exact revenge, nothing more, nothing less.  I think
this is true of most people. 





I think his post was written in such a way it may have been misunderstood and by the reactions of some of the posters here, I believe I'm correct.

I prefaced my sentence with a qualifier to point out my intent and went on to give my own viewpoint on his OP.  I'm satisfied, at this point, he understood my intent and the spirit in which it was given which was from the heart and not disparaging to him in any way so see no need to engage in further discourse regarding this matter.

I wish you well,

Celeste

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 10:59:18 AM   
sweetnurseBBW


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhipTheHip

MisPandora wrote: "You've not even met this person (a presumtion based on your post) and you're that nutty, and "in love"?????"
 
It was clearly and explicitly stated that he had met this person.   I don't
know how it is possible for someone to so misread a post so clearly written.


Whip of the Hip it is funny how you always make this out to be a personal attack against you. You seem to very negative. If someone posts their dirty laundry out here then it is a free for all on here. The OP has been obviously misunderstood.

< Message edited by sweetnurseBBW -- 10/3/2006 11:00:33 AM >

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 10:59:22 AM   
ToGiveDivine


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Status: offline 		Damn Whip,  you get up on the wrong side of the bed today?

Here's a word to the wise (this is for everyone) - if you post something online, dont' think you won't get flamed by someone.  If you flame someone, don't think you won't get flamed in return.

If you don't want to hear an opinion different than what you expect, don't post.

With that said, who's gonna flame me now?   :-D

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 11:14:18 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Burn, fucker!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How was that?  I would'a done a big up, but I am at work and can only  flame you on the sly, which kinda dampens it.  Hope it's ok, what I got so far...

Helpfully,

Ron

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 11:23:22 AM   
justheather


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quote:

And here is the thing: I have it in my power to royaly fuck up her life.  Legally.  A few words in the right ears, some time on the computer, and she will be without any friends or prospects for a good life.  The only problem is: I'm not a vindictive person by nature (despite being a Dom)...I usually let karma do all the work.


Ok, I didnt read any further than this so pardon me if Im repeating what someone else said, in fact, if nobody else has said this yet I would be surprised and disappointed.

Dude.
If you believe that the fact that you are not vindictive somehow makes you an exception among doms, I suggest you start hanging out with more emotionally mature individuals.

And if it isnt your nature to do f'd up things to the lives, careers and futures of people you once allegedly cared for, why are you musing about it and sharing those musings here and then inviting other people to share their tales of revenge?

IMHO It would do you a world of good to process your feelings in a neutral and supportive environment so that you can come to a place of peace with what happened. And it wouldnt hurt to have your liver detoxified either, all that negativity can build up there and cause health problems.
Peace.
h

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