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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 11:35:16 AM   
raiken


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To the OP:
 
Shit like this happens all the time, best thing to do is let it go, learn the damn lesson and move on.  Take care of yourself, and don't waste any more time on this negative scenario.  i don't know if you are um  "normal", but for me, yeah...when i have just been duped...i get pissed off...i go through all the myriad of emotional shit; i hurt, then i anger, then i have imaginings of strangling folks with my bare hands....of how i would fuck up their lives for revenge, yeah...i have found myself entertaining those thoughts a time or three.  It is okay to entertain them too!  It becomes dangerous when one decides to truly ACT upon those imaginings, which are my brain's way of venting to myself, and NOT outloud...
 
Perhaps a bit of advice would be to check out why you attracted that type of person into your life in the first place.  Perhaps a dose of healthy soul searching would help out a bit. i am a big believer in the universal laws of attraction, like attracts like to some extent, i have found this to be true for my life.

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 11:39:00 AM   
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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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And here is the thing: I have it in my power to royaly fuck up her life.  Legally.  A few words in the right ears, some time on the computer, and she will be without any friends or prospects for a good life.  The only problem is: I'm not a vindictive person by nature (despite being a Dom)...I usually let karma do all the work.



I was squicked by this... it looks like a veiled threat to me, perhaps I am completely wrong here... but your post sounded like someone stalking another person after they decided they did not want to see you anymore. Her friends will not clue you in, why? Because perhaps they see you as a stalker type too?

That passage I quoted, if she posts here and can recognize herself in the the description if I were her I would take this as a threat and report you to the authorities for stalking and threats...

I had a real life boyfriend stalk me and my former dominant over the internet.. it was not fun, and this reminds me a great deal of it... veiled threats under aliases.....

If you are not a stalker, well my bad, but it reads that way to me... and if this girl posts here I hope she doesn't take your shit





I too saw that as a threat.I do not take threats well,infact I dont take them at all.


When I was threatened I made sure he knew that outing Me was far less devastating to Me than it was too him.The fact that I save ALL messages,especially IM's.I had plenty of stuff I could use to defend Myself.
Thankfully he went away and has stayed away.
You dont back a bear into a corner and expect to walk away unhurt.Least not in Maine anyway...lol

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 12:13:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sweetnurseBBW

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ORIGINAL: WhipTheHip

MisPandora wrote: "You've not even met this person (a presumtion based on your post) and you're that nutty, and "in love"?????"
 
It was clearly and explicitly stated that he had met this person.   I don't
know how it is possible for someone to so misread a post so clearly written.


Whip of the Hip it is funny how you always make this out to be a personal attack against you. You seem to very negative. If someone posts their dirty laundry out here then it is a free for all on here. The OP has been obviously misunderstood.

 
I never made this out to be a personal attack against me.  There was no attack against me.  I further disagree with your characterization of the original poster posting their "dirty laundry." And even if it were true, I see no justification in that leading to a free for all. 

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 12:15:00 PM   
WhipTheHip


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Status: offline 		The original post was not misunderstood by me.  He could not have been clearer.

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 12:59:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WhipTheHip

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ORIGINAL: sweetnurseBBW

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ORIGINAL: WhipTheHip

MisPandora wrote: "You've not even met this person (a presumtion based on your post) and you're that nutty, and "in love"?????"
 
It was clearly and explicitly stated that he had met this person.   I don't
know how it is possible for someone to so misread a post so clearly written.


Whip of the Hip it is funny how you always make this out to be a personal attack against you. You seem to very negative. If someone posts their dirty laundry out here then it is a free for all on here. The OP has been obviously misunderstood.

 
I never made this out to be a personal attack against me.  There was no attack against me.  I further disagree with your characterization of the original poster posting their "dirty laundry." And even if it were true, I see no justification in that leading to a free for all. 


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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 1:44:42 PM   
GoddessDustyGold


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ORIGINAL: Strutinan

And here is the thing: I have it in my power to royaly fuck up her life.  Legally.  A few words in the right ears, some time on the computer, and she will be without any friends or prospects for a good life.  The only problem is: I'm not a vindictive person by nature (despite being a Dom)...I usually let karma do all the work.

So that is the point of this post.  Who out there wants to share thier faithless sub/slave experiences, and what they did about it?


Bold emphasis Mine, and I apologize if I am repeating, but I have not read the entire thread.  So this response might already have been made.
This part of your "need to vent" disturbs Me.  Go ahead and vent, if you need to, but that ending has nothing to do with your vent at all.  If you do not have an idea that you might actually follow through with this, why bring it up at all?
I can only draw a conclusion that it is because, as you state, *the point of your post*. You have the power to do this, and you are also interested in how others have handled a similar situation.  Are you looking for validation?  Were you hoping that others had done this and it had made them feel so much better?  Will this give you permission to be mean spirited and childish?  Your response to julia in post #8 does not wash with Me.  If you are not vindictive, then why bring it up at all? 
I have been stalked, threatened, and more.  It is not worth it.  Just let go and move on.  That would be the mature thing to do.
It never ceases to amaze Me how little maturity I can run into from supposedly reasonable and intelligent people! 
Sorry all...I am a bit on the testy side today.

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 2:02:58 PM   
ExSteelAgain


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

O, faithless and ignoble slave!

O, wretched day; espied from the mean depths of my rending

As it were but a nonce, the sundering is eternal, in this my breast;

O, vile defiler and betrayer of love's gluing..............

Read that (above) and get a quart of Jameson Irish Whiskey, ice cold, now; (don't stoop to her level)......drink the shit down and get over it.

You ain't gonna get no new blowjobs, mewling and puking about the old ones.

Ron


A classic there and from Ron. LOL

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 8:15:44 PM   
diamonddreamlove


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Status: offline 		I understand both sides and find that as a sub it is sometimes difficult to stand up to a Dom and say exactly what you wish to say.  It would be easier just to go into hiding but that doesn't help either.  Not sure she is a lying bitch cause i don't know her side either.  Don't know that she isn't have Your word for it only.  I am a bit troubled tho that You are so angry that You would even think of creating that much trouble for her.  It is not a healthy way for You to feel nor is it a safe way for You to feel.  No flaming You just concerned that You are letting a sub that obviously does not feel the same as she did before about You rule Your life by making You angry.  It won't bring her back to hurt her and it won't make You look good either.  The next sub might take a look at this posting and back away quickly for fear that she too might upset You and pay a serious consequence.  In any event i do hope You feel better soon. 

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/3/2006 8:27:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		i agree with diamonddreamlove.one thing i learned a long time ago anger only hurts the person feeling it the person you feel it toword usaly dont care, it dont hurt them.revenge they say is sweet but i have never meet anyone who ever got anything good from it.give love and you will recieve love give hate and you will recive hate.

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/4/2006 12:10:31 AM   
koimizu


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Status: offline 		The most curious thing about the OP was that He was so very careful to keep all  details about the girl out of the post.  No description of age, height, weight or anything.  Not location or even if she drove a car.  Many things can be assumed about the little one who left and perhaps her side of the story but there was great restraint shown by Strutinan to not out her while still discussing her.

Such deserves commendation for the ability to honorably keep a secret once told to Him.  Undoubtedly there are things we all know about those who are Over and beneath us that could do serious an irrevocable harm should we feel wronged by them.  The truest test would be having that harm come to pass and despite the pain, the rage and the desire to slowly watch them writhe beneath us while the light of their lives drains slowly away, we take calming breaths and seek civil discussion with friends and peers instead.

To say that at no point in one's life has revenge been considered is foolish and presumptuous.  Human nature is a normally weaned on the principles of "do unto others" even if at times what is done is in retaliation.  If you walked up to a stranger on the street and slapped them, 9 times out of 10 you'd be dealt the same in kind.  Sadly we may not know her reasonings but we have heard His and frankly i do feel great sorrow that such a thing transpired.

Still, even the Life is life and heartbreak is sometimes inevitable.  Well wishes to You Sir.

P.S.  trust me, i've plotted everything from poisonings to some seriously borderline illegal things for people who have hurt me and You're right.  Thought and act are vastly different things.  The truly strange part is i can have a lovely discussion of it with my mother who just scared an ex-MP with the words "they have to sleep sometime."

Safe Journeys unto You.

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/4/2006 12:47:15 PM   
akisha


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Status: offline 		Revenge is a double edged sword. Thinking this up can be fun but trying to actually do them usually just gets yourself in trouble.

As for her saying one week she loves you and misses you then the next week not talking to you. Guess what, that's how life goes. My ex did the same thing but it was a 5 year marriage not a budding romance. Shit happens move one and learn from it..

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/4/2006 3:04:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Strutinan

Just today I finally got the formal brush-off from my last slave...

... I finally find out that she is no longer interrested in me....

... I can't feel jellous of her new Master, after all they are going to go through the same ordeal when she finds somebody "better" or tires of the relationship.  But I can feel spiteful of the disrespectful lying little bitch.

... And here is the thing: I have it in my power to royaly fuck up her life.  Legally.  A few words in the right ears, some time on the computer, and she will be without any friends or prospects for a good life.  The only problem is: I'm not a vindictive person by nature (despite being a Dom)...I usually let karma do all the work.



You finally found out she is no longer interested in you. This is all you need to know.

That other stuff you mentioned only implicates you as an accomplice turned attempted racketeer, and is powerless. 

You have no power over her, period... get used to this fact.  Life can suck, so accept the facts and go forward.  

Reconcile these painful circumstances towards your explaining this to her when she reappears in your future.

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/4/2006 8:19:55 PM   
Sinergy


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ORIGINAL: SadistCpl4fslv

you and Sinergy did. 



I think you have the wrong Dominant for juliaoceania in this post.

Nobody has messaged me with threats to reveal that I am a wife beater.  Considering what I do and have done, and how thoroughly I have been investigated by the authorities to do them, I would simply laugh at them for accusing me of it.

Sinergy

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/4/2006 8:28:58 PM   
SadistCpl4fslv


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Status: offline 		Your right Sinergy.....I misread julia's post.  She was refering to an incident with her former Dominant.  My bad.

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RE: Faithless sub/slaves - 10/4/2006 8:57:32 PM   
cloudboy


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ORIGINAL: Strutinan

Then, rather than have the basic respect and courtesy to TELL me it was over, she started ignoring me.


That's the modern dating equivalent of telling you its over.

Sam Malone was once asked, "How do you break up with a girl."

He replied, "I say, 'I'll call you tomorrow.'"

P.S. A jazz muscian once said to me, "We should all thank God for those relationships that didn't work out."

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