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Seducing Dommes - 10/9/2006 3:06:34 PM   
CrappyDom


Posts: 1883
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From: Sacramento
Status: offline 		I have a weakness for strong women and I often find myself attracted to dominant women.  I also strongly believe in respect and do NOT engage in that crap about all women are submissive/unequal or any other BS.  However, the challenge of taming one is pretty hot and I have found they do make good lovers.

So, how have others dealt with this?  The reasons it could go wrong are many and probably boring so if possible, lets stick to what went right?

I look forward to hearing about the experiences of others.
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RE: Seducing Dommes - 10/9/2006 3:16:58 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		You don't really want to tame them :)

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RE: Seducing Dommes - 10/9/2006 3:23:17 PM   
CrappyDom


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From: Sacramento
Status: offline 		I think you know EXACTLY what I want to do!

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RE: Seducing Dommes - 10/9/2006 3:27:40 PM   
Samwhiplash


Posts: 191
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Status: offline 		Hey... I posted something v similar in the Ask a Mistress section a few weeks ago having gone for a coffee with an old 'friend' who is Dom.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_572242/tm.htm

Some v interesting comments, worth a read i think :)

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RE: Seducing Dommes - 10/9/2006 3:28:58 PM   
Samwhiplash


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Status: offline 		Oh.. and also just to add that I will restrain the urge to try to top him out of respect lol :)

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RE: Seducing Dommes - 10/9/2006 3:33:29 PM   
mnottertail


Posts: 60698
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Status: offline 		God knows I want to own an Amazon, and while Dominatrixes may have a slave side, and Doms as well, I think that it would be a very rare match.  So I might kid around with those that can take a joke, but I don't own any strontium either. 


Just like all of life, it does happen, but it ain't gonna happen until you win the lottery.


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RE: Seducing Dommes - 10/9/2006 3:34:32 PM   
LotusSong


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From: Domme Emeritus
Status: offline 		Oh I love it :)
 
It always seems to be a seduction CONTEST when I meet up with  Dom.  I swear it's like a non-intentional seduction fest :)  Major flirting.
 
It always ends in a draw.. each one of us just appreciating the strength of the other.  It doesn't involve topping the other.. it's just an energy acknowledgment..
 
"Damn you're good.. So are YOU!" LOL!
 

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RE: Seducing Dommes - 10/9/2006 3:35:43 PM   
MistressCamille


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Status: offline 		I've dated a Dominant before. It's totally possible for two dominants to get along.

I could play bottom to his top as far as play goes (I can be a masochist at times) but never submissive. I just don't have it in me.

So my question to you is do you just want to top them or have them actually be submissive?

I don't believe everyone is always dominant or submissive. Although I'm strongly dominant there are a few I feel like playing bottom to.

< Message edited by MistressCamille -- 10/9/2006 3:37:26 PM >

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RE: Seducing Dommes - 10/9/2006 3:38:24 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		So what follows after that, Lotus?


Spank me, you Bitch........................


LOLOLOL,
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RE: Seducing Dommes - 10/9/2006 3:39:33 PM   
sissifytoserve


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Status: offline 		There are dominants here that would never date a submissive...only keep them as slaves....and ONLY date dominants
for intimate relationships so...um..I think you are in luck.

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RE: Seducing Dommes - 10/9/2006 3:42:02 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail
Spank me, you Bitch........................
Ron
Hey, I thought you only used that line with me?  

As to the OP, I think it is possible though very difficult to make last after the sexual energy fades.   M

< Message edited by BlkTallFullfig -- 10/9/2006 3:43:56 PM >

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RE: Seducing Dommes - 10/9/2006 3:51:04 PM   
TheShadows


Posts: 403
Joined: 9/16/2004
From: Southern Illinois
Status: offline 		We'll be married for 5 years on Halloween. Two big Sadistic Dominants.  There's not much power struggle.  Just the occasional jabs back and forth, all in good humor.  We're happy with each other's company, and have similar views on both vanilla and lifestyle things.  "Partners in Crime", as I like to look at it.  It works out well.  If I recall that thread in the Mistress' Section, there were a few Dominant Women interested in relationships with other Dominants.  It can, and does, work.  Best of luck with it.

As always, YMMV.

TheShadows

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RE: Seducing Dommes - 10/9/2006 3:56:22 PM   
LotusSong


Posts: 6334
Joined: 7/2/2006
From: Domme Emeritus
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

So what follows after that, Lotus?


Spank me, you Bitch........................


LOLOLOL,
Ron

   Nah..it's
 
"Let me show you my technique.  Just bend over my knee, babe " :)  And I do give the BEST spankings...  A combination of  surprise and caress.. toss in a guiche massage when you are getting to the  breaking point..and you will be good to go for a few more rounds. 
 
("...do I make you horny, baby?" Austin Powers --..or is that Sen Foley....LOL)

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RE: Seducing Dommes - 10/9/2006 4:12:15 PM   
SirLordTrainer


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From: Indy
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

Oh I love it :)
 
It always seems to be a seduction CONTEST when I meet up with  Dom.  I swear it's like a non-intentional seduction fest :)  Major flirting.
 
It always ends in a draw.. each one of us just appreciating the strength of the other.  It doesn't involve topping the other.. it's just an energy acknowledgment..
 
"Damn you're good.. So are YOU!" LOL!
 


Ahh I get it, now I know why you sent those email's complimenting Me.. hmm well no more compliments til you post on My thread!   *teasing*   

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RE: Seducing Dommes - 10/9/2006 4:27:11 PM   
LotusSong


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Status: offline 		The emails were sincere :)  You just sort of stood out among the others and I believe in acknowledging where acknowledgment is deserved.

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RE: Seducing Dommes - 10/9/2006 4:35:55 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		What's a guiche massage?  Ain't nobody gonna rub no eggs on me.  See, this is where it falls apart when it does. what is the difference between a guiche and a  souflee?


Curiously (maybe),
Ron


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RE: Seducing Dommes - 10/9/2006 4:39:47 PM   
BitaTruble


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From: Texas
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

What's a guiche massage?  Ain't nobody gonna rub no eggs on me.  See, this is where it falls apart when it does. what is the difference between a guiche and a  souflee?


Curiously (maybe),
Ron



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Take me out for coffee and I'll 'splain the whole thing to ya.

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RE: Seducing Dommes - 10/9/2006 4:55:33 PM   
LotusSong


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Joined: 7/2/2006
From: Domme Emeritus
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

What's a guiche massage?  Ain't nobody gonna rub no eggs on me.  See, this is where it falls apart when it does. what is the difference between a guiche and a  souflee?


Curiously (maybe),
Ron


See?  Here I go.. I get talking with the Doms and we start talking shop like we are in a sewing circle swapping recipes.
 
 
I'll email the technique to you.

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RE: Seducing Dommes - 10/9/2006 4:56:56 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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From: Charleston, WV
Status: offline 		If I date a dominant man, I was it to be a relationship of equals. I don't like drama...or power struggles. It's not a game I enjoy and it just ends up pissing me off.

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RE: Seducing Dommes - 10/9/2006 5:09:58 PM   
LotusSong


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Status: offline 		It usually ends up with the Dom saying "I'd like to explore my submissive side with you sometime"...

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