Aine
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What I REALLY detest- is the fact that in this "lifestyle"-and particularly on these boards-people defend the toothless, dirty, drug addicted, idiot losers, the shit-rollers, puke-drinkers, diaper-wearers, or those who expect their subs to shit in front of people of suck off xxx.. all of this is acceptable behavior! So these folk- who are moral degenerates, IMO~~ are accepted as "normal and good" in these groups and circles. This all-inclusive attitude will be the downfall of the "lifestyle". I do not go to parties to watch someone take a dump. I am not a Mistress to mentally warp my sub. To say it isn't done- and cannot be done, is incorrect.
Why do you think there are dungeon monitors at play parties, people??
I would sincerely LOVE to see a group of KINKY AS HELL people who had some sort of idea what discrimination is- and that it CAN actually be a GOOD thing. Yes- an elite group of kinky people.. LMAO.
(hearing it now- "who's to say what is elite?" "who would determine which activity would be acceptable or not?")
Three people with some sense would sit down and figure it out. ;)
Thank you all for your input. :)
Since when does being toothless mean you're a bad person? Could just mean you're old and need dentures.
Dirty as in .....like roll around in the mud, dirty? Because most of us are in some way considered "dirty" for our tastes. That means you too, hun.
Drug addiction....That's a whole other thing altogether. Addiction and use are two different things. Which has already been discussed in correlation to BDSM activities in other threads. And since when is Drug Addiction automatically related to BDSM? I sure as h-e-doublehockeysticks don't think so.
Shit-rollers....does that go hand in hand with the dirty comment? Again,while it's your opinion, and you're more than welcome to it, scat play while some into BDSM are into it, it's not necessarily a strictly BDSM activity, more of just a fetish.
Puke drinking.....now that is something I've NEVER heard in correlation to BDSM. And I hope I never do. That just fucking squicks me out. That and the fact that I've spent the last day puking my guts out kinda puts the idea of puking WAY down on the list of fun activities. Let alone drinking it. I'm with ya there that it's gross, but again it's NOT a BDSM activity by definition. I've seen vids of guys drinking it for money at parties. A BDSM party perhaps? Nope, just your average frat function.
And as for the shitting in front of other people, and perhaps even sucking people off in the process....it's all personal preference, and maybe I'm being a positive polly on this one, but I would think that most anyone that didn't agree to this and discuss it before hand would certainly speak up for themselves and say No Effin Way Dude! And if they don't, shame on them for compromising their self and their comfort levels. And on the other hand.....some people enjoy doing that kind of stuff. You may think it's gross, which is fine, it's not my cup of tea either, but going on what you said in your OP...you don't want to come off like you're attacking people, in this one, you are in a way.
Just because you don't like those particular things doesn't make the people who do "warped". I like to call these people....."creative". *giggles*
And there is such a thing about play parties, especially the more private ones...I'm going strictly on what I've heard from those that go to them and those that host them. Things are usually pre-disposed as to the general activities. You have to know your Audience, right? Therefore, I'm rather comfortable saying that those that are responsible in those situations, make those invited aware of the evening's activities and from there, those that are invited are able to make an educated decision to go, or not to go. That is the question, now isn't it?
I wouldn't expect to go to a dungeon without researching those involved and the activities involved, that way I knew what I would need to prepare for and make the choice to go or not. That is the responsibility of the Audience that I referenced earlier.
But, that's just MY opinion.
And yes, that IS why there are monitors at dungeons, generally to uphold the RULES of the House. If ya don't like how kinky they are, don't GO. Simple as that.
And as for discrimination. That's YOUR responsibility when dealing with other people. Find out what these people are into and if you're squicked, WALK AWAY.
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Honey, you obviously missed the "want to be used as a toilet fetish" thread or "where do I get instructions on setting my sub on fire" thread. LOL
Thank you, DelRay for that one.
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RE: What is considered "outside" BDSM? - 
I couldn't agree more!!!
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