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Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 7:57:03 PM   
michaelGA2


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Status: offline 		as long as i've lived, i've always pondered this question. for me, there's no real surprises anymore and things i won't do tend to get longer as i age. but, of course, these days, nothing shocks me...grosses me out, that's another story altogether.

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 8:00:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sex with my ex husband was totally over-rated *g*

But with the right person and right dynamic there really isn't anything much better. IMHO anyway *S*

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 8:04:21 PM   
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Is sex over-rated?


Not for me, it isn't...     I think Master would agree with me here.  It can be the same way as we have done it time and again, and I still feel amazingly connected and warm towards my Master.  (makes my toes curl, too...) 

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 8:08:17 PM   
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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 8:08:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sex can be overrated when its being done for the act and not for the emotions.  We can get sex anywhere, it isnt hard to find.  Sex worth having with soeone worth having it with is different.
And obviously, for my little one and im sure for others, sex is also worth waiting for.  He is saving himself for the "right one" and his wedding night. Makes for a strange bit of limit jockeying, but I respect his decision, and I am willing to wait. He has already told me I was the "right one", after all.

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 8:11:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think whether it is over rated or not depends a lot on your partner. It was definitely over rated with my ex for one.
I think if you and your partner really click then it's good/great etc. and if you both like to experiment at times it's even better.
I've had mindblowing sex and sex that sucked. There are a lot of variables to figure.

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 8:11:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		Having 2 extreme sides to me, if I'm not intimately connected to the man somehow, I can be as cold as a fish, and indeed sex is highly overrated; but when it is done with the right person and in the right way, there is nothing as satisfying or fulfilling (at least at that moment) in my opinion.    M

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 8:11:50 PM   
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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 8:14:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		Damn Michael, with the "tool" you have, you need to use it more....then you would feel alot better. 

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 8:16:18 PM   
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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 8:17:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50

Damn Michael, with the "tool" you have, you need to use it more....then you would feel alot better. 


not likely to happen from CM, as the chance of meeting people from here offline are practically non-existant.


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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 8:18:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

please overlook me. (most people do)


please do not say that...  there are many who wish you well... 
take care... 

her Daddysredhead 

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 8:23:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

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ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50

Damn Michael, with the "tool" you have, you need to use it more....then you would feel alot better. 


not likely to happen from CM, as the chance of meeting people from here offline are practically non-existant.



Actually I've had great luck with meeting people from on here face to face. I haven't met a bad person yet. Maybe I'm just lucky tho.

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 8:27:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		well, since you're probably in a more poplulated area, the odds are more in your favor...plus you probably have a vehicle or some means of getting around. that seems to be a big issue these days.

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 8:27:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

as long as i've lived, i've always pondered this question. for me, there's no real surprises anymore and things i won't do tend to get longer as i age. but, of course, these days, nothing shocks me...grosses me out, that's another story altogether.

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 8:46:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		hardly....  The worst sex I ever had was positively fanstastic.  Sex is like dancing; one partner can be lousy at it and you can still have an incredibly fun time if you enjoy the art of the moment.  Two bodies in perfect sync together is magick.  If you spend all your time alone on the dance floor doing the jerk you dont have much time to learn how to waltz.

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 9:00:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

well, since you're probably in a more poplulated area, the odds are more in your favor...plus you probably have a vehicle or some means of getting around. that seems to be a big issue these days.


People.

Let's not make this into another "Poor Michael" thread. 

Self pity fits no one.  Fishing for compliments suits no one.  Implied griping suits no one.

Some days I think you're great, some days I wish you'd just stay off of CM. 

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 9:27:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		It is definitely not overrated

But that is just me.... etc

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 9:34:22 PM   
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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 9:36:19 PM   
michaelGA2


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Self pity fits no one.


can we can the "SELF PITY" terminology...i'm sick of people placing false "self-pity" on me...get past it and know i have nop pity for myself WHATSOEVER!!!


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