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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 9:39:44 PM

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please excuse my outburst...that term pisses me of to no ends.

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 9:41:51 PM

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Is sex over-rated?
Are we talking about genital intercourse/oral sex/intromission?

For me, it damned sure is.
I have a whole lot of other things I would much rather do.
But I will be the first person to say that I am a very strange person, that I've not had intercourse in a long time, and that I don't miss it a bit.

I find a very sexual thrill in being inaccessible, however...
so when it comes down to it, I have to ask someone who asks if sex is over-rated...

'What sort of sex do you mean?'

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 9:57:43 PM

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Columbus is not that far away from Atlanta, and there are many lifestylers in Atlanta Michael. There are munches and clubs all over the place there.

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 10:00:20 PM

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I happen to know from experience that if you get busy with somebody that you can't stand it's not at all fun, but it's quite possible to avoid a worse torture in the form of a lengthy argument that way.

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 10:58:13 PM

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When you reach the age I have you begin to forget what all the fuss is about.
Now and then Mr Willie has a mad moment !

I must say the sex drive is like hearing it would be nice to be able to turn it on/off as required !

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/13/2006 11:05:00 PM

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I have an "off" button, but a bit of fidgeting with the primer is required to get me to start up again.

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/14/2006 5:31:48 AM

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transportation is a major issue, getting to Atlanta is also nearly impossible.

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/14/2006 6:21:57 AM

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transportation is a major issue, getting to Atlanta is also nearly impossible.

Nonsense, you're just making excuses again. As I pointed out to you in the 'DomCon Atlanta' thread, Greyhound runs between Columbus and Atlanta several times a day. Getting to Atlanta is only impossible if you're unwilling to make even the tiniest of efforts.

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/14/2006 6:24:07 AM

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having the money to pay for a bus is the hard part, maybe if i get the new job next month, it might be possible, but, at the moment...it's not.

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/14/2006 6:40:08 AM

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Sex......... sex, sex, sex. Hmm.

Sex is wonderful, and great fun, with the right person. I am at the point where I want someone to cuddle with as much as to having orgasms with, though.

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/14/2006 6:50:51 AM

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at age 20ish, for a male, sex is needed. at 36 and holding sex is over rated.

i like a man with a stimulating mind. in time looks fade, thats the reality.

as a gay male i had my share of very HOT sex. fortunately- with no stds.

at time sex is work. of guys i messed around with some want what they want only when they are revved up- their terms only.

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/16/2006 7:16:11 AM

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to answer this question is simple i feel sex is over rated, when most doms only want a suck and f doll, most of them keep this life style from their others, and treat their slave, or sub like back alley mistress, and their life is something to be hidden in a dark deep closet, mention to a dom you like fire, wax and oh my god little knife play. have a slave state she desires to be with others by attending a dungone or lair party, There is so much more to a d/s life so is sex over rated HELL YES
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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/16/2006 7:35:37 AM

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No it's under-rated, under-appreciated, but badly defined. The climax culminates the act, the first handshake or kiss on the cheek begins it. Both activities can be defined as "sex". Foreplay is sex. It exists in every shared glance, every touch, every squeeze of the hands. Maybe you aren't focused on sex but rather the act of copulation. Copulation is very much overrated. Sex brings into play so many facets it can never be over-rated, boring, or irrelevant.

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/16/2006 7:46:45 AM

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Is sex overated? It certainly takes a lot of play acting. Women seem to want you to convince them they are the one and only person in your thoughts to enjoy sex even if they know they aren't. Not many women seem to be able to enjoy sex in a casual way like a man, not in my experience anyway. Some women bring the actor out in me and some don't and I've had sex just to stop an argument before today. A few times I've woken up in the morning and wished I was 500 miles away. But I guess that is the price one pays for wanting sex and wanting to remain single.

I've had better kicks by creating a good piece of artwork than having sex and when I was younger and played soccer, I'd rather score a goal than score with a woman, not that there was more thrill but you don't have to do all the pretending that you care afterwards. Though the best sex I've ever had was with someone I still occasionally see when I go to London and that is because we connect on an intellectual level and I can just get off on staying up all night discussing art and poetry and drinking whiskey and smoking cigars with her. The sex with her is always good to sensational.

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/16/2006 7:53:43 AM

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Like everything else it runs the gambit based on experience and a persons personal preference/drive. I do think though we as a society and it appears throughout history, take an alomst zeal to wanting to downplay it publically and although most on this site would never, but a lot of people make judgements on people who are openly state sex is very important to them.

Personally for me, I do not think sex is over rated at all. I love all aspects and types and by no way do I guage it just on if or how many orgasms happen. Have I had my share of bad experiences, sure, but it is like getting a bad meal and that I do not feel the need to stop eating or that particular food because of a random negative thing.

I am actually convinved that matching up sex drives in relationships is something that is very important to a couple and is not done for various reasons and I do not mean that it is the only or only key factor in a good relationship.

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/16/2006 8:16:25 AM

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Sex is great and I wouldn't want to live without it but its the high price one is often expected to pay that ruins it. Most women seem to want a man's soul in exchange for sex. I gave it once but never again.

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/16/2006 9:48:29 AM

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Is sex over-rated?

Cant remember, sorry. (5 years and counting!)

No - not looking for sympathy. Yes - some pity sex would be welcome though LOL!

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/16/2006 10:05:20 AM

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as long as i've lived, i've always pondered this question. for me, there's no real surprises anymore and things i won't do tend to get longer as i age. but, of course, these days, nothing shocks me...grosses me out, that's another story altogether.

It's only overrated if you are not getting any :)

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/16/2006 10:45:14 AM

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Sex is great and I wouldn't want to live without it but its the high price one is often expected to pay that ruins it. Most women seem to want a man's soul in exchange for sex. I gave it once but never again.

I don't want your soul just your visa *g* just kidding.

Seriously though, being a female i wanted to respond to this. I've never expected anything more from my partners then i was willing to give. Respect and honesty is what i want.

If you are sleeping with someone else as well let me know. If we are in a committed mono relationship then don't ignore me for 3 days then expect me to be all ready and wanting and enthusiastic when you poke me in the back at 3 am cause you want some.

I do know some people that use sex to get what they want but i think that's pretty sad to be honest.

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RE: Is sex over-rated? - 10/16/2006 11:12:53 AM

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Is sex over rated...........hmmmmmmmmm........I don't remember.

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