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Q to straight men - 10/14/2006 6:55:46 AM   
pahunkboy


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Status: offline 		why are straight men so picky about a ladies weight and looks?  my brother was out here a week- he could have had several woman. but n000000000. meanwhile at the bar, it was all men there. all suasage.

woman avoid these vulcherish places.

why is it so hard for straight folks to date?

i introduced my bro to Jenn- she can cook, sew, has her own income, her kid is raised, he wasnt into her at all.

meanwhile HE IS AGING TOO.

why do men brush off fat ladies?  i dont mean obese, i mean chubby.
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RE: Q to straight men - 10/14/2006 7:00:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

why are straight men so picky about a ladies weight and looks?  my brother was out here a week- he could have had several woman. but n000000000. meanwhile at the bar, it was all men there. all suasage.

woman avoid these vulcherish places.

why is it so hard for straight folks to date?

i introduced my bro to Jenn- she can cook, sew, has her own income, her kid is raised, he wasnt into her at all.

meanwhile HE IS AGING TOO.

why do men brush off fat ladies?  i dont mean obese, i mean chubby.


Blame it on Hef.


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RE: Q to straight men - 10/14/2006 7:03:42 AM   
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RE: Q to straight men - 10/14/2006 7:06:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		Probably for the same reason that those fat older women hit on me when I was a brand new wannabe dom with zero experience and nothing to offer but youth, looks and drama.  They did so while at the same time complaining about how the other older, more stable and experienced doms only liked young skinny bitches and they did so without any sense of the irony!

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RE: Q to straight men - 10/14/2006 7:07:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		why is it so hard for straight folks to date?
Dating is hard for everyone - surely!
 
i introduced my bro to Jenn- she can cook, sew, has her own income, her kid is raised, he wasnt into her at all.
Hmm, i can't cook, i can't sew, my kid is still at home. I do have my own income but hey a lot of guys arent into me either. Attractions there or it isnt.
 
why do men brush off fat ladies?  i dont mean obese, i mean chubby.
I actually looked into this a while ago and the result was that men in majority were worried what their friends etc would think. They said they would sleep with chubby girls but they certainly wouldnt want to be seen out with them. Now im certainly not saying all men feel like this before i get flamed but certainly the majority i spoke to did.

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RE: Q to straight men - 10/14/2006 7:17:54 AM   
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There are two types of fat women, there are yummy ones who's bodies are curved in the RIGHT places and in the RIGHT purportions.  I had a slave who was a short size 16 but she was hot as hell and was chased around the San Francisco bay area, a pond with a lot of very hot fish.  She also took great pains to look good and dress well.

Then there are those who have curves in all the wrong places and in the wrong purportions.  If you are an A or B cup and are overweight you are screwed.  If you don't take pains to look your best you are screwed.  It isn't nice, it isn't fair, but it is true for many.

But life is like that, go bald as a man and you are fucked as far as most (which of course means one woman will post saying SHE loves bald men, but one woman doesn't make a trend) or if  you have a tiny cock or are short or have a high voice.

I got lucky, I have most of my hair, I have a great cock, a deep voice and I am tall.  I didn't have to do jack shit to get those, it was pure luck of the draw.  I had to work to become a decent human being though because I sure as hell wasn't one ten years ago!  Funny thing is, the fat women in the scene sure as hell didn't care, almost to a one they threw themselves at me, despite my being an asshole with no experience.

So my sympathy on the grand scale is pretty limited but frankly it is the reason I hate going to parties by myself, because on a personal level I DO have sympathy.

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RE: Q to straight men - 10/14/2006 7:26:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		This explains the phenomenon much better than i ever could....it was titled.."How Men Think"

>I received a phone call from a gorgeous ex-girlfriend the other day.
>We lost track of time, chatting about the wild, romantic nights we
>used to enjoy together. I couldn't believe it when she asked if I'd
>be interested in meeting up and rekindling a little of that "magic."
>"Wow!" I said. "I don't know if I could keep pace with you now. I'm
>a bit older and a bit balder than when you last saw me."
>She just giggled and said she was sure I'd "rise" to the challenge.
>"Yeah." I said. "Just so long as you don't mind a man with a
>waistline
>that's a few inches wider these days!" She laughed and told me to
>stop
>being so silly. She teased me saying that tubby bald men were cute,
>and she was sure I would still be a great lover.
>Anyway, she giggled, "I've put on a few pounds myself!"
>So I told her to fuck off.
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RE: Q to straight men - 10/14/2006 7:30:34 AM   
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This explains the phenomenon much better than i ever could....it was titled.."How Men Think"

>I received a phone call from a gorgeous ex-girlfriend the other day.
>We lost track of time, chatting about the wild, romantic nights we
>used to enjoy together. I couldn't believe it when she asked if I'd
>be interested in meeting up and rekindling a little of that "magic."
>"Wow!" I said. "I don't know if I could keep pace with you now. I'm
>a bit older and a bit balder than when you last saw me."
>She just giggled and said she was sure I'd "rise" to the challenge.
>"Yeah." I said. "Just so long as you don't mind a man with a
>waistline
>that's a few inches wider these days!" She laughed and told me to
>stop
>being so silly. She teased me saying that tubby bald men were cute,
>and she was sure I would still be a great lover.
>Anyway, she giggled, "I've put on a few pounds myself!"
>So I told her to fuck off.
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How funny, probably sadly realistic, but still funny.


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RE: Q to straight men - 10/14/2006 7:31:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		There are two types of fat women, there are yummy ones who's bodies are curved in the RIGHT places and in the RIGHT purportions. 
What you class as right place, right proportion others wouldnt. Some people probably thought ur hot slave was a mutt.
 
Then there are those who have curves in all the wrong places and in the wrong purportions.
Who are you to judge right and wrong. For some those curves would be hot.
 
I  got lucky, I have most of my hair, I have a great cock, a deep voice and I am tall. 
I could say in my opinion you are not lucky, you'd look better bald, ur cock is too small, big - i have no idea lol. A deep voice is a turn off and being only 5ft 4 im not over keen on tall men. Now if you were in hot pursuit of me then your attributes wouldnt be very lucky would they?
 
By the way the above pulling apart of your attributes was not what i really think but just an example of how whats hot for one isnt hot for another.


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RE: Q to straight men - 10/14/2006 7:32:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: CrappyDom

Since these threads always slide downhill might as well get it started.

LOL Crappy, true.

There are two types of fat women, there are yummy ones who's bodies are curved in the RIGHT places and in the RIGHT purportions.  I had a slave who was a short size 16 but she was hot as hell and was chased around the San Francisco bay area, a pond with a lot of very hot fish.  She also took great pains to look good and dress well.

Again, very true. I know women who are "chubby", but incredibly sexy too. Not only are they fuckable, but I'd be proud to be seen with one on my arm. Of course, none of this has anything to do with whether she is smart (gotta be), or funny (gotta be), or trustworthy (gotta be).

Then there are those who have curves in all the wrong places and in the wrong purportions.  If you are an A or B cup and are overweight you are screwed.  If you don't take pains to look your best you are screwed.  It isn't nice, it isn't fair, but it is true for many.

There's a woman I work with who is the epitome of disproportionate; egg-shaped head, huge upper torso, flat ass, scrawny legs. It does not help that she is the most annoying fucking person I've ever met.



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RE: Q to straight men - 10/14/2006 7:35:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		Some people want things to ALWAYS go their way.

Life for young women is made easy for them, men go out of their way to take care of them.  Young men can't get laid and nobody gives a rats ass about them.

Life for older men is made easy for them, young women go out of their way to sleep with someone who has a successful life.  Old women can't get laid and nobody gives a rats ass about them.

Of course that is a broad generalization and while there are people it doesn't apply to, the broad trend supports it.  It isn't fair, it isn't nice but it is true.  If you are born ugly, you better get rich, if you are born beautiful and not completely stupid, your life will be much easier than the rest of us, regardless if you are male or female.

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RE: Q to straight men - 10/14/2006 7:36:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		I can say, as an average size 12, not skinny, not chubby, that as a size 10 I can garner many more stares, smiles and compliments.  I would love to be a size 10 again.  But I'm not going on a diet and stressing myself over it.  There is a lot of pressure to be skinny in our society, not only skinny, but anorexic-looking, it's sad.  No one understands what "average" is.  And I don't understand why men find women who look flat, with no curves attractive.

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RE: Q to straight men - 10/14/2006 7:37:47 AM   
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I can say, as an average size 12, not skinny, not chubby, that as a size 10 I can garner many more stares, smiles and compliments.  I would love to be a size 10 again.  But I'm not going on a diet and stressing myself over it.  There is a lot of pressure to be skinny in our society, not only skinny, but anorexic-looking, it's sad.  No one understands what "average" is.  And I don't understand why men find women who look flat, with no curves attractive.


You look great, Katy.

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RE: Q to straight men - 10/14/2006 7:40:38 AM   
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One woman doesn't make a trend, 50 women doesn't make a trend.  Look at the top 100 magazines in the US, find one that declares short bald men with high voices and short cocks as the ideal.  Same goes for women, find one that doesn't airbrush the wrinkles off the faces of women over 20, features fat women on the cover and doesn't use them as before pictures.

Trust me, I AM on your side, very few of the women I have ever loved would fit the classic definition of beauty, most were far more intelligent than average, and very few were thin.  However, women are every bit as shallow and sexist as men, just in different ways. 

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RE: Q to straight men - 10/14/2006 7:40:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		Again, very true. I know women who are "chubby", but incredibly sexy too. Not only are they fuckable, but I'd be proud to be seen with one on my arm. Of course, none of this has anything to do with whether she is smart (gotta be), or funny (gotta be), or trustworthy (gotta be).

You're talking about me again lol - people will talk ya know

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RE: Q to straight men - 10/14/2006 7:43:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		Same goes for women, find one that doesn't airbrush the wrinkles off the faces of women over 20, features fat women on the cover and doesn't use them as before pictures.

Readers wives and all those i love fat women porn magazines i cringe at when i go to the newsagent.
I'm not actually on anyones side - i hate to see really obese people and i wouldnt date one if im honest.

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RE: Q to straight men - 10/14/2006 7:48:05 AM   
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If you are an A or B cup and are overweight you are screwed. 


I guess I will consider myself safe since I recently found out that I actually wear an F cup.


quote:


If you don't take pains to look your best you are screwed. 


I try very hard to look good for Daddy and I guess I am doing okay b/c He wears a smile each time He sees me and gives me a kiss after "checking me out."  If He thinks I'm a hottie, that's all I care about...  overweight or not.

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RE: Q to straight men - 10/14/2006 7:51:11 AM   
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You look great, Katy.


Thank you.  But I know you are  just bribing me so I will sit on your lap and you can tell about football defenses.




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RE: Q to straight men - 10/14/2006 7:52:30 AM   
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There's a woman I work with who is the epitome of disproportionate; egg-shaped head, huge upper torso, flat ass, scrawny legs. It does not help that she is the most annoying fucking person I've ever met.



*bursts into fits of hysterical laughter* 
 
minus the egg-shaped head, you very well may be working with SpongeBob Squarepants... 
 
 


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RE: Q to straight men - 10/14/2006 8:08:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		I honestly don't understand why people get so offended by discussions of weight. It doesn't matter what weight you are, there are going to be people who you are ideal for....and there will be people who are not attracted to you. More important than the weight itself, at least to me, is how you carry and present yourself. If you are overweight and you let it affect you in ways that you no longer care for your appearance or carry yourself in a manner that suggests you feel good about who you are....you are going to be unattractive....and if you are skinny and don't care for your appearance or carry yourself in a manner that suggests you feel good about who you are....you are going to be unattractive.

I hear women of all sizes saying that they are ugly and unattractive. I guess we all do it to some extent or another as we are our own worst critics...but that is not what I am talking about here. These women seem to feel it in ways that show. They lose the drive to present themselves in their best light and walk around unkempt. Their stride becomes something sluggish and they lack any projection of confidence or sensuality. Of course they are going to feel unattractive....and be viewed as unattractive. 

I have been at both ends of the spectrum where weight is concerned. Most of my life I had been in the neighborhood of 85 lbs. and a size 0-3. Now I'm a size 12. When I was very thin, there were man who preferred that....and there were men who didn't. Now at a 12 there are men who prefer that....and men who don't. But all the way along this spectrum I have turned heads. I don't believe that it has anything to do with what size I am....I believe it has more to do with the fact that I take the time to care what image I present, I feel good about myself and my appearance(even if none of you did nominate me for eye candy dammit....lol!!!!) and I believe that feeling comes across to the observer and that is what is attractive. Now, if I was not feeling well and crawled out of bed, through on some old sweats and went down to the local pub where I sat like a bump on a log feeling sorry for myself....guess what....I doubt I'd get so much as a second look....no matter what size I was.


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