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RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether... - 10/16/2006 3:57:59 AM   
ShiftedJewel


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Status: offline 		Ok, I guess it's my turn.
 
Yes, I have a problem with some of this nics people use. And maybe that is closed minded of me, if it is, then it's something I can live with... but here is my reasoning.
 
Dear beatmebloody..... I mean what do you say after that? I have enough trouble writing to someone who's nic is basically 'nilla and starting a convo... If someone with a "I'm only here for the kink" nic wrote to me first, and if their letter was well thought out and not a long list of fantasies... and signed with a nic that was "easier" for me to use... yeah, I wouldn't have a problem starting a dialogue with them.

As far as I'm concerned, the nic people choose represent them on the internet... I can easily explain my nic and it has nothing to do with anything even remotely sexual... now, how is the person with the nic "sloppycunt4horsecock" gonna explain her's? Are you really gonna try and convince me that they weren't thinking about kinky sex when they came up with it? lmao
 
In the same light... if I were to find that elusive unicorn... you can bet your last dollar that his nic is not going to reflect that sentiment back on me... I mean really.... How's this... Hi, I'm ShiftedJewel and this is my loving/kind/gentle/loyal/respectful/slave needledick4gangbangs... Do you see my point?

Jewel

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RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether... - 10/16/2006 4:38:22 AM   
MsSonnetMarwood


Posts: 1898
Joined: 2/10/2005
From: Eastern Shore, Maryland
Status: offline 		Regarding online names:  Something clever will catch my eye.   Something sexually explicit or rude will get ignored.  I'd just as soon they had a "normal" name and were polite in their manner.

Regarding nude pics on profiles -  surely this has been rehashed over and over again.   While there are a few odd ducks that like to see a penis picture first off, but I think we've had this conversation enough to know that most of us don't care for it.  You don't whip your dick out to greet someone new when you meet them face to face - don't do it online. 

I'd go so far as to say if someone was serious about being property/owned/finding a domme - don't run around on the internet spreading pictures of yourself and generally leaving an impression of yourself that a Domme isn't going to want to look at, feel proud and say "That one is MINE".

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RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether... - 10/16/2006 8:14:43 AM   
truesub4u


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Status: offline 		Guess sometimes it just depends on my mood. The nicer the nic... the more of an asshole i've noticed. But asshole to me is someone elses God.... go figure.....lol... But i'll talk to the nicer nic till his true colors show...

But the Huglikeastallion4u2suck.... that brings out the evil in me...and I got to dig into my smartass remarks files....LOL


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RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether... - 10/16/2006 8:15:40 AM   
HalloweenWhite


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ShiftedJewel

Just out of curiosity... does the nicname a person chooses here have anything to do with whether or not you will contact them? Or if they contact you first, does it have anything to do with whether or not you'll reply?
 
Jewel


              As long as they don't have a name which is overtly racist, sexist or homophobic, I'll talk to anyone. Sad really I know but Im pathetic so I have an excuse.

                                  HalloweenWhite.

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RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether... - 10/16/2006 11:27:55 AM   
jesskitty


Posts: 185
Joined: 9/4/2006
Status: offline 		sometimes they can show off red signs i belive. but most of the time it has no effect on wheater i respond or not. though sometimes i'lll message people because i find their screename to be cute or clever.

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RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether... - 10/16/2006 11:53:39 AM   
youngtempest


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Joined: 6/27/2006
Status: offline 		I do not respond to names with references to sizes of sex organs, or ones that show a total lack of respect for women. I also am not fond of nics that give commands. But I absolutely will not respond to guys that describe themselves as sexy or gorgeous or whatever, I just find that to be ridiculously pompous. 

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RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether... - 10/16/2006 11:59:18 AM   
lofa


Posts: 34
Joined: 3/18/2006
From: US 6&34&83 (McCook,NE)
Status: offline 		There's one thing about nics...but I forgot what it is!  
DJ

< Message edited by lofa -- 10/16/2006 12:09:51 PM >

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RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether... - 10/16/2006 12:02:52 PM   
mugwump


Posts: 119
Joined: 9/26/2005
From: uk
Status: offline 		i'm really in no position to criticise am i? 

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RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether... - 10/16/2006 12:08:18 PM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mugwump

i'm really in no position to criticise am i? 


I LOVE your name!!! It is unique and for some reason just makes me smile.


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RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether... - 10/16/2006 12:23:24 PM   
Iskander


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: mugwump

i'm really in no position to criticise am i? 


I LOVE your name!!! It is unique and for some reason just makes me smile.



I have to agree with you, I just cracked a big smile too.. It's just a shame my wumpus hunting days are over...
(vague reference to an old C64 game)
Iskander...


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RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether... - 10/16/2006 12:26:32 PM   
joyinslavery


Posts: 955
Joined: 6/21/2005
Status: offline 		A lot of dominants that see my nick auto-assume I'm female and that my name is Joy.  But no, and no.

Just wanted to clear that up.  Sorry for making this thread 'all about me'. 

And thanks for allowing me to push my CM 'odometer' past 400 miles.  I'm so damn excited. 

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RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether... - 10/16/2006 12:34:49 PM   
mugwump


Posts: 119
Joined: 9/26/2005
From: uk
Status: offline 		thanks for clearing that up for us Joy.  

and, to LaTigresse and Iskander - glad to have brightened your day    x

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RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether... - 10/16/2006 12:40:43 PM   
NYMaster101


Posts: 107
Joined: 7/11/2005
Status: offline 		Yes.

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RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether... - 10/16/2006 12:43:14 PM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: joyinslavery
I'm so damn excited. 


Okay, now THIS make me laugh outloud!!! Those words, with that dog's expression, combined.......omg, I need oxygen.


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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether... - 10/16/2006 1:16:47 PM   
UnvailedPurpose


Posts: 61
Joined: 8/24/2006
Status: offline 		ShiftedJewel:
Nicks, or screen names…let us look at the name “Jewel” does than conjure up a brilliantly glistening many faceted gem perfect stone or a highly diverse sophisticated woman submerged in multiples of skills and expertise’s? Or, on the other hand, is one’s perception of jewel as a screen name just a product of the throbbing ridged pulsating of their loin?

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RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether... - 10/16/2006 1:52:44 PM   
ShiftedJewel


Posts: 2492
Joined: 12/2/2004
Status: offline 		What an interesting way to put it... I only wish it (or I) were that interesting. Actually.. Shifted comes from the fact that most of my life I moved from place to place and state to state without benefit of having anything to do with the military (over 60 moves)... and Jewel? In the right setting... I shine.
 
Jewel

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RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether... - 10/16/2006 2:13:24 PM   
HalloweenWhite


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Yes Jewelie it does.

I particularly am fond of nics on the order of:
LesbianFemaleSlaveNoMenNoMenNoMen  kinda nics...........

It assuages my OCD to carry on a commerce with the truely redundant.

Ron




Lol, I love the sarcasm in thie place.

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RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether... - 10/16/2006 2:22:41 PM   
DeviantLady


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Joined: 9/12/2006
Status: offline 		I have to agree, someone who has put a little thought into their name will automatically interest me. I want someone who has thought it all out and wants to say something about themselves without having to have sub or slave in their nick.

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RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether... - 10/16/2006 3:15:42 PM   
Dollbecky


Posts: 197
Joined: 10/22/2005
Status: offline 		Crass nics put me off ...also nics that  use "txt  or L33T  speak  (G8LUVA4U kind of thing) also make me narrow my eyes somewhat it may not be reasonable but there you go.
I use Dollbecky on this site on yahoo, skype , in real life, with non BDSM people  I dont like having multiple identies ...I would put dollbecky on my passport if I was allowed :P

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RE: Does a persons nic have anything to do with whether... - 10/16/2006 4:38:04 PM   
twicehappy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ShiftedJewel

and Jewel? In the right setting... I shine.


She shines all the time, but i like her best with sticky fingers from something sweet, positively adorable!

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