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angelspassion4u -> RE: Doms and the shaving thing (10/15/2006 7:12:06 AM)
I am with sublizzie on this one. I am all natural. For many reasons. But if I find a master who wants me clean shaven then we will talk about it. [sm=flying.gif]

Daddysredhead -> RE: Doms and the shaving thing (10/15/2006 7:20:54 AM)
For the longest time, I shaved because I thought that my Master preferred it that way. One time, He surprised me with an unexpected visit and I told Him that I was sorry for the stubble and asked if He could wait for me to shave it for Him. He then told me that He thought that I preferred it that way, but He didn't. He actually prefers that I keep it trimmed very neatly, just not shaved. When I asked Him why, He said that He likes that I am a "true" redhead and the carpet matches the drapes so to speak. [;)] He also likes that He has something to pull down there if He's got a little sadistic streak going and wants to get my attention.

Mercnbeth -> RE: Doms and the shaving thing (10/15/2006 7:21:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sharainks I've always wondered why so many dominants seem to be hooked on the shaven pussy thing. What is it? this slave has been made aware of three different perspectives on this issue. 1. the Dom wants "nothing hidden" and shaving "exposes" the pussy. 2. the Dom prefers smoothness of skin everywhere, underarms, legs, pussy, face, etc. 3. the Dom prefers a "pre-pubescent" looking pussy, not the mature adult hair-filled version, which some folks think is just plain sick. Edited to add Merc's comment: It's a function of age. A long time ago, in a "lifestyle" far far away; shaving wasn't as much a fashion statement as it is today. Shaving was a distinguishing trait. I remember requiring shaving and feeling good when my submissive said she was stared at by other women in the gym because of her shaved pussy. It seems nowadays the unshaved woman gets the stares. Some things change, I didn't. I prefer it. I wanted my sub, and now my slave to sense my authority over her body even when I wasn't in her company, with a physical reference. I prefer the look and feel, even if the socially unique aspects have been lost. It's similar to necklaces looking like lifestyle collars and becoming more common in public. They don't raise an eyebrow anymore, and don't mean anything more than a fashion statement. However between a couple who uses a collar or shaving as an indication of their relationship dynamic, they don't mean any less.

sublizzie -> RE: Doms and the shaving thing (10/15/2006 7:24:14 AM)
I would agree with your observations. I know one Dom who prefers the natural look because he wants a "woman, not a little girl". There is also a Domme I know who prefers the natural look because it's so different these days. She likes the unique look of it. Just from the other side of the whole thing.

Devilslilsister -> RE: Doms and the shaving thing (10/15/2006 7:35:15 AM)
i am told to shave cos otherwise its thought of as dirty and after 2 years i am inclined to agree with him! IMHO

sharainks -> RE: Doms and the shaving thing (10/15/2006 7:39:43 AM)
One of the reasons I asked about this is that after 5 years of trying and getting nothing but broken out, ingrown hairs, and infections, countless "Nothing else worked for me" products, exfoliation, post shaving products, shaving techniques etc. I Tried depilatories, waxing etc. the depilatories gave me a rash, the waxes left me with hard little spots and hairs not coming in. I finally made shaving a hard limit for me. It seems since then when I'm talking with someone the shaving thing almost always comes up. The fact that I won't shave seems to be a total deal killer for some doms. Its a weeding out device for us both I guess. I can't for the life of me figure out what someone would find attractive about pustules.

LaTigresse -> RE: Doms and the shaving thing (10/15/2006 7:40:11 AM)
I am not particularly fond of bald nor am I particularly fond of the wild jungle look. Nice and neatly trimmed is a nice inbetween.

CrappyDom -> RE: Doms and the shaving thing (10/15/2006 7:41:33 AM)
Trust me, if men's cocks had hair all over them, you would want them shaved too!

Kalira -> RE: Doms and the shaving thing (10/15/2006 7:41:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sharainks I've always wondered why so many dominants seem to be hooked on the shaven pussy thing. What is it? Is it to facilitate the use of clothespins etc. on the pussy? Is it just something to have a submissive do to show that she will accomodate you? Or is it simply a look and feel that is preferred by that person? I have known a few that perfer it to NOT be shaven. That way, they can grab the hair and cause some majoooooor pain [;)]

Level -> RE: Doms and the shaving thing (10/15/2006 7:44:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sharainks One of the reasons I asked about this is that after 5 years of trying and getting nothing but broken out, ingrown hairs, and infections, countless "Nothing else worked for me" products, exfoliation, post shaving products, shaving techniques etc. I Tried depilatories, waxing etc. the depilatories gave me a rash, the waxes left me with hard little spots and hairs not coming in. I finally made shaving a hard limit for me. It seems since then when I'm talking with someone the shaving thing almost always comes up. The fact that I won't shave seems to be a total deal killer for some doms. Its a weeding out device for us both I guess. I can't for the life of me figure out what someone would find attractive about pustules. As some have said, a neatly trimmed area is a good compromise. And have you looked into laser treatments? Or, do as you now do, maintain it as a limit, there are men that won't mind.

koimizu -> RE: Doms and the shaving thing (10/15/2006 7:50:42 AM)
To say the least, i rather liked the feel of very low trimmed. Almost downy and fun to the fingers but freshly shaved, dried and oiled almost begs for play at times. taps chin That is somewhat strange considering i used to hold a dim view of men who liked it shaved as a subtle inclination of pedophilia or loli tendencies. Then i found out that a throughly aroused slit and no pubic hair to catch on first thrust equalled FUN! Not to mention clean up is wonderful. Sex, mensus or other.

Steelriven -> RE: Doms and the shaving thing (10/15/2006 8:22:10 AM)
I like to be shaved, why? Many reasons, it makes me feel clean there. Also, I discovered it makes foreplay and oral a hell of alot more fun. It really makes a big difference. Try it some time. Go all natural for a couple of weeks, and then shave it all off. As far as trimming, I'm a bigger woman ah I couldn't picture myself easily sitting by a mirror with a small scisors trying to trim my hair, while attempting to push my boobs out of the way every few seconds. Oh, and pubic hair getting pulled out to me hurts bad, and not in a good way.

Morrigel -> RE: Doms and the shaving thing (10/15/2006 8:35:38 AM)
Err...there are a number of things that can be done to a shaved mound which are not practical for a hairy or even fuzzy one. And shaving increases sensation--the hair over the skin is a shield to the nerve endings, if you leave it unshaved. A spank, a stroke, a feather touch, a drip of wax, a fur-lined glove can all be felt more keenly on bare skin--not to mention a cool breeze. Also, quite frankly, some people enjoy oral play, and don't enjoy having hairs on their sub any more than they'd enjoy having hairs in their food at a restaurant. I personally want a malesub to do regular manscaping, at least to keep it trimmed to a quarter-inch or less. That's my property, I want the lawn mowed. ;) --M

sapphirepleasure -> RE: Doms and the shaving thing (10/15/2006 8:40:35 AM)
The Master I am seeing requires me to shave thoroughly, and he shaves himself too. He says it's for hygenic reasons, since he wants to be able to use me often and have it always clean. I am also required to wear only skirts or dresses, and no panties, unless there's a special reason and I get permission to do otherwise.

LotusSong -> RE: Doms and the shaving thing (10/15/2006 8:54:01 AM)
OK.. there are other reasons that I require shaving: If I have to haul my gut up and out of the way to do it.. it tells me it's time to Diet! If I have to push his gut out of the way to FIND it....it's time to DIET!

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Doms and the shaving thing (10/15/2006 8:56:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sharainks I've always wondered why so many dominants seem to be hooked on the shaven pussy thing. What is it? Is it to facilitate the use of clothespins etc. on the pussy? Is it just something to have a submissive do to show that she will accomodate you? Or is it simply a look and feel that is preferred by that person? Many aspects of the scene go towards ultra feminizing of traditional traits- corsets to cause extreme curves and tiny waists, ultra high heels to raise the arches and increase helplessness, long luscious hair about the neck and bare below the neck.

Daddysredhead -> RE: Doms and the shaving thing (10/15/2006 9:09:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Steelriven Oh, and pubic hair getting pulled out to me hurts bad, and not in a good way. As for my Master, He never pulls it OUT, just pulls on it... kind of like hair-pulling, only further south... [;)]

Nimkii -> RE: Doms and the shaving thing (10/15/2006 9:15:29 AM)
I don't like to floss with what I'm eating. so shave it if its not shaved ya will be sent to do so.

ExSteelAgain -> RE: Doms and the shaving thing (10/15/2006 9:20:30 AM)
It’s especially a form of domination for the Dom to shave her pussy himself and to make her keep it shaved. I mean that is a little more than telling her to wear a special necklace or whatever. To me, it really doesn’t matter one way or the other…natural, neatly trimmed or shaved. Tis all the same.

LaTigresse -> RE: Doms and the shaving thing (10/15/2006 9:20:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CrappyDom Trust me, if men's cocks had hair all over them, you would want them shaved too! Aaaahem, not to point out the obvious buuuuuuuuuuttt, men's equipment doesn't hold much appeal to me hairy or not. I just cannot help myself, I prefer the penisless variety, all soft and curvey, perfumed and sweet. Surely you can understand[:D]

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