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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/15/2006 10:07:55 AM

sharainks

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Hmm so Crappy has a naturally bald package. Many men don't. I've gagged on male pubic hair more than once.

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/15/2006 10:13:20 AM

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Iam a old-school (and a ___monger) so it doesn't really matter to me. There was however back in the day of 'X' rags, little more 'stiffening' then a wet, juicy and hairy pussy which by that time goes by a different name altogether...but that's an another post. Still for a man, and particularly a 'daddy,' a sweet, shaved wet pussy...well...I'll stop there.

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/15/2006 10:17:38 AM

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I like my men trimmed, and my women shaved. I don't much care for pubic hair at all. I started shaving all the time a little over a year ago, and when I wasn't with someone, I would still have to shave it, or it didn't seem right to me.

When Master and I have talked of me being with a woman, I told him that was a bit requirment for me, that she be shaved, I just can't go down there otherwise. I know it's not just for women I feel this way though, I have had hair stuck in my teeth and throat from my fair share of men also. It's pretty yucky to choke on it, either way.

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/15/2006 10:24:21 AM

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Really... I've been "bald" for ten years and I've grown to like it! Of course, I went thru electrolyis, which is a bitch in itself. My current Master loves the condition, and that's all that matters.

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/15/2006 10:43:29 AM

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For me trimmed is one thing. I don't mind it very short. Even what used to be called "outlining clippers" where its about a day stubble in length is ok. Its only the complete attempt at removal that causes the problems I've had.

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/15/2006 11:55:24 AM

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I truly enjoy eating and the hair detracts a great deal from that pleasure not to mention that in my opinion it isn't kept as clean. The aestetics are nice too and I do the "over feminization" thing, and she craves it too.

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/15/2006 12:00:13 PM

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For me trimmed is one thing. I don't mind it very short. Even what used to be called "outlining clippers" where its about a day stubble in length is ok. Its only the complete attempt at removal that causes the problems I've had.

Well, I think every sub is different, and that your particular difficulties should be held in consideration by any intelligent dom. You are unable to shave; many subs have small areas where they are unable to serve without pain or injury, especially if they have problems with the knees, spine, etc.. They are still excellent subs and a smart dom will work around the issue, so long as he/she is forewarned.

Perhaps if you told potential doms "I am unable to shave, due to a difficulty with my skin, but I will keep the fuzz in that area as extremely short as I can to please you", they would be more understanding? I know I would be.

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/15/2006 12:20:29 PM

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What I have experienced is either men who don't care one way or the other or men who seem to be affronted that you would deny them the "smooth" shaven thing. More often its the affronted thing. Mostly they don't care about why its just that they aren't getting what they want. I will however, guarantee that if they had put up with what I have they would have made it a limit far before I did.

After awhile you just get tired of it. Its like a stuck record "and of course you will be clean shaven."

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/15/2006 12:31:15 PM

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Personally i hate shaving or waxing. It takes time and that annoys me. However my Dom does like clean shaven and so it shall be. I have also learned a valuable lesson about the time thing. To shave for Him allows me time to think of Him and to know that He will be pleased with me for having followed His wishes. Please note is said He likes clean shaven not that He has ever ordered it to be so. Is my way of telling Him in a small way that i wish to please and serve and that no detail is too small to note. OMG sounds pompus but is not meant that way!

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/15/2006 1:24:37 PM

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It is just a personal preference.. not motivated for any specific reason.. but motivated by various reasons all of which in of it self would hardly be significant. But, the volume of motivating factors provide the critical mass to make it a personal preference.

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/15/2006 1:47:08 PM

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Part of it is about control, some of it is about the touch factor, and there is the added aspect of the smooth feel of it as I penatrate. Many aspect here, to ponder. I know that for me I have compromised and aggred to ,that it be shaved , from the clit down... As to the OP's problem with maintaining, have you tryed theses new micro trimmers? its almost as smooth as if you shaved , yet no skin irritations.

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/15/2006 2:21:39 PM

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I like it bald, wether 'it' is a man or a woman. My lifestyle subs are expected to shave everything but their heads, wether they're male or female. I don't like hair, and I work my subs hard enough that they sweat, alot, sweat & hair = yuck.

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/15/2006 2:37:26 PM

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I'm not sure some people appreciate what kind of trouble it can cause particular people. Personally, I shave because my Daddy tells me to.

A little off topic...Last week I won a bet with my Daddy, and He had to shave His package. 2 days later He's wincing when making any movements near the area. As much as I hate to see Him unhappy, I was howling with glee!! At last, He understands and will give me some leniency.

little girl: So now that You understand what an irritating process that is, do I still have to keep it completely shaved? <insert batting eyes and all the manipulation I can muster>

Daddy: Sure do, but I'll make sure to wince for you. By the way, I think it's about time for you to shave...

Ack...all I ended up getting was someone else who would commiserate.

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/15/2006 6:22:05 PM

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I prefer a woman shaved or at least neatly trimmed. My ex started me shaving after she started and now I prefer myself shaved. Everything feels much better and it seems to be cleaner also ...or so it seems???

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/15/2006 8:16:37 PM

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Trust me, if men's cocks had hair all over them, you would want them shaved too!

Ahh but you understand I am sure, that with women who are unshaved a simple parting of the sea so to speak will get most hair away from the desired area..but with men if hair was all over penis then there will be no way to escape it....Tempting

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/16/2006 7:39:30 AM

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ORIGINAL: sharainks

I've always wondered why so many dominants seem to be hooked on the shaven pussy thing. What is it?

The answer to that varies somewhat from dominant to dominant, depending on their outlook and perspective. I have a female dominant friend who likes the male submissives she plays with to shave because it makes everything look cleaner and bigger. The same dominant does not like her female submissives to shave because she likes the softness of the hair. I myself like it for various reasons.

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Is it to facilitate the use of clothespins etc. on the pussy?

Yes.

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Is it just something to have a submissive do to show that she will accomodate you?

Yes. An area of control, sometimes for both parties involved.

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Or is it simply a look and feel that is preferred by that person?

Yes again. The reasons can vary from a perception of cleanliness to size to playing into a certain type of look (innocent girl/boy), etc. Several reasons fit for me personally.

As an aside...I've found that I like to experiment with the look...fully shaven vs. partially shaven with a design. But...that's me.

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/16/2006 7:44:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: sharainks

I've always wondered why so many dominants seem to be hooked on the shaven pussy thing. What is it? Is it to facilitate the use of clothespins etc. on the pussy?

Is it just something to have a submissive do to show that she will accomodate you? Or is it simply a look and feel that is preferred by that person?

I believe most Dommes/Doms. do it to remind the submissive of their submission to that Domme/Dom.;they feel their clothes rubbing them much more than if they weren't shaved and this acts as a reminder of their status.

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/16/2006 8:37:23 AM

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All different reasons, and it depends on the pussy in question. Some pussies look better shaved, and some don't. Some look better trimmed. Some look better downright hairy. If you're gonna own a pussy, you may as well go for the look that pleases you.

Also, having a slave trim, shave, or wax her pussy can have strong psychological force. That too depends on the person, but for some people, being forced to shave themselves regularly is a way of reinforcing that they are owned by someone else.

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ORIGINAL: sharainks

I've always wondered why so many dominants seem to be hooked on the shaven pussy thing. What is it? Is it to facilitate the use of clothespins etc. on the pussy?

Is it just something to have a submissive do to show that she will accomodate you? Or is it simply a look and feel that is preferred by that person?

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/16/2006 8:43:38 AM

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ORIGINAL: sharainks

I've always wondered why so many dominants seem to be hooked on the shaven pussy thing. What is it? Is it to facilitate the use of clothespins etc. on the pussy?

Is it just something to have a submissive do to show that she will accomodate you? Or is it simply a look and feel that is preferred by that person?

for me personally it is not such a big thing, I do like it better when it is shaved so that I am not eating a lot of hair, but it is not a necessity or a Dominant thing. Now my wife is very different, she loves shaved pussy and she loves to shave it. For her the interaction between her and the submissive while she is shaving her is very sensual and erotic and it is her way of showing that she is in control. I just get to enjoy the results.

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/16/2006 9:17:55 AM

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I have My girl and those who train under Me for any length of time shave it all below the clitoris, leaving the top trimmed and neat, with a weekly inspection.

Why not daily?