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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/16/2006 11:17:20 AM   
jesskitty


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Status: offline 		i'm no dom but i think it's not just restricted to doms and is more of a social thing. nowadays women that don't shave are not as attractive to most guys in our society than ones that shave i belive. i think it's also reflected in our thoughts here as most people posted they feel that if it's shaved it's somehow cleaner than it is with hair, when in my viewpoint clean refers to if you wash it or not..and has nothing to do with hair or no hair. i belive some of it can also be attributed to the way it seems our society as a whole is trying to steem away from nature and things that are 'uncivilized' and progress towards science, buildings, and a society that is focused on being overly clean in my opinion.

and of course there are always those that just plain like the way it looks.

i personally belive we were all born with what we have for a reason. if we were meant to not have hair we wouldn't be born with it. and i personally also belive were not prepubecent anymore and we shouldn't want to go back to that time in their life. but of course the main thing is to each their own. :)

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/16/2006 1:05:31 PM   
Nigousan


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Status: offline 		I shave and wouldn't mind my submissives to shave just because I find it cleaner.

When I get hairy, I hate it. I have to shave or else it's just...eh.

Guys, If it's not all up on the shaft, I'm ok with it just being trimmed...

But with girls...I get my face right in there...and I'd not like to get a rug burn on my face.

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/16/2006 2:20:44 PM   
PONYSEEKER


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Status: offline 		Definatly a requirment!!!
1.- Can actually see the pussy and inspect it for health reasons... any kind of iritation is immidiatly visible.
2.- Can see when its swollen and visibly tell better where the womans head is at without touching
3.- ORAL--ORAL--ORAL.  Its much nicer to suck on the outer lips when they are shaved!!! No hair to get caught in.
4.- Odor.  I love the smell of a good ripe pussy but the difference between that freshly wet smell and then been all day at the
     gym hadock smell is the difference in the hair... hair harbors odors for a long time!
5.-  Because its just plain fucking sexy.. nothing like looking down and seeing a nice swollen pair of lips wrapped around my cock.

Hope this helps a little :)

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/17/2006 1:45:47 AM   
patina


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I am not particularly fond of bald nor am I particularly fond of the wild jungle look. Nice and neatly trimmed is a nice inbetween. 


That is how I feel why can't we just trim it down real neat.  Then to me both sides should be happy.   

Oh well to submit is our nature and our goal.  My unhappiness will only last a few minutes, but my joy a lifetime.


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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/17/2006 6:01:37 AM   
LotusSong


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quote:

ORIGINAL: PONYSEEKER

Definatly a requirment!!!
1.- Can actually see the pussy and inspect it for health reasons... any kind of iritation is immidiatly visible.
2.- Can see when its swollen and visibly tell better where the womans head is at without touching
3.- ORAL--ORAL--ORAL.  Its much nicer to suck on the outer lips when they are shaved!!! No hair to get caught in.
4.- Odor.  I love the smell of a good ripe pussy but the difference between that freshly wet smell and then been all day at the
    gym hadock smell is the difference in the hair... hair harbors odors for a long time!
5.-  Because its just plain fucking sexy.. nothing like looking down and seeing a nice swollen pair of lips wrapped around my cock.

Hope this helps a little :)


Works for me :)

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/21/2006 7:43:23 AM   
Manawyddan


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Status: offline 		In my mind, it's a sign of submission, and I require it of any woman who is going to sub to me.

On the other hand, if a woman is not going to sub, it's irrelevant. My wife is not my sub, and she doesn't trim her public hair. If she did, I would probably think it looked weird.

One clarification to the first statement though: I 'require' it only if it's an EFFECTIVE sign of submission. I've had subs complain that shaving or waxing only leaves them feeling physically uncomfortable and not remotely submissive, and I've given them waivers.

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/21/2006 8:55:30 AM   
Hotch


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Status: offline 		Jesskitty nailed it.  This isn't some deviant activity only related to cosa nostra.  I bet 90% of the 18-35 crowd are shaven.  It's a fad... Like beards, mullets and sideburns.

To shave is nothing special for Jez.  To make herself available for my inspection any time or place shows me her devotion.  Without panties, I can slip my hand discreetly between her legs anytime.  If I'm satisfied I'll give her a small kiss of approval.  If I have to announce my displeasure with what I've found, well then...  Let’s just say she does not like her sloppiness exposed, so she's always perfect.

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/21/2006 2:12:33 PM   
DOM33416


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Status: offline 		I agree, I think shaving is something most people in general do today. I know I find it more erotic. I like jesskitten's "uncivilized" thought as to why some people do it.

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/21/2006 2:25:32 PM   
Wildfleurs


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sharainks

I've always wondered why so many dominants seem to be hooked on the shaven pussy thing.  What is it?  Is it to facilitate the use of clothespins etc. on the pussy? 

Is it just something to have a submissive do to show that she will accomodate you? Or is it simply a look and feel that is preferred by that person? 


I'd guess its a matter of personal preference.  Personally I've always preferred the shaved pussy look, I think it just looks neater and cleaner and more attractive.  So I've been shaving my pussy since I was about 16, it just always made sense to me.  I'd shave whether I was with my owner or not.  He tends to prefer it shaved since with the rings I have it just looks nice.

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/21/2006 2:38:55 PM   
Sinergy


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Hello A/all,

While I could pontificate endlessly about the sheer aesthetic beauty of wonderfully smooth naughty bits on a woman, the reality is somewhat more practical.

I am not Indiana Jones, when it is time for me to go find her temple, I dont want to have to bring a machete to cut my way through the forest.

Well, unless machete play is on the agenda for that evening.

Clear as mud?

Sinergy

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/21/2006 7:21:28 PM   
Morrigel


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Status: offline 		I'm not a submissive, but I still don't let the grass grow on the mound.  But then again, my hair in general, but especially in that particular area, tends to be rather sparse.  To me, a bush is like a beard--if you can't grow a decent one, shave it.  Either thick, luxuriant, colorful, trimmed prettily--or nothing at all.

--M

< Message edited by Morrigel -- 10/21/2006 7:22:08 PM >

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/21/2006 10:41:05 PM   
jesskitty


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DOM33416

I agree, I think shaving is something most people in general do today. I know I find it more erotic. I like jesskitten's "uncivilized" thought as to why some people do it.

i'm confused about what you were refering to when you said "i like jesskitten's "uncivilzed" thought as to why some people do it". what part of what i said were you refering to? :)

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/22/2006 5:45:08 AM   
FreemanH


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Status: offline 		I would have thought it was obvious, A slave is shaved and kept that way as a reminder of what she is and that she is to be always available to her Master, and if you couple that with not being allowed to wear panties it is the ultimate in being always available to your Sir.

FreemanH

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/22/2006 7:32:02 AM   
subartist4dom


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Status: offline 		Hmmm.  Master doesn't ask me to shave.  Actually the exact opposite, however I still do since I hate pulling hairs out when I wipe during that time of the month. 

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/22/2006 6:24:39 PM   
TxAllieGrl


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Status: offline 		shaving or wax is a must if fire play is on the agenda.

nothing kills the mood like the smell of burned hair.


i'm just saying...that's all....

~allie

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/22/2006 6:35:51 PM   
ExSteelAgain


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Status: offline 		Heh, now that is a great point.

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/23/2006 2:25:15 AM   
mons


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Status: offline 		greetings
 
now shaving itiches and waxing hurts so i have lovley soft hair i do not need to do either
 
mons ( i like someone combing there fingers through my hair)

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/23/2006 8:26:44 AM   
ExtremeOwnerIL


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sinergy
I am not Indiana Jones, when it is time for me to go find her temple, I dont want to have to bring a machete to cut my way through the forest.

Well, unless machete play is on the agenda for that evening.


And the theme music to IJ:ToD playing in the background...

Regards,
EO

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/23/2006 8:32:16 AM   
Paradoxy


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Status: offline 		I like the shaven look simply so I don't get hair up my nostrils...

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RE: Doms and the shaving thing - 10/23/2006 8:55:40 AM   
Liar


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Status: offline 		<<-------- ahem, I aint no Vanilla.

And then I am village guy, so I am more into hairy punani.

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