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online domiation - 10/17/2006 9:11:15 AM   
heva


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Status: offline 		do many masters like to do it over msn or email? or do u all prefer it in person?
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RE: online domiation - 10/17/2006 9:14:25 AM   
Arpig


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RE: online domiation - 10/17/2006 9:20:50 AM   
FIRMMENTOR


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Status: offline 		Most online experiences have been disappointing but I have had a couple of pleasurable relationships from women who are willing to demonstrate that they were serious and display her obedience.

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RE: online domiation - 10/17/2006 9:23:05 AM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		I get little out of online domination. It doesn't get the house clean or my boots done. For them, it doesn't give them much satisfaction in a job well done. However, if you like free interactive porn, go for it.

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RE: online domiation - 10/17/2006 9:28:22 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		The majority of people you meet online prefer to have cyber based relationships.

The majority of people you meet offline prefer to have offline based relationships.

There are minorities in both who prefer the other.

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RE: online domiation - 10/17/2006 9:35:28 AM   
DeviantLady


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Status: offline 		Since I am not a Master than I can only speak from a Mistresses point of view. I do prefer real life but then again some tasks can be done just as easily online and show that someone is serious. Mind you I am not after sexual favours so some simple tasks that prove someone has it within them to serve me might just turn my head.

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RE: online domiation - 10/17/2006 10:36:50 AM   
MasterRobert1


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Status: offline 		Personally, I don't understand the point of online Domination or cybering, et al. I like my D/s and BDSM to be up close, personal, and hands on.

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RE: online domiation - 10/17/2006 10:59:27 AM   
TrueCalling


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Status: offline 		Domiation? Would that be done by a 'Domiate'?

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RE: online domiation - 10/17/2006 11:07:11 AM   
DiurnalVampire


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quote:

ORIGINAL: heva

do many masters like to do it over msn or email? or do u all prefer it in person?

It always depends on what type of service is beng offered or expected.  When I have my boy doing little tasks that are easily proven to have been done online, then online will work just fine.  If I want something more useful to me in real life, online is going to fall short. 
The major problem with online domination, if it is going to be JUST online, is keeping it interesting enough to stick with for something more thana  very short term. It works well for a lead-up, and when working with a long distance relationship, but it lacks the permanency.  Without realtime meetings somewhre along the line, not only is trust harder to maintain, but keeping things fresh and interesting becomes chalenging.  If you enjoy it, maybe its worth the chalenge. 

My 2 cents.
DV

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RE: online domiation - 10/17/2006 11:20:31 AM   
makwa


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Status: offline 		i live with the One that has my life and to be honest i have never had an online relationship.  personally i would think it would be hard to be online and not seeing eachother. 

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RE: online domiation - 10/17/2006 11:26:55 AM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Arpig

Well, the last time I checked, a blowjob just wasn't the same via email or MSN....


It may not be the same, but you may just be lacking the proper hardware and software
http://www.highjoy.com/



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RE: online domiation - 10/17/2006 11:29:36 AM   
MistressCamille


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Status: offline 		I don't care for online play. It's just that - play. I'm one that will use the internet just to arrange a face to face meeting and that is about it.

I don't do longterm chatting or emailing. It's a waste of time.



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RE: online domiation - 10/17/2006 12:59:38 PM   
Mavis


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Status: offline 		Arpig, i have a new t-shirt in stock..  but Your post made me think it might be good for x-mas list... <grins>
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RE: online domiation - 10/17/2006 1:04:48 PM   
Arpig


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RE: online domiation - 10/17/2006 1:05:54 PM   
Arpig


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RE: online domiation - 10/17/2006 1:07:29 PM   
LadyHugs


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Status: offline 		Dear heva, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
I prefer in person, as service is better directly person to person.
 
In E-mail or chat, its just words.  Anybody can write a fictional story of submission and domination.  It is much different doing it--you have no room to cheat at it.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs

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RE: online domiation - 10/17/2006 2:55:24 PM   
akisha


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Status: offline 		You know you're really into the cyber session when you can talk on the phone to your mom, while reading e-mail and cybering at the same time.

Oh the feelings and the joy of  the control *yawns*

Cybering can be fun if you want to go in just for the same reason as reading or watching porn i guess. To get the mental stimulation, added in with a lil one handed typing.

Online can work for instructions when you and your partner are not always together, but with out the face to face atleast semi consistancy I just can't see the point.

I know myself and i'd get bored with online only, and being celibate for years because i'm "owned" online just would not work for me. I perfer the personal touch *g*

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RE: online domiation - 10/17/2006 3:03:23 PM   
SlaveAkasha


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Status: offline 		I agree that it's pretty much as fun as watching porn, or a mag, it fits the purpose for which you want it.  I think those that spend years online, as subs or Doms don't really want to step into real life at all.  Maybe it works to fill some type of void for them, I don't know..but to each their own.
 
Akasha

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RE: online domiation - 10/17/2006 7:36:05 PM   
Sinergy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Arpig

Well, the last time I checked, a blowjob just wasn't the same via email or MSN....


Do a google search for the MsBlowMe plug-in for internet explorer.

Make sure you have the lastest flash installed on your computer before
you install it.

Sinergy

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RE: online domiation - 10/17/2006 7:56:40 PM   
aleshaDreams


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Status: offline 		LOL I just went and check that highjoy link, read the fine print and the highjoy vibes well in order for them to work besides the batteries, usb etc, is also required a highjoy membership.  omg what next lol

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