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finding the one - 10/20/2006 10:40:27 PM

dirtycherri

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any suggestions on how or where i can find a true master? more often than not i seem to be begging for even minor role play. is there anyone capable of actually owning me or is it all talk

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RE: finding the one - 10/20/2006 10:42:18 PM

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good question...i'd be interested in hearing the answer myself...hmmmmmm, i wonder...

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RE: finding the one - 10/20/2006 10:45:47 PM

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quote:

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any suggestions on how or where i can find a true master? more often than not i seem to be begging for even minor role play. is there anyone capable of actually owning me or is it all talk

Welcome to the boards and collarme....sometimes it takes longer than 2 days to find someone, but I met my collared girl here, and she is real and 24/7 and lives in my household with my hubby and I, so it is possible. It took a lot longer than 2 days to find her though.

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RE: finding the one - 10/20/2006 10:49:30 PM

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Took me ages to find Angel. 4 months til we met after we started taking, another 3 after that until he was collared and it will be yet another few until we live together. There is no fast fix for finding a true master. There has to be chemistry and a lead up, so give it time. If you do rush into something, unfortunately, itl eitehr be just a playdate, or a major disappointment later.

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RE: finding the one - 10/20/2006 10:55:43 PM

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I sometimes feel the same way and ask that exact question. To answer your question however. I do belive that YES they are out there, those wonderful Masters and not to forget Mistresses. Most likely experiencing the same problem and wondering where that wonderful sub is.

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RE: finding the one - 10/20/2006 11:08:00 PM

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Would you expect to find a husband or wife in 2 days? No? Is a collared relationship that's "real" that much less important to you?

Patience, grrrasshoppa.

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RE: finding the one - 10/20/2006 11:20:21 PM

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Is it the change in seasons everyone is looking for an instant partner? How many posts have there been of late by people whinning they cant find someone and they have been on cm for less than a week with single digit posts?

If you are needing an instant (insert noun) there are pro everything. Grab a local paper and look in the personal section for the right $$$ you will find whatever it is you are seeking

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RE: finding the one - 10/20/2006 11:30:52 PM

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I wasn't looking for my late Master but found him by accident in a msn chat room one evening..we spent a wonderful year together r/l before he suddenly passed away...It has only been four months and I have already found a wonderful Daddy Dom on this site who was willing to give me a chance...Life does go on....and it is possible to find the "one"..my advice would be to talk to alot of people, chat...let him find you....good luck

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RE: finding the one - 10/20/2006 11:33:22 PM

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I don't know about Masters but I still think there's a lot to be said for just buying a slave at auction. You know, check their teeth, measure their body fat, see if they can understand a simple command like "beg boy", pay the money, put 'em in their cage & take 'em home. Life has gotten SO darn complicated!

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RE: finding the one - 10/20/2006 11:36:38 PM

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quote:

Would you expect to find a husband or wife in 2 days?

there's always mail-order

wait, i forgot...it's 4-6 weeks for delivery...sorry...LOL

of course, one could always have them overnighted via FedEx or UPS...the downside is..."Some assembly required"

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RE: finding the one - 10/20/2006 11:48:37 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: dirtycherri

any suggestions on how or where i can find a true master? more often than not i seem to be begging for even minor role play. is there anyone capable of actually owning me or is it all talk

Try hitting up your local BDSM groups and orgs. Network, attend BDSM venues, be yourself, volunteer at parties to do clean up etc. Be seen, get to know people and relax and have some fun in the meantime.

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RE: finding the one - 10/20/2006 11:54:34 PM

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wait check my profile and tell me if I can help you find One True Master, Maybe if it workz it could be me and you baby:}
I would love to see a photo of oyu drop me a line and maybe soem time I can meet you up ther on the path straight and HI

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RE: finding the one - 10/20/2006 11:57:33 PM

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I am always leary of anything that happens too quickly....all good things come (cum) with time

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RE: finding the one - 10/21/2006 12:01:17 AM

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I am always leary of anything that happens too quickly....all good things come (cum) with time

if that statement holds true, then my Mistress (to-be) must be one hell of a Mistress...

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RE: finding the one - 10/21/2006 12:05:39 AM

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I hope when you find her Michael, she is everything you want her to be..good luck

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RE: finding the one - 10/21/2006 12:07:38 AM

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the problem is, i've never been very good at hide-and-seek...wonder where She's hiding....hmmmmm

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RE: finding the one - 10/21/2006 12:10:04 AM

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I have no idea where she is hiding but I remember trying to dominate a man once and I kept saying "I'm sorry" I guess some of us just don't have it in us lol....

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RE: finding the one - 10/21/2006 12:26:32 AM

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Patience and making friends is an excellent way to find a Master. I am not collared as of yet but have been with my Dom since the first week i joined collarme. I also have met many other wonderful Doms on here. We plan to collar sometimes this Spring. He has considerably more experience than i do and wants to give me time to run if i feel the need lol. Don't think it is necessary but am glad to have the time to continue to get to know Him better. We consider this step as serious as getting married so will take our time and make sure we know each other well before the collaring ceremony. Now if you are interested in a velcrow collar just jump in with whoever messenges you. Otherwise learn the patience which will most likely be appreciated by that elusive Master/Mistress.

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RE: finding the one - 10/21/2006 1:03:06 AM

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People use this place to find partners?

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RE: finding the one - 10/21/2006 2:28:01 AM

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