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Unruly slave, - 10/21/2006 6:04:53 AM   
madamrose1


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Status: offline 		Dear fellow Mistresess, I have yet another problem with My 24/7 ltr subby, he is permiscuious and likes to play with himself to get My attention, knowing I do not allow this, he is hudini and can pick any lock and get out of chasity devices. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated................I want him locked down until Im ready for him to play with me.... 
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RE: Unruly slave, - 10/21/2006 6:09:57 AM   
Windygal


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Status: offline 		maybe you need to find some type of punishment he really hates in order to get him to obey.

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RE: Unruly slave, - 10/21/2006 6:16:33 AM   
semasssub


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Status: offline 		Superglue the padlock area where the key goes. You can always cut it off if needed, he can buy a new one for you!

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RE: Unruly slave, - 10/21/2006 6:17:37 AM   
WetHotGoddess


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Status: offline 		Let him play with himself all he wants.  Get another dick for yourself.  Tell him he can keep his.

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RE: Unruly slave, - 10/21/2006 7:09:41 AM   
LadyHugs


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Status: offline 		Dear madamrose1, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
I don't use any devices on men's anatomy.  When I consider slaves, I tell them up front that trust is earned slowly and easily is gone, once trust is broken.
 
The chap in my mind's eye likes to be a irritant.  Anything negative to cause you to react or 'knee jerk' reaction.  It is a manipulation to which his behavior causes you to react.  Knowing full well it is something you find displeasing; doing it as a means of defiance; well--it is manipulation and controlling you from the bottom.
 
I would hope that you will review the total experience with him in your mind's eye; seeing this isn't anything submissive but; more like a mind game/mind chess with you.  The challenge is escape and to get away with anything you dislike.
 
With all the sweet slaves and submissives out there; he is someone who won't be missed, especially when you have had the 'taste' of what slaves are, from their heart, mind, spirit and physically 'there.'
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs

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RE: Unruly slave, - 10/21/2006 7:13:53 AM   
thetammyjo


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quote:

ORIGINAL: madamrose1

Dear fellow Mistresess, I have yet another problem with My 24/7 ltr subby, he is permiscuious and likes to play with himself to get My attention, knowing I do not allow this, he is hudini and can pick any lock and get out of chasity devices. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated................I want him locked down until Im ready for him to play with me....


If this is the same guy you talked about before, I have to say that I see nothing in him to be attracted to nor do I see any value in trying to tame him unless you really like that challenge.

If you like that type of challenge you might want to look into expensive bondage equipment that doesn't involve locks or cheap bondage equipment that doesn't involve locks.

I must say that I can't understand the attraction to these types of people though. Life is full of everyday challenges and every relationship has challenges, why purposely pair with someone who constantly adds to that stress?

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RE: Unruly slave, - 10/21/2006 7:20:03 AM   
jthorne


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Status: offline 		I would do the same thing I find myself doing when my cat wants my attention and I am busy, or a child has a tantrum in my general area. That is, I ignore them.

I would ignore this misbehaving sub and tell him to get the hell out of my house until he can behave, that he does not respect me, and that I do not want a sub who has no respect for me. And then I would escort him out.

I would NOT put up with that.

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RE: Unruly slave, - 10/21/2006 8:05:03 AM   
MsKatHouston


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Status: offline 		OK it seems you are in this for the long haul and want to keep him.  Personally, he'd have hit the road a long time ago but if you like the challenge, more power to you.  How about a piercing that can be locked down?  How about removing the use of his hands immediately when he purposely escapes some chastity device?  Then sit him in a corner, go about your business and ignore him for a long long time.

He is being disrespectful, he is purposesly disobeying and he is doing this all to get your attention.  Make him learn that doing that is going to get him just the opposite:  long bouts of your inattention.



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RE: Unruly slave, - 10/21/2006 8:14:46 AM   
orfunboi


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Status: offline 		Tell him if he does it again, you will release him and he can go somewhere else and wank to his hearts content.


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RE: Unruly slave, - 10/21/2006 8:29:30 AM   
GoddessDustyGold


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Status: offline 		I'm wondering how long you have been in this relationship, since it seems important enough to you to put up with this. Your profile states you have found your cuck.  Is this the cuck boy?  If, so, it is doubly puzzling, since most Ladies do not even play with a cuck in the first place. A cuck would be there for humiliation and to prepare you for your trysts with other, more worthy, men.
I would have shown him the door before now.  Unless you enjoy a power struggle, what are you getting out of this relationship other than a headache?  He doesn't sound very submissive to Me. 

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RE: Unruly slave, - 10/21/2006 11:09:10 AM   
MisPandora


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quote:

ORIGINAL: madamrose1

Dear fellow Mistresess, I have yet another problem with My 24/7 ltr subby, he is permiscuious and likes to play with himself to get My attention, knowing I do not allow this, he is hudini and can pick any lock and get out of chasity devices. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated................I want him locked down until Im ready for him to play with me.... 

I'm sorry, but this is going to get old if you keep coming here and asking how to handle your day to day life with this guy.  It sounds like he's a disrespectful ass, and I'm sorry to say, that you're giving me the impression that you're not too versed on slave management to have anyone in a 24/7! 

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RE: Unruly slave, - 10/21/2006 11:25:19 AM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		I would recommend a light beating of his favourite sort, then some good aftercare after his punishment, and to change nothing longterm.

Or have you already tried that?

Yours,


benji

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RE: Unruly slave, - 10/21/2006 12:26:01 PM   
Mikal


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Status: offline 		Well I don't own any male subs, but a friend does. She had that problem with one fellow (who btw, didn't stay very long)... She put him on one of those sex-toy swings, bound his fingers & toes together (I think She used long leather shoe strings to wrap each finger to the other... basically mummifying his hand and severly restricting his ability to even bend his fingers... seperating them was impossible (he really really hated not being able to move his hands/fingers... almost phobic)). She then proceded to torture his nether regions (figging, VicsVaporub, etc.), and flog him. For hours. That was the last time he touched himself inappropriately. What I'm saying, is perhaps you have to be a bit (or a lot! lol) more extreme in your punishments... and there is more than one way to enforce chastity (ie: tie him in place (use leather pouches over his hands so he CAN'T use them) and ignore him.). Rember, where there's a Will, there's a Way. And it's supposed to be YOUR WILL. So, find a way!

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RE: Unruly slave, - 10/21/2006 12:28:48 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		Well, I can see you're in the T.O. area.  Need one?

I know, I know, you're a lesbian.  I say you just haven't met the right man.

*Runs away zigzagging to make himself a harder target*

Yours,


benji

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RE: Unruly slave, - 10/21/2006 12:41:16 PM   
Mikal


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Status: offline 		"*Runs away zigzagging to make himself a harder target* "
 
Run as fast & zigzagg all you like... I have a bulldog who doesn't know how to stop until her teeth are firmly planted in buttock flesh.... *wicked grin*

As for "finding the right man".... perhaps you just need to be made into the right woman... have you a castration fantasy???

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RE: Unruly slave, - 10/21/2006 12:50:44 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		Lots of them....  Unfortunately, few involve anyone but my boss.

Yours,


benji

Edited because the thought of being Mikal's "right woman" had me so excited, I couldn't make sense anymore.

< Message edited by gooddogbenji -- 10/21/2006 12:54:49 PM >

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RE: Unruly slave, - 10/21/2006 3:16:50 PM   
draba


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Status: offline 		Have him masterbate all he wants and tell him to put it in a cup in the frezzer and add to it everytime he plays with himself. After a few days have him masterbate for you and save it. Wait a half hour or hour and have him jerk himself again. When finished have him do it again. Make sure there is no lubricant. By now he should start to be getting raw and harder to cum. Now the fun part. give him a brand new scrubby sponge and wrap the rough side on his shaft and order him to jerk off again until he cums. If he is not raw enough for you, do it again. Then make him drink his now thawed cum from his cup. Then lock him up and have him serve you all night long. If he is not cured, dump him.

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RE: Unruly slave, - 10/21/2006 7:00:13 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		Yanno what? 

I would imagine that could be a reward, or at least just a fun game, with the right woman. 

Yours,


benji

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RE: Unruly slave, - 10/21/2006 7:02:48 PM   
UtopianRanger


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quote:

ORIGINAL: madamrose1

Dear fellow Mistresess, I have yet another problem with My 24/7 ltr subby, he is permiscuious and likes to play with himself to get My attention, knowing I do not allow this, he is hudini and can pick any lock and get out of chasity devices. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated................I want him locked down until Im ready for him to play with me.... 


Good Lady....

I think you ought to give some serious thought about making some arrangements to send this chap to spend a week with collarme's one and only Moderator Eleven. She's tough as hell and she'd verbalize the boy back into submission.



 - R


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RE: Unruly slave, - 10/21/2006 7:14:09 PM   
alex311


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Status: offline 		Just cut him loose.  Why waste more of Your time if he doesn't respect You enough to obey?

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