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toservez -> RE: Small frame makes me vain? (10/26/2006 1:54:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth it is this slave's position that personal preferences are fine, but crossing the line to negative assumption based on stereotyping shows a lack of respect for others and their differences, which, not suprisingly, is also the OP's chief complaint...pot, kettle, black indeed. That sums it up better then I could ever write it. When a person makes assumptions based on stereotyping leading to judgements. My views and opinions have more validity and are simply better because I am smarter and wiser then you type crap. It is the do as I say but not as I do hypocrisy!

touchtaboo -> RE: Small frame makes me vain? (10/26/2006 1:54:39 PM)
you may be beautiful on the outside.... But your words are certainly showing a lack of beauty on the inside.. taboo

imtempting -> RE: Small frame makes me vain? (10/26/2006 7:02:09 PM)
Hmm everyone is saying im beautiful but how many have seen my pic? So we have everyone attacking me about being vain yet noone has seen what I look like... I have a nic that implies im beautiful yet am I in real life? Am I fet? Am I skinny? or am I obese? Or was I one of three? Everyone jumped on the bandwagon because I disagreed and said obese people digust me. If weight is not an issue why does most ladies worry about weight? and What they eat? So Who are the real horrible people here? The people not admitting their vain? or the people actaullu admitting it? Everyone is vain. There are people out there you would not see as their either too skinny or too big and you simply dont like them. In ther opinions of the people in this thread that makes you vain as there is nothing wrong with those people according to you.. @blktallfulfig. nanananana You are a real big hypocrite. You say not to post offensive things but what if myself was on anti-depressions? Which I did actually come very close to taking. . Hers is a quote since ive been seeing them all day. To they own self be true

AquaticSub -> RE: Small frame makes me vain? (10/26/2006 7:08:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jewel85 Let me make note that while, yes, i am an exhibitionist of sorts (just discovering this side of me), so yes, i do seek the attention it brings, i don't tell people that i find them disgusting or repulsive. i keep my feelings to myself, so as not to offend. In fact, this post is the first time i've ever made written or verbal acknowledgment of my feelings about being overweight. Perhaps i do rate myself a little higher in my head than people who are very overweight. To me, it's a matter of health. i am very proud of being healthy, and find it repulsive that people can let themselves get so unhealthy. i personally feel i don't flaunt my body any more than others do, including large people. i don't like seeing fat naked bodies, but i look the other way. i think my big problem is that while i look the other way and just avoid what i don't like, they insult me, calling me vain and telling me to stop flaunting my body. i don't tell them what they should do, so why should they tell me? What is the problem people have that they can't just look the other way and let people enjoy who they are? i agree, DiurnalVampire, that they can have their opinions of me, but do they have to fling them in my face? They aren't friends; they are people at the club. i was verbally and emotionally all through childhood, and to a lesser extent even now (my mother), and their insults hurt me a lot more than they probably realize because of my past. i probably shouldn't care, but it hurts a lot. Thanks for your responses all. i really am trying to understand this, both their reasons and my feelings. Do you realize that some people are overweight due to disabilities, severe asthema and other health conditions that don't allow them to work off their weight? Personally I find skinny girls disgusting, especially when they are full of themselves and lots of notions about how "unhealthy" other people are. You are sugar-coating the fact that you don't find them attractive. Get over it. Chances are, if more then two or three people are telling you to stop flaunting you are probably don't something that is actually annoying. Knock it off. Oh, and the reason I don't personally find skinny girls attractive? No bloody boobs or butt. If you ain't got anything to grope, then get the hell away from me.

AquaticSub -> RE: Small frame makes me vain? (10/26/2006 7:11:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: givemyall quote: ORIGINAL: Jewel85 But i have been told to stop being so vain and flaunting my body by some people, all of them overweight. Is this just their insecurity about their weight, or is there something wrong with me being proud of my small frame? You be as proud as you want, but I would suggest that you drop the attitude before someone smacks you in your bratty mouth, as you might find that offends you. Giggles You just made my day

imtempting -> RE: Small frame makes me vain? (10/26/2006 7:13:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Oh, and the reason I don't personally find skinny girls attractive? No bloody boobs or butt. If you ain't got anything to grope, then get the hell away from me. Thats a vain comment. Blktallfulfig and the others I hope your going to flame aquaticsub as she is saying bad things about skinny people. Some skinny people have problems about putting on weight. Some ladies try very hard to put on weight. Its just a big a problem for them as the people who cant lose weight due to illness.

AquaticSub -> RE: Small frame makes me vain? (10/26/2006 7:16:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CrappyDom I enjoy looking at a thin attractive women with perfect hair and makeup but you will never catch me waking up with one because they are no fucking fun and no fun to fuck. laughs My dominant jokes that he dates me because one of us has to have padding or else our hips would bruise during sex.

stef -> RE: Small frame makes me vain? (10/26/2006 7:18:58 PM)
He wasn't saying skinny girls were disgusting, he was simply stating a personal preference. Even the mentally infirm should be able to see the difference between the two. ~stef

imtempting -> RE: Small frame makes me vain? (10/26/2006 7:19:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: CrappyDom I enjoy looking at a thin attractive women with perfect hair and makeup but you will never catch me waking up with one because they are no fucking fun and no fun to fuck. laughs My dominant jokes that he dates me because one of us has to have padding or else our hips would bruise during sex. Another offensive post to skinny people saying they get injuries easy.

dcnovice -> RE: Small frame makes me vain? (10/26/2006 7:19:52 PM)
As a compulsive eater who's struggled with weight all his life (and who would not be attracted to himself), I read this thread with great interest. I think the only way to understand someone else's compulsion (to smoke, drink, overspend, sleep around, what have you) is to look as honestly as one can at one's own foibles and realize that other people have the same compulsion/addiction in a different area. That may help one replace disgust with compassion. As we ponder whom we consider "disgusting," it's probably worthwhile to bear in mind that much (most?) of the world would apply that very same adjective to the unorthodox sexual tastes that brought us all here to collarme.

imtempting -> RE: Small frame makes me vain? (10/26/2006 7:20:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stef He wasn't saying skinny girls were disgusting, he was simply stating a personal preference. Even the mentally infirm should be able to see the difference between the two. ~stef Well its my personnal preference that obese people disgust me. According to you that is ok now. So I want apologies from everyone in this thead.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Small frame makes me vain? (10/26/2006 7:23:30 PM)
If I may, there are reasons for everyone to have physical imperfections. I am far from perfect, nor would I care to be. My boy cannot gain weight, he has a genetic condition that makes it impossible, and he has had issues with it his entire life. It has been held against him, and family, friends and others have given him grief about needing to put on some weight before he can look good enough to attract someone. I think he is beautiful, because I have never focused on the outside as much as the inside. There are people everywhere who are proud as hell of how they look. YOU (and this is an undirected you, just a person in general, not aimed at whomever my post is tacked as in reply to) may not find them attractive. There is someone somewhere that does. Physical beauty is temporary. Everyone gets older, and when you do, that goes. If you look good now, enjoy it. If there are people that dont like it, then avoid them. If the give you problems, then just stay away from them. Just remember, whe your attitude and personality make you unpleasant to be around, then people will not want to b with you. As we get older, that attitude is harder to change, as are the memories of those we spent our time with being unpleasant and unapproachable. Once your looks are gone, having friends and a good personality to fall back on is key. My opinion, of course DV

AquaticSub -> RE: Small frame makes me vain? (10/26/2006 7:26:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jewel85 Finally, i think i worded my opinion wrong. i think it's not the overweight factor that is bothering me about people, but the uncaring obesity. When someone is obviously stuffing themselves at every meal, not exercising/watching tv all day long, and not caring that they look like terrible, it disgusts me. Thinking more closely on it, i realize that my opinions came off as 'If you're overweight, i can't stand you.' i'm sorry it came off as this. i know and am friends with people who are overweight. Some of them, they are that way because of a medical condition, as you kindly pointed out, juliaoceania and beautyImurDaddy. Diabetes, Cushing's Disease, and other conditions are very sad, i think, and i understand the way it can take away from your ability to lose weight or keep it from sneaking up on them. But people who have medical problems, it's obvious that despite their size, they take care of themselves (except for this one person i met who decided that because she couldn't control her weight, she'd let herself go and didn't care about how she looked anymore). They watch their weight best they can, exercise as much as able, and i can definitely tell they care for themselves by their clean, up-kept appearance. am i still turned off by their weight? Yes, but not to the point that i wouldn't socialize with them, and not to the point that i wouldn't be friends with them (this, i think, would go for anyone who is overweight but obviously takes care of themselves).. i don't take it out them, certainly, and i -never- express disgust or offend them about it (Lashra, i think the person who had the AUDACITY to come up to you and ask you 'how could you let yourself get so big?'...it shocked me that anyone could do that. It really did, because that's just horribly, horribly rude, and as you told them, tactless. you go, girl, for standing up to their total lack of couth. i am not one of those people; i would NEVER approach someone and point out their size. i wouldn't assume that it was because they are sloppy in their eating or exercise habits, nor would i want to offend them by pointing out something that they may very well be extremely sensitive about). So basically, by your own words, unless you have interviewed them about their medical history and daily routine, you don't have a place to judge them. So why were you judging?

imtempting -> RE: Small frame makes me vain? (10/26/2006 7:30:30 PM)
Btw I have severe Asthma and its just an excuse not to exercise. Swimming is a very good exercise that is actually recommanded for asthmatics as its safer. Even severe asthmatics. So please don't use Asthama as an excuse..

SweetEscravo -> RE: Small frame makes me vain? (10/26/2006 7:32:22 PM)
Those who love their bodies- no matter what they look like- are the smart ones. More people need to learn that there are a variety of body shapes and sizes out there, and that there is really nothing wrong with any of them. You're thin and you feel good? Great! She's heavy and feels good? Also great! It seems like there are too many threads these days about weight and women's bodies. Stop comparing and just enjoy.

SirDiscipliner69 -> RE: Small frame makes me vain? (10/26/2006 7:35:13 PM)
Is there an ideal weight chart you are using for reference? Ross

AquaticSub -> RE: Small frame makes me vain? (10/26/2006 7:36:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: imtempting quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Oh, and the reason I don't personally find skinny girls attractive? No bloody boobs or butt. If you ain't got anything to grope, then get the hell away from me. Thats a vain comment. Blktallfulfig and the others I hope your going to flame aquaticsub as she is saying bad things about skinny people. Some skinny people have problems about putting on weight. Some ladies try very hard to put on weight. Its just a big a problem for them as the people who cant lose weight due to illness. No, dear it wasn't vain. Vainity refers to yourself. It was shallow comment. And yes it was. And it was in response to an obscenely shallow comment and it's purpose was to show her that just as she is disgusted with overweight people, some people just not attracted to her body type. Do I tell people that? Do I even think it when looking at them? No. But if they try to hit on me do they get "oh god how do I tell them I'm completely and utterly turned off by them" response in my brain? Yes. A thousand times yes.

stef -> RE: Small frame makes me vain? (10/26/2006 7:37:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: imtempting quote: ORIGINAL: stef He wasn't saying skinny girls were disgusting, he was simply stating a personal preference. Even the mentally infirm should be able to see the difference between the two. Well its my personnal preference that obese people disgust me. According to you that is ok now. Wow. I stand corrected. quote: So I want apologies from everyone in this thead. Get used to disappointment. ~stef

AquaticSub -> RE: Small frame makes me vain? (10/26/2006 7:40:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: imtempting Btw I have severe Asthma and its just an excuse not to exercise. Swimming is a very good exercise that is actually recommanded for asthmatics as its safer. Even severe asthmatics. So please don't use Asthama as an excuse.. Asthama isn't an excuse and not everyone has access to a swimming pool, especially in the winter. So there goes your "just swim and it will go away and then you can be pretty" reasoning. Also, some people are allergic to the water. I am allergic to the cold and get severe welting, itching and can not close my hands or breath properly. Because of this I simply can not swim most of the time as most places don't heat their pool enoughs that I can swim, even in the summer. For some reason the contrast of heat and cold makes everything worse.

SirDiscipliner69 -> RE: Small frame makes me vain? (10/26/2006 7:45:46 PM)
That is why corsets were invented ;) Ross

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