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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 10:18:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Emperor I move we convict them all (Master, sub, dogs, visitor) of incurable idiocy, and adjourn for a beer.


lol, beer sounds good!...but what are we convicting the poor imaginary doggies of?

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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 10:34:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Emperor I move we convict them all (Master, sub, dogs, visitor) of incurable idiocy, and adjourn for a beer.



crouchingtigress:  lol, beer sounds good!...but what are we convicting the poor imaginary doggies of?



You are correct.  I was too harsh.  Your appeal of the doggies is granted!

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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 10:46:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		If your master wants you to apologize and you are indeed his slave, then you apologize as nicely and sweetly as you possibly can. Otherwise your claim to being a slave is somewhat suspect, don't you think?

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RE: Territorial? - 10/26/2006 11:08:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would say your being territorial in fear of being replaced.
Its human/animal instinct to protect what we have,any sort of threat will raise hairs
so to speak and being the Alpha submissive it would be a natural reaction.

Make sure you keep the communication going..I honestly believe thats the key to working anything out.


Just so you dont feel too bad...I am very territorial,its animal instict to protect whats Mine and I do it like a Mother Bear biting and clawing.

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RE: Territorial? - 10/27/2006 12:58:48 AM   
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ORIGINAL: subartist4dom

2.  There is a unmentionables around.  This presents a problem since I'll guard them.  I doubt any slave or person would feel very comfortable with someone watching them like they are dinner. 

*I assume this is a child*

4.  Having Dakota and Coffee (wolf-dogs) around creates a very uncomfortable enviroment to alot of people.  Even master's parents will eye them wearily since they are rather large.  I'm sure the slave that was here feared them since they followed her every movement. 

*are you INSANE wolf -dogs (dog bred with 100% wolf) will eat children w/o thinking. If you think you have those dogs under your control you are waiting for the 5 seconds when they are not... ADULTS with proper training do not ever turn their back on a wolf dog, amongst other things.*



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RE: Territorial? - 10/27/2006 3:15:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		 Well I had some fun today.  I went looking for this couple since they supposedly live in the area.  I did this when I couldn't find the OP's profile and the other one was stating it had been somehow deleted.  Figured if I was going to waste my time, I'd do it trying to find some truth to these posts.  Especially the very last one.  I talked to one of the two on yahoo and got an addy and well when I got there I found the place to be a fourplex.  Went up and knocked on the door.  The person that answered was a guy and then a girl showed up.  When I told them who I was I was invited in.  There is no living room at all and barely any resemblance of a kitchen.  Also there was no dogs anywhere.  Pets aren't allowed.  As I talked there was no place to even sit.  No couch to be seen.  In the back was a tiny room with a TV.  I assumed this to be the bedroom since I could see no other place for a bed to be at.  Both apologized for not having anything to drink.  Both were very nice to me the time I was there.  When I asked about other slaves or subs neither said they knew any.  They did escort me back to the door and even wished me a good day.  From what I could see there was no basis for the post to start with.  In fact I could see no truth the whole bad experience with a guest slave.  I pondered what a slave would do in such a small place.  As I came back to this post I couldn't help but think that this whole incident never happened.  So if anyone doubts what I have said I will gladly give you the addy.  This way you can go over and look for yourself. 

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RE: Territorial? - 10/27/2006 5:45:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: subartist4dom

I'd be mad except if I only knew who got into my account.  Anyways I came to check collarme out and lo and behold.  I was signed out.  So I signed in, came to see about the art and bdsm post and seen this.  Thought WTF.  Read it.  So I am only going to say this.  Believe what you will.  But I want to clear all this up.  I do not own dogs what so ever.  For god's sake where would they sleep?  The ceiling?  My master, who will be informed of his name also being used, has never posted anything in discussions.  My master and I share a small apartment.  We don't entertain guests for there would be no place for them to sit.  Hell we pretty much trip over each other here.  He dosen't know any slaves in the area except for me.  In fact he don't talk to other slaves even on collarme.  All he does is just see who's new and goes on to check Myspace.  And hey I'm an artist.  Yes I WAS in the military.  Army to be exact.  I also don't own any vehicle.  I either take the bus or walk.  My master and I have thought of threesomes briefly but found that it would not work.  Also with an unmentionable a poly wouldn't work.  I don't want to have to explain to my unmentionable BDSM nor do I want to explain to other parents about the lifestyle.  Hell its hard enough to explain to the cops half the time with my ex's shit.  Again I wish to stress that my master and I are happy and do not wish to ever discuss our personal lives.  Also we would never drop such a problem onto the community.  It is the most disrespectful and waste of time.  Nor would I ever dream of doing such a thing to any guest.  I may hate my mom, but I don't treat her like shit.  I just grin and make the best of it.  Even if that means having to hear her complain about making windows.  I also DO NOT HATE females.  I have met many that were pretty nice and cool.   Some I am still friends with. 

Again I apologize to everyone here for the waste of time and anything else this post has caused.  This was not of my doing.  So I am off to recreate my profile since it was also deleted and to take care of my unmentionable.  I bid you all a good day.

Subartist


If somebody's hacked your account, then just recreating the profile won't work. Take the computer into the shop and explain, you could just say it was an ezboard site or some other innocuous place. Because if there's a keylogger program installed that sends what you do to the hacker, then they'll have your new password in minutes.

If the tech finds something, he should keep records and you should contact the cops because it's illegal and the hacker ought to get in trouble. If it isn't, then I suggest changing your password, not giving it to anyone, nor writing it down. Nothing easily guessed either.

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RE: Territorial? - 10/27/2006 5:48:41 AM   
MistressTheaZ


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Status: offline 		Kix,

Why is it that your profile comes up not found?

Regarding a personal visit to someone's home in order to discern the truth of their probable messageboard posts? I hope you're kidding.

Perhaps I'd need a course on manners but you certainly wouldn't be invited in as a guest if you found your way to My home and had the gall to request to come in and look around.

Thea

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RE: Territorial? - 10/27/2006 5:50:32 AM   
Kalira


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I find it highly amusing that when one posts looking for validation to their actions, and do not get the response that they seek; suddenly it becomes "someone hacked my account' or 'that was not me posting, really'

Uh huh.



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RE: Territorial? - 10/27/2006 7:11:58 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: Arpig
If your master wants you to apologize and you are indeed his slave, then you apologize as nicely and sweetly as you possibly can. Otherwise your claim to being a slave is somewhat suspect, don't you think?

I don't think apologies are something that can be ordered- any more than any emotion or sincere inner reaction.  I wouldn't want someone to apologize to only because they had been ordered to do so and I wouldn't call someone's devotion to their master into question just because they didn't agree with them on an issue like this.

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RE: Territorial? - 10/27/2006 7:31:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: subartist4dom

This is an issue that came up rather recently here between master and me.  He had brought a slave over to play with and needless to say the slave was crying shortly after.  Master took her home apoligizing, but the slave refuses to accept his apology for my actions.  Nor will I apologize since I see no reason to.  Here are somethings that came to light in the discussion.

1.  Since I myself am a slave, I wasn't taking lightly to having another slave doing the tasks that I do.  Dishes, cooking and above all the laundry are things that keep me busy since I am not one for watching TV. 

2.  There is a unmentionables around.  This presents a problem since I'll guard them.  I doubt any slave or person would feel very comfortable with someone watching them like they are dinner. 

3.  Thanks to the military and having to spend countless hours with females I've come to the point where I barely tolerate females.  Too many times dealing with the ones that lie, cheat, steal, and do many nasty things that any master would strangle them for.  I have rarely met one that (especially the ones master knows) aren't trying to sleep with master.  Pretty sad when females offer 100 bucks for a few hours.  So yes if you've guessed that I hate females, then give yourself a cookie.  Its in general though so once I know you better I might actually give you the time of day.

4.  Having Dakota and Coffee (wolf-dogs) around creates a very uncomfortable enviroment to alot of people.  Even master's parents will eye them wearily since they are rather large.  I'm sure the slave that was here feared them since they followed her every movement. 

5.  I don't trust people very easily after what my ex did.  No he was not into BDSM, but just plain abusive.  Which brings the fact that I trust master only and would only respond to him.  Another master, as many already have, would only find me to be rather rash and defiant. 

So master and I are wondering.  Is it territorialism or the Mama Bear effect?  Or both?  Master also wants to know if this has happened with others too. 


I just think it's sad you saw fit to take out your frustration on the slave you Dom. bought to the house, afterall, it wasn't for her to know how unhappy you'd be. It was however your Dom's. responibility to FIND OUT how you felt about him bringing home another slave.

Did you and he not talk about it at some point early in the relationship?.

And yes, I think you were being territorial, leaving the slave in no doubt that she was in YOUR domain.


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RE: Territorial? - 10/27/2006 7:33:06 AM   
happypervert


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Kix,

Why is it that your profile comes up not found?

That's because Kix are for unmentionables!

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RE: Territorial? - 10/27/2006 7:35:59 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Ahhhhhhhh, people are still answering questions about an issue that was just a figment of someone's imagination???

Step awayyyyyyyyyyyyyy from the pipe!


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RE: Territorial? - 10/27/2006 7:59:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Ahhhhhhhh, people are still answering questions about an issue that was just a figment of someone's imagination???

Step awayyyyyyyyyyyyyy from the pipe!




Er......not sure I follow? you mean this post was made up?. How d'ya know?. And by the way, I don't smoke, I drink (hic!).

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RE: Territorial? - 10/27/2006 9:10:40 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Ahhhhhhhh, people are still answering questions about an issue that was just a figment of someone's imagination???

Step awayyyyyyyyyyyyyy from the pipe!



hehehe...but yet YOU still checked in as well...LOL! Hard for humans to resist drama, though we try or best i am sure...*grin

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RE: Territorial? - 10/27/2006 10:31:37 AM   
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Status: offline 		But the fun part now is how many people will answer, not having read the thread.

i've done it twice, and both times, i felt like an idiot.  i wonder though,  Is there anything to be said for giving advice, or answering questions without gathering all the info?   i'm thinking if my Dom or Master does that, i get rilly rilly pissed, yet we do see a lot of posts that start with  "I admit I haven't read the replies, so I hope I'm on target.."

Wow. 

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RE: Territorial? - 10/27/2006 12:27:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		I just have to say I've read this whole thread and this is the funniest shit I've read on this board in a while! 

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RE: Territorial? - 10/27/2006 1:43:01 PM   
corsetgirl


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Status: offline 		Yeah, I have to agree...between dogs, misunderstandings, doms dressing in women's clothes and washing cars, and subs being made to do push ups in whipped cream...hmmm...sounds better than a Jerry Springer episode...although he did bring some entertainment when he was on Dancing with Stars...but I digress.

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RE: Territorial? - 10/28/2006 1:34:34 PM   
Emperor1956


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Ahhhhhhhh, people are still answering questions about an issue that was just a figment of someone's imagination???

Step awayyyyyyyyyyyyyy from the pipe!


Careful, these weirdos live in Iowa, apparently.  And apparently they have a pattern of coming to visit people who post here.  Who knows who will show up at your door?

E

< Message edited by Emperor1956 -- 10/28/2006 1:35:31 PM >

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RE: Territorial? - 10/29/2006 11:34:03 PM   
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I wouldn't call someone's devotion to their master into question just because they didn't agree with them on an issue like this.

You wouldn't, but I would. To be honest, if I had a slave and told him/her to appologise, then I fully expect him/her to do exactly that. Whether the appology is warrented or not is neither here nor there, if the person identifying as a slave does not make the required appology, then they are not being much of a slave, IMNTHO (In My None Too Humble Opinion).


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