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BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/29/2006 10:52:37 PM   
MasterNdorei


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Status: offline 		My first fantasy had a BDSM theme, involving receiving a shot that would sting like a bee. Though i was abnormally young to discover orgasims, i do not believe i was sexually abused by that time in my life. Everything about that era seems healthy for me. i am just surprised by my age at the time. Has anyone else had BDSM fantasies at a young age?

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/29/2006 10:57:25 PM   
SlaveAkasha


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Status: offline 		At a pretty young age, I had the fantasy of being restrained and being made to have sex.  It was against my will, but I enjoyed it a lot.
 
I have no idea where it came from, but it was there anyway.  It was like I needed more to get me hot, but at that age I had no clue what any of it meant.  I think having someone in control of me all kinds of ways, not just for sex..has always been a part of my life.  I am not sure if it was because I had no control over me at any age, or I was just an early slave.
 
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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/29/2006 11:20:48 PM   
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Very, very young. At first centered totally around pain/torture. Way before I had any idea how sex actualyworked I had forced sex fantasies.

No abuse here either.


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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/30/2006 12:58:20 AM   
marked


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Status: offline 		Yes
I did
I had fantasy orgasms since I was very young.
Thry involved hospitals
Being strapped down tight,uncomfortably tight
Looking up into the bright  lights
And needles into my nipples
When I was very young I knew how good it was to get something in my ass
Not sure how
These are all hospital related things
I have been sexualy abused/molested twice that I remember
Th e early ones withthe needles into my breasts are just so freaky..
The fantasys made me  feel isolated

edited because I can not spell..its late..errr early lol

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/30/2006 1:44:09 AM   
Morrigel


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Status: offline 		According to my mother, she came home one day to find me wearing her make-up as "war paint" and whooping it up in circles around the full-grown man she had left to baby-sit me.  I cannot remember the incident at all, having been only six or seven at most at the time...but apparently I showed signs of being a baby domme early on. 

I had a lot of sexual thoughts and feelings as a child, although they were very jumbled and confused and it is difficult to sort out the specifically BDSM-related ones.  One of the few that stands out was my attraction to the Catwoman/Batman dynamic on the corny old television show, when I was very small.  I always wanted to be Catwoman, and to have Batman at my mercy.

I still love a man in a cape.

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/30/2006 5:33:21 AM   
Aubre


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Status: offline 		I had a fantasy from a very young age of having a tightly bound fully clothed full grown woman at my thrall. She wore boots and a skirt and a sweater and was bound laying on her back. All I ever would do in the fantasy is look at her.

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/30/2006 5:40:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		I grew up in a neighborhood (4 block area) of me and only boy children plus the adults.

I recall going to a Menards with my dad when I was four. I looked at those little sheds you can build outside the store and then we went passed the chains aisle and I remember thinking very clearly "I'm getting the baby house and locking on the boys inside until they do what I say".

Which is rather funny because in my neighborhood, even though I was not the oldest and I was the only girl, I did, indeed, control what happened in terms of what the children did. The boys wanted to play with me, they played what I wanted. Attempts to get me to fall into some gendered role (like being Wendy when played Peter Pan) resulted in me reversing things and saving the boys from the "bad guy".

I didn't need the baby house or the chains, I just needed to be me.

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/30/2006 6:48:49 AM   
juliaoceania


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I have always centered my sexual fantasies with being struck, most often being slapped in the face. I would push these thoughts away as they came into my mind when thinking of making love with a man, and then that image would pop into my head. That was when I was a teen. I also had strong objectification ideas about my sexuality since I was a child, such as being a stripper.

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/30/2006 6:52:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		Mine were the same as Slave Akasha.

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/30/2006 7:02:26 AM   
RiotGirl


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i wrote a story when i was 10 about these kids whose parents died in an avalanche.  They ended up going to an orphanage that had a very strict line of discipline. 

Well of course some one got in trouble  (ooo and how i looooved that) and i dunno how it happened, but all of the kids were lined up waiting for their whippings. 

Heh - the story never got finished.  I sorta wierded myself out.  I thought myself very strange.  My absolute fascination with slavery and any form it could possibly take and then my thrill of the whippings

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/30/2006 12:47:49 PM   
MasterNdorei


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Status: offline 		Wow! Thanks for all the great responses!

i have always believed these thoughts, desires, and fantasies are normal for some people. It's been great reading the first ideas of others who found their way into the lifestyle as adults. Makes me wonder how many more never give in and own up to them.

Still checking back for other posts~*
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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/30/2006 1:11:11 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		I never had fantiasies like these when I was younger.  However, I do know that Angel has always had a fantasy from when he wasa kid about being trapped in a spider web.  The spider was always a beautiful woman, the the web was made of silk hose. ITs something I found interesting, and I plan on playing off of once I get him permanently.

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/30/2006 1:46:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		I used to spank my younger sisters when we would play house!!!

odd huh

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/30/2006 2:23:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yep about captain caveman of all things. You remember the cartoon? I wanted him to rag me around by the hair

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/30/2006 2:44:21 PM   
Morrigel


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Status: offline 		Lol!  Awesome.  Suddenly I feel much better about my Batman fetish.

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/30/2006 4:33:11 PM   
LadyJulieAnn


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Status: offline 		I was fascinated with bondage and seeing people helpless from around age 7.  I used to tie up my dolls and started writing stories involving kidnapping at age 10.  I went a LONG time before I accepted my fantasies and incorporated them into my relationships, but life was good when I finally did. 

Be well,
Julie

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/30/2006 4:35:55 PM   
Kalira


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Status: offline 		No, my first introduction to the 'kink' ( and I use this word because that is actually how my late husband introduced me ) came when i was about 22 years old  Before that, I had never even thought about it or fantasized about it.

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/30/2006 4:36:01 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyJulieAnn

I was fascinated with bondage and seeing people helpless from around age 7. I used to tie up my dolls and started writing stories involving kidnapping at age 10. I went a LONG time before I accepted my fantasies and incorporated them into my relationships, but life was good when I finally did.

Be well,
Julie


I did this with my Barbie dolls. That Barbie had all the others waiting on her hand and foot, tying them up, beating them, bossing them around, it was great.

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/30/2006 4:47:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		yes i started very early: I was 12 years when i be used by someone of the same age as me.It was my  first time, when someone who i liked,took me real. i got  much frightend,but at least i liked it  very much to be used like a dog,or how ever , for the other persons fun.At 16 i gave someone myself like a present,and for me it was real to be owned by someone else. since this time i have this dream ,one day Real to be owned  by a beautiful Lady. to day i be much older,and i know this dream will never end.  In my youth i liked to be closed in very little rooms, bags or slim places,where i cant move.I think the  dream of bondage was born in my youth. Nothing dreams has changed.To be owned by a Lady it wil be my future.

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RE: BDSM childhood fantasies - 10/30/2006 7:13:54 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyJulieAnn

I was fascinated with bondage and seeing people helpless from around age 7. I used to tie up my dolls and started writing stories involving kidnapping at age 10. I went a LONG time before I accepted my fantasies and incorporated them into my relationships, but life was good when I finally did.

Be well,
Julie


I did this with my Barbie dolls. That Barbie had all the others waiting on her hand and foot, tying them up, beating them, bossing them around, it was great.

I used my barbie dolls too.  I used to strip them naked and tie them up,and suspend them in various positions.  For me I *was* the doll, and it was some faceless stranger doing those things to me.  I also had fantasies at a very early age of something like a "wooden horse", imagining I was restrained with something hard hurting my genitals and the more I struggled the greater the pain.

My first fantasies were always about being forced to do things, often while bound with rope.  When I was about 8 I wrote a story about being attacked and raped by a group of boys in my class - and this was long before I had any idea what sex was or how it was done.  All I knew is I had this idea in my mind about people rubbing up against each other, and that it felt good.  My mother found the story and was horrified - I told her it was a nightmare I'd had, and I was sure never to write any of my deviant desires on paper ever again.

I was never abused that I am aware of, and have always found it comfortable to submit to and serve my partner, even in vanilla relationships before I knew I wanted to be a slave.  My Master says I'm just a natural sub.

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